"The last time I picked them up from their school on my bike, it was raining outside, so I prepared two raincoats. As a result, our eldest daughter, she didn't let me wear ......"

"As soon as I put it on, she just stayed in that classroom and didn't come out......"

Chen Yuanyuan was stunned when she heard what her husband said in person.

How could she suddenly feel that her eldest daughter's nerves were a little abnormal.

When it rains for your own man, he goes out with two raincoats.

He must have been thinking at that time, wearing a suit for himself, such a pair of his own children, sitting on the back seat of the bicycle, sharing such a raincoat.

But...... Why doesn't the daughter want her dad to wear a raincoat?

Does she think that she and her younger brother are only fair when they are one person?

Under such doubts, Chen Yuanyuan began to ask her husband about the situation at that time.

"Husband, what did our daughter think at that time?"

"Did you ask her?"

"I asked."

After Gao Jiangyuan took a sip of tea, he replied slowly.

"At that time, I was so angry and asked our daughter why she didn't let me wear a raincoat, I asked for a long time, and she hid in the classroom and didn't speak."

"Later, I didn't rush home, I just sat there and waited. She also held back for a long time, she waited for her classmates to finish, and then she finally told me that I was wearing a raincoat and disgraced her......"

When Chen Yuanyuan heard this, her whole face was a black question mark.

Her word, "what," almost blurted out.

She really didn't understand why her daughter's father was just wearing a raincoat and disgraced her?

What's the idea?

In Chen Yuanyuan's heart, she really didn't understand.

However, no matter how she doesn't understand, then she also understands very well, well, the incident of her daughter last time is likely to hurt her husband's heart.

Don't say anything, how can an adult and a father be a father deal with his daughter?

But this man's heart is full of flesh.

If one person is kind to another person, and it is still the kind of reckless and unexpected,...... After realizing the other party, he faintly felt that he had embarrassed him...... Then he himself, well, will more or less feel a little bit of coldness......

Chen Yuanyuan stood in her husband's position and finally came to a conclusion after thinking about it from her own position.

Don't say anything, as a parent, how can you settle accounts with your children, or what......

Chen Yuanyuan used to be a child, and she instinctively felt that parents should be unconditional and unselfish to be good to their children.

But when she reached this age, and she became a parent in the real sense, she suddenly felt that how could parents be unprincipled and good to their children?

Life is all about living for oneself.

It's not for the sake of your parents.

Nor do they live for their children.

In this life, there is only one life.

There is only one life, so why should she treat others as her spiritual pillars?

Completely think of your whole life?

Therefore, Chen Yuanyuan, who slowly calmed down at this time, hugged her husband all of a sudden.

Then, she whispered comfort in his ear with a gentle face.

"Brother Jiang Yuan, you really suffered."

"I know that over the years, it has not been easy for you to take care of your children, and you have really suffered for me."

When Chen Yuanyuan said this, she choked up a little between the lines.

She really thinks that being a parent is not easy.

Especially the one who single-handedly brought up the child.

Chen Yuanyuan has put much less effort into raising her children than her husband.

Over the years, my husband has not only worked hard in the unit.

He was at home and had always been dutiful.

He treats himself, cares for himself, and is conscientious and responsible. A 100% good husband.

He treats his children gently and patiently, and he is also extremely conscientious and responsible.

There has never been a hysterical tantrum in front of his children.

The children were disobedient, and he just frowned slightly.

Didn't say anything.

I didn't force my children to do anything.

is such a reasonable and very reasonable good husband, good father, why can't she Chen Yuanyuan be on his side?

Therefore, under such conditions, Chen Yuanyuan was particularly gentle with Gao Jiangyuan and proposed: "Brother Jiangyuan, from now on, there will be more children in the family, and it will become more and more noisy. ”

"Like our family, the children have been fighting on both sides for the past three days. It's not the big ones that are bullying the small ones. It's the big one that came running over to us and complained to us, saying that the little one had touched their things......"

When Chen Yuanyuan said this, she sighed slightly.

"Brother Jiang Yuan, don't you think we should think of such a way now. A one-and-done solution. ”

When Gao Jiangyuan heard this, he immediately became interested.

"What's the solution?"

The children at the head of the family, when they are older, like to compare this and that.

Moreover, it is always the big ones who like to bully the small ones.

He didn't listen to anything.

treats the daughter of the head of the family, he is neither heavy nor heavy, nor light.

He could say that he was about to run out.

Chen Yuanyuan seemed to see the embarrassment on her husband's face.

So, she explained with a smile at this time.

"We can keep the kids separated."

"The eldest son and eldest daughter can live separately now."

"The youngest son, he is not very old, and he should still live at home."

"As for the first two,...... Well, let them live on campus? Enhance their sense of independence and self-management. ”

When Gao Jiangyuan heard this, he immediately hesitated.

"At their age going to live in school? Wouldn't it be a little too small? ”

"Of course, at home, I will never meet their requirements in the future."

"After that, I won't give them a dime of my money."

When Chen Yuanyuan heard this, she nodded lightly.

"That's right."

"I think that reasoning with children does not mean that those of us as parents must treat them materially."

"What we can eat, they can eat."

"In short, we must not let them be raised, for their children are more valuable than our parents."

"Since they rely on us to eat, they must first learn to respect their parents. Can't be too selfish. ”