If you want to see a person clearly, it's actually very simple.

Calm down and pay attention to each other.

See how the other party behaves when facing various problems.

Is it panicked, or is it calm and composed?

Is it impatient and anxious to throw the problem on others and then shirk the responsibility, or is it to face the problem head-on and have the courage to take it?

Is it hysterical and only caring about venting his anger, or is it calm and thinking of various ways to negotiate with certain people?

In general, when facing the same problem, people with different personalities, of course, will behave differently.

If you are cowardly and stupid, you will try to avoid problems. Losing your temper, beating someone, and only caring about your own emotional venting are all outwardly upward manifestations of this type of person.

And those who are strong and intelligent will face problems head-on.

By taking a variety of measures, you can achieve your own goals.

Chen Yuanyuan has been fortunate countless times that she is lucky.

Married such a good husband.

After she talked to her husband Gao Jiangyuan about some of her business problems and made some mistakes, she didn't receive any cold words from her husband at all.

I didn't see the roll of my husband's eyes thrown at me.

Not to mention the insults that blow to one's self-confidence.

Since Gao Jiangyuan married his daughter-in-law, he has always maintained a state of respect for each other.

No one in this world is a saint.

Everyone makes mistakes sometimes.

As long as the other party makes a mistake, not a mistake in principle, everything is negotiable.

In the ups and downs of the merchant sea, it is necessary to maintain a good attitude.

The sea of commerce is like a battlefield.

It's not just about integrity.

In fact, he pays more attention to some means.

Like you come and go, you cheat, thick black way, sow discord, pull the tiger skin and pull the banner, the fox fake tiger might, the beauty plan, the anti-plan,...... These tactics are commonly used by some old fritters.

Gao Jiangyuan felt that his daughter-in-law was still tender in terms of business.

Although every time he heard about his daughter-in-law, she earned her own money.

However, Gao Jiangyuan always thought in his heart that his daughter-in-law was a layman.

When it comes to an industry, if some people don't settle down and work hard in it for decades, then some people really can't talk about that kind of serious businessman.

It was because of this view that Gao Jiangyuan did not speak ill of his daughter-in-law when he lost so much money.

Instead, when his daughter-in-law blamed herself, he opened his mouth to comfort her.

"It's okay!"

"That's how it works."

"Today there is a gain, tomorrow there is a loss. No one can guarantee that you will always earn. ”

"You are like our old unit, how good the benefits were in the past! But if you look at the present, it's not the same as it was then. ”

"The moon is full of waxing and waning, that's all common sense. So, don't be sad, don't blame yourself, and don't be sad. ”

"Besides, money is something outside of the body. You don't have to take it personally. ”

"I used to advise you to go into business, the main reason is that I found that your daily life seems to be getting more and more unhappy...... and I used to see a lot of smiles on your face. But then I found out that you were often in a bad mood. And a person will always sit there dumbfounded, not moving. ”

When Gao Jiangyuan said this, he looked at his daughter-in-law affectionately and said, "Yuanyuan, I'm actually quite worried about you." ”

"When I was back last time, I saw some foreign magazines writing about depression. So, I'm really a little worried that you're suffering from depression because of such a peaceful and wave-free life. ”

When Chen Yuanyuan heard her husband say these words, she immediately laughed.

And laughing and laughing, the louder she laughed.

She really didn't expect that her husband had such a big brain.

How can you get depression for no reason?

Besides, she didn't feel how bad she was.

The reason why she sat there in a daze at that time was that she felt that she had nothing to do.

Idle panic, idle boring.

As for the other reasons, she felt like she really didn't.

But soon, Chen Yuanyuan turned her head and thought about it.

She suddenly felt that this was actually her husband's concern for her.

The reason why he didn't say these words to himself before was because he was worried about stimulating himself at that time, right?

Chen Yuanyuan thought uncertainly.

However, she quickly made a statement to her husband.

She first sat in her husband's arms.

Then he put his arms around his waist.

After resting her head on his chest, she unconsciously rubbed her face a few times.

She feels that her husband is always so broad-minded.

Every time she leaned into her husband's arms, she felt a special peace of mind.

His own man, that is, a man who stands up to the sky.

Reliable!

Every time I say it, it's very intimate.

When Chen Yuanyuan thought of this, she sighed in her heart, "What more can you ask for!" ”

Of course, psychological touching is moving, Chen Yuanyuan will always lose no time in showing those thoughts in her heart.

She looked up slightly.

Then a year looked at her husband seriously.

"Brother Jiang Yuan, you don't have to worry. Actually, I don't feel like I'm depressed. At that time, I must have been too idle. It felt like there was nothing to do......"

As soon as Gao Jiangyuan heard this, he raised his hands.

After changing his daughter-in-law's posture, he hugged her tighter.

Then, he touched his daughter-in-law's head warmly.

Then in her ear, she gently spat out a few words.

"Daughter-in-law, a few years ago, I just saw you panicking, so I wanted to find something for you to do."

"Our family is never short of money. I don't want you to go outside every day, in the wind, in the rain, to earn that little money, and live that hard life. ”

"It's all up to your personal interests. That's all for you to pass the time. If you find it interesting, you can move on. If you find it boring, you can still get a stable job and pass the boring days as before......"

"Anyway, how you want to spend your time, you decide."

Chen Yuanyuan heard her husband say this, and she finally understood her husband's good intentions.

So, she looked at her husband with a touched face.

"Brother Jiang Yuan, I think I can still do business."

"I feel like I've gained a lot of insight when dealing with those people."

"The other day, I met a jeweler. He's in his 40s, and he's been doing this for generations. ”

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