After spending most of the day in her hometown, Jiajia was ready to go back to the city. The previous video storage is almost used, and she has to hurry back to work. But before leaving, the two children were reluctant to go back, and the old man was reluctant. The two were in a dilemma, so they had to let the two little ones stay here and go back first, and let Lin Mingxu pick them up at night.

This month's theme is "Time", which focuses on the changes of elders, such as the phenomenon of intergenerational parenting. Jiajia had collected some materials two days ago, but a few more interesting jokes flashed in her mind just now, and she had to go back and record two of them.

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"Hello everyone, I'm Jia Ji. Today I want to talk to you about time and the changes in my parents. Have you noticed that as you get older, the principles that the older generation adheres to are not so firm?

When I was a child, I didn't like to eat the outer layer of skin, so I had to peel off the steamed bun before eating it every time, and then throw it to our puppy to eat. But my mother didn't like me to see this problem, and every time she saw me peeling my steamed buns, she said that I was wasting food.

Over time, I didn't bother to fight, and then I actually got rid of this bad habit. Even if sometimes the outer layer of the steamed bun becomes soft and collapsed due to water vapor, I can eat it without changing my face.

But at noon today, when my mother saw me eating the steamed scalp directly, she asked me to remove the steamed scalp and eat it again! Oh my God, I froze at the time, you know? I asked her, don't you think I'm wasteful? What did my mom say wasting it? Remove it and give it to the puppy!

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You say, this change, means that my treatment has been improved? Or is it lowered? ”

“……”

After recording this, Jiajia focused on complaining about the problem of the next generation, which was also a feeling. Lao Lin's family, she and Jianjian's generation definitely grew up spoiled. But since the sugar bag came back and the younger brother's rice balls were born, their little treatment was not enough.

For example, the second uncle, who has always been loud, involuntarily lowers his voice by eight degrees every time he sees a sugar packet, in Lin Cheng's words, it is like a different person. The way Uncle used to treat them was to smash red envelopes vigorously, saying that he didn't know what we wanted to buy, and he wouldn't choose, so he gave money to buy it.

But since the first two years, the treatment of sugar packets has become buying milk powder, toys, snacks and so on. And when you buy milk powder, you know how to ask about the source of milk, and when you buy clothes, you know if it is cotton...... In the first half of the year, when the dumplings were celebrated for 100 days, in addition to the red envelopes, they also brought some fish oil and spirulina, saying that they were specially brought back by friends from abroad.

For another example, Mother Lin, who was angry and reluctant to beat and scold her children when she was young, inadvertently used "cold violence", and also learned to choose to communicate and solve in a more equal way when Sugar Packet and Qiaoqiao made mistakes.

For another example, Father Lin, who doesn't like to talk much, tells stories no worse than the old man when he plays with sugar packets. When I went back this weekend, I refreshed my cognition again. She actually saw her father holding nursery rhymes and short stories to read to Tang Yuan! It's subdued, and it's standard Mandarin.

She's figured it out!

It turns out that those things that are not cared about when they are parents will be cared about when their children are also parents.

It turns out that the warmth and care that those children did not enjoy will eventually be enjoyed by their children.

What if you don't have grandchildren?

Then I have to mention the second uncle, probably because Lin Cheng and Lin Chu have never planned to get married, and they don't have grandchildren to spoil themselves, so they simply use their tenderness on their two sons.

Jiajia heard Lin Chu complain more than once that the second uncle cared too much about them. In the winter, before the second aunt thought about it, he would take out the bedding in the room of his two sons to dry; In the summer, when it is hot, I will tell them not to eat the melons and fruits that have just been taken out of the refrigerator, but to let them sit for a while before eating......

These actions that make Jiajia feel both warm and funny are numerous, all of which show that the parents who were once young and vigorous and blindly beat recklessly, finally understood the true meaning of life under the baptism of years and the growth of experience.

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"Ding Dong~"

"Heh~ When did you come back? What about children? Jiajia was woken up by Lin Mingxu's artificial dingdong sound, and looked behind him as soon as she greeted him.

"You didn't pick them up in town?"

Lin Mingxu sighed lightly, pulled Jiajia out of the chair, and pressed it on the couch in the living room. Then, take off your shoes, lie on Jiajia's lap, and exhale contentedly. "How long has it been since we had time together?"

Jiajia smiled, this guy wouldn't have deliberately not picked up the child, right? But thinking about it, it is understandable that during this time, her mind was all on the two little ones who had just started school, and she was a little ignoring Lin Mingxu.

"How's your work going? I see the bags under your eyes coming out! Jiajia motioned for Lin Mingxu to close his eyes, and gently pressed Lin Mingxu's eyebrows and temples with his thumb.

Quietly enjoying the massage service of his beloved, Lin Mingxu wanted to hum a little song comfortably. "The hardest part has passed, and the work can be done. However, after all, I haven't been in the agency for three years, so it's really a bit difficult. He doesn't have the habit of reporting good news or bad news here in Jiajia, but spreads out every side of himself so that Jiajia can see it clearly.

"Well, I believe in your abilities! It is inevitable that it will be difficult to change to a new environment, and you can see how well the children adapt to it! Well...... Really not going to pick up the kids? Sugar packets are no problem, I wish I could have more fun at home! What about bridges? His grandparents haven't seen anyone in a week, right? Jiajia knew that Lin Mingxu's parents were happy to see Qiaoqiao and her close, but they didn't go back on weekends, did it really matter?

"I called Qiaoqiao to pick up, and the two of them had fun at home, and said that they would pick it up tomorrow morning!" Lin Mingxu didn't dare to tell Jiajia that Qiaoqiao was willing to come back, but under his hint, he knew that he could play with his little brother for one more day, so he happily stayed.

Jiajia really didn't doubt it, because when she left at noon, the two little ones didn't want to come back. It's rare to go back to your hometown to have fun, and it's not okay if the two of you don't have fun. However, she thought that as long as Lin Mingxu called, she would come back obediently.

"Then you remember to pick it up early tomorrow! They don't seem to have finished their homework yet! Since she didn't take it, Jiajia decided not to worry about it. Pick it up tomorrow and talk about tomorrow.

"Well, I'll be early tomorrow morning!"

"Okay!"

Jiajia continued to press Lin Mingxu's temples, she also stayed in state-owned enterprises, so she can empathize with Lin Mingxu's state. The work in the system seems to be glamorous and stable, but the human relationship is much more complicated.

But life is like this, and if you choose a path, you must go on without regrets. Just like she chose to do self-media, it has been almost a year, but she has never dared to accept advertisements easily, for fear that she will accidentally ruin her previous results.

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