59. It is a painful thing to have expectations
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"What is love?
Is it too difficult to fall in love in reality, so people are more keen to find lovers online?
You don't have to meet, you don't have to tolerate each other's bad tempers and bad habits, you just chat online and talk about your heart, such online lovers should make people feel very comfortable.
I met a sister today, she is about thirty-five years old, I originally thought that women at her age should be very rational and wise mature women, and they will not be easily confused and deceived, but in fact she was easily deceived by netizens under the guise of love, and the amount is quite a lot, nearly one million.
But even if she knew that she had been deceived, her first reaction was not to hate the liar, let alone call the police, she continued to indulge in the love dream constructed for her by the liar, she didn't even care about the money she was cheated of, as long as the liar continued to fall in love with her online.
I don't really understand what kind of relationship it is, so that she can not care about being scammed, not caring about her money, as long as the scammer continues to love her. Even she already knew that the liar was not as good and handsome as he had fictionalized, and she still wanted to be loved by the liar.
Is a real-life lover too hard to find, or is an online lover too tempting? I think it's because people are tired of tolerating each other. Even though I tried to dissect myself for the other person to see, the other person didn't bother to look up at me.
I was a little angry, but I couldn't do anything about it. Because I can't walk away without any nostalgia, and giving up liking someone is never something that can be done casually.
So I don't understand, how can those scammers on the Internet be so fully engaged, let the other party fall into it, but they can leave mercilessly? Doesn't it mean that two people chatting frequently will give the illusion of falling in love? Isn't this delusion worth the liars' nostalgia at all?
I hope that those liars will one day be able to understand the feelings of that sister. ”
Ding Cheng carefully read Jiang Guoli's column in her community, he could feel that she was in a bad mood, and she and Ding Cheng should still be in a cold war.
His mood inexplicably became a little irritable.
He didn't know if she was crying and sad because of Zhao Yan's cold violence, and he didn't know if she was still sitting in front of the computer at this moment, stupidly looking at the words she had written.
He was a fool, he knew that she was unhappy now, but he didn't know how to comfort her.
He clicked on the comment box under her column, but couldn't type the first word for a long time.
He thought about it for a long time, and after every line of words, he couldn't help but delete it and type it again.
After a long time, he suddenly remembered a passage, and commented in the comment box very seriously: "People who are lonely are especially prone to expectations. And having expectations is a painful thing, and the more expectations there are, the greater the pain. But even so, as a normal person, how can he have no desire at all. So, most people are going to have a bad time, and we happen to be the majority.
Scammers can withdraw without any nostalgia, because they expect different things, they only expect money, so after their expectations are satisfied, they can naturally withdraw without mercy. ”。
After Ding Cheng's comment was sent, within a while, many book friends replied to him under his comment.