"Your Highness, Weak Willow has something to ask for." Yang Qiaoliu rarely called His Royal Highness, instead of being a sister before, this is also the first time she has put forward her own ideas, before she has always been a submissive image, always passively accepting the requirements of others, whether it is reasonable or not, and never thinking of competing for her own interests.

"But it doesn't hurt to say it." Chen Lihua rubbed her head and said with a headache.

"I'm thinking...... Can this approach be taught to others? Yang Qiaoliu's face was still red, and he whispered.

Don't do it, you're enough to be heartbroken, are you trying to me off directly? Chen Lihua shook her head and refused: "It's okay to make you a piano fairy, if you find out a few more times, I'm afraid even you won't be able to maintain it." ”

"No, no, no." Yang Qiaoliu waved his hand in a panic and whispered. "I am very grateful for everything Your Highness has done for me, and I am very grateful that you can hold your own happiness in your hands, but sometimes I think about it...... There are certainly not a few people like my family. Why not start a course and teach other sisters who are depressed after marriage how to win back their husbands' hearts? ”

The world is very big, the family is naturally strange, there are model couples like Li Qingzhao, the two of them are brilliant, and they have the same hobbies - Jinshi research, naturally the couple is deeply in love, but more attention is paid to raising the case and eyebrows, respecting each other like guests, there is no emotion before marriage, and there is no passion after marriage, you can say that such a family is linked by responsibility, or it can be said that it is actually a cold and cold violence.

"The sisters of the Drunken Spring Pavilion really know a lot...... Teaching a little bit is enough for many sisters to use in their lives. In fact, no one has ever told us what to do when we get married. ”

Chen Lihua fell into thought, there is one thing to say, indeed, from ancient times to the present, no one has ever taught how to please the opposite sex, if the men can still visit the Qinglou in the actual combat to know the truth, then the women are really black-eyed, at most they look at the goblin fight before getting married, and go back to ask the elders about their experience after getting married.

Start a class? How to hook a husband's heart? How to fight the mistress? No, it's called a pet concubine. Chen Lihua thought about the feasibility of this matter.

Don't, it's hard to come here and teach others how to please men...... No matter how you think about it, this will become a shame for women. Seeing that Chen Lihua was actually thinking, the cold sweat of the system came down, and she hurriedly persuaded.

"Why learn how to get your husband's attention? Why not go any further? ”

"How to go further?" Chen Lihua also raised interest.

"Become the head of the family." Liu Muyang's inspiration came up. "As the so-called male protagonist outside, female protagonist inside, this master must be grasped."

"From how to please the mother-in-law, to how to attract the husband, to how to educate the children. Be the one in the family who really holds the power. ”

“…… Does this make any difference to you? ”

"One is to satisfy self-worth by attracting a husband, and the other is to control a husband by controlling the family, which is completely different."

"It's not all about being a housewife, and you're still talking about flowers."

"It's completely different, if you don't occupy the so-called high ground of public opinion, others will occupy it, what is the power of the wife? If you don't jump to a conclusion first, you'll be preempted by others, and what's even more sad is that it's often the uninteresting old masters who make the conclusions, and they know a fart woman. Would you like to hear our story there? ”

"I want to hear about it." Chen Lihua beckoned the others to eat first, and turned on the autism mode again.

"In the beginning, the patriarch of the tribe was a woman, and the children knew only their mothers, not their fathers."

"Reasonable, because the child may find that he has recognized the wrong father, but as long as he is not wrong, he will not recognize the wrong mother." Chen Lihua nodded approvingly.

…… The system can only assume that it does not hear. "Then, women can still achieve something, just as the women of the Shang Dynasty are good, and the widows of the Warring States are Qing, but they are very few. In the Han and Tang Dynasties, it is still common for women to remarry, in order to encourage childbearing, widows are often paired, as a princess, if the princess is still young, remarriage is not a rare thing, and it is not impossible to raise a face, don't be too public. In the early Song Dynasty, women could also go to some large gatherings, such as the Shangyuan Festival, but in the middle of the Song Dynasty, they began to bind their feet. ”

"What's that?" Chen Lihua asked.

"Wrap your feet in a cloth to stop them from developing to achieve a petite and cute effect." Chen Lihua felt a shudder when she heard this, why did she do this?

"In the Ming Dynasty, the archway of chastity was further popular, even if it was a princess, the horse died to guard its chastity. There was a princess named Princess Yongning in the Ming Muzong period, who married a tuberculosis ghost, and her husband died within two months. ”

"So you understand? There are some things, if you don't seize the right to speak as soon as possible, the devil knows what will become of it in the future? To take the simplest example, foot binding, it is actually quite simple to stop this behavior from happening. ”

"How?" Chen Lihua blurted out.

"Write a good essay on the feet." Liu Muyang said something unbearable with a serious face.

……？ Chen Lihua was glad that she was still not drinking water,

"Think about it, what is the origin of foot binding? It's nothing more than two points, one is that I think the three-inch golden lotus is good-looking, and the other is that I think that women don't need to go out, just stay at home and keep the woman's way. Case. So wouldn't it be better if we corrected their wrong aesthetics? Write a long essay detailing the benefits of beautiful feet, beautiful arches, rounded toes, fleshy soles, a woman lying on the bed, her calves cocked, her green white toes curled up unconsciously with the shaking, and bright nail polish on them, just as nervous as their owners. If men think that normal feet are beautiful, will they still produce foot binding? ”

So you're not telling a joke...... Chen Lihua was speechless for a while, she didn't expect the system to be serious.

"Do you understand? If you don't shout out the power of women before it's too early, it will only be infinitely compressed later. At first, you were not allowed to be an official, then you were not allowed to study, and finally you were not even allowed to let out the door. Do you think it's embarrassing to look like this now? There will only be more sadness waiting for you in the future. ”

"So ......"

"So let's grasp the power that can still be obtained now, including the right to go out, the power to control the goods, anyway, there are few arithmetic geniuses in the scholars, if it becomes a custom for women to manage the housekeepers, will there be a situation where women are not allowed to go out? If a woman needs to visit her shop often, will there still be cases of small feet being tied? ”

Chen Lihua suddenly felt like a thousand pounds of heavy burden on her shoulders, this is not a simple housewife, this is a fight for survival and power as a woman!