Chapter 546: Do Unto Others as You Do Unto You
"Big brother, you like Mi Xiaoxiao, you have loved her for so many years, I want to roughly calculate. I think it's been about ten years. ”
Su Qing roughly calculated.
"Almost, I think I can only be a small meter in this life."
Su Zhe thought of Mi Xiaoxiao, and his heart was still involuntarily sweet.
"Then I want to ask my eldest brother a word, what I'm talking about is if, if one day Mi Xiaoxiao and you marry and then marry n years later, you suddenly find that you fall in love with other men and are with other men."
Su Zhe was anxious.
"Don't talk nonsense, Xiaoxiao is not such a person."
The angry Su Zhe had already stood up.
looked at Su Qing condescendingly, that attitude was on the verge of collapse.
"Big brother, what I'm saying is if, think about it seriously, if you get married in the future, twenty or thirty years later, suddenly one day Mi Xiaoxiao tells you that she is in love with another man and wants to divorce you.
After the divorce, she really married other men. It's just that the life after marriage was probably unsatisfactory, and he was abandoned in the end. Then she turned her head and begged you bitterly. Tell you that she still wants to be with you, that you are her true love. ”
Su Zhe was almost powerless to fight back by these words.
After these words, he suddenly understood what his sister meant.
He even thought about Mi Xiaoxiao's situation with other men, and he would go crazy in distress.
My sister just put the situation of her father and mother on herself.
When he thinks about it, he gets angry and wants to destroy everything.
Especially thinking about if Mi Xiaoxiao betrayed herself and was with other men.
He will never forgive Mi Xiaoxiao.
Decadently sat down in his chair.
Yes, my sister just thought that if she gave him an assumption, he would feel that the world would fall apart.
But the mother is the one involved.
It was his mother who was hurt, so why did he feel forgivable and what reason did he have to make decisions on his mother's behalf.
It's really who doesn't feel pain if the knife doesn't cut at anyone.
"You see that you don't want to do to others, if this happens to you, it's hard for you to tell yourself that you can forgive Mi Xiaoxiao without any guilt, I just made an assumption, and you are already angry like this. If this really happened to you, you would definitely not forgive Mi Xiaoxiao. So why do you ask your mother to forgive your father?
Why are you so confident that this is a family reunion? You're just a bystander, and you think it's the reunion you want to have. A complete family is not what the mother wants. ”
Su Qing's voice was not loud, but her words were very harsh.
Of course, she knows that maybe in every child's mind, her parents can be together, and that is a happy ending.
But this ending is only for the child, for Su Yongcheng.
Maybe it wasn't a perfect ending for the woman who hurt the most.
At least Su Qing doesn't see it that way.
Mother has been through so much, and among all the endings she has seen in her previous life, there is no good ending for her mother.
So if you really meet a man who cares for her, takes care of her, and loves her in this life.
Why do you have to go back to Su Yongcheng?
Su Qing didn't have a great hatred for her father.
But she believes that most people are the same, and they don't need to be unfaithful a hundred times at a time.
Su Yongcheng's record has set a lot of obstacles for his future path, at least if he is his mother He Hui, how dare he easily believe in this man again!
"I, I ......"
Su Zhe suddenly felt that he was running out of words, and he couldn't say anything to justify.
Oh, yes.
If this matter was put on himself, he might never be able to accept this kind of ending.
But if he puts it on his mother, he will ask her to think about them and accept this result for their sake.
Why?
Is it just because he's a son?
"Big brother, as long as her mother chooses the happiness she wants, whether she chooses her father Su Yongcheng or Uncle Liu. I feel that as children, we should all give her the greatest blessing.
Mom's life is not easy, and she has been paying for this family for the first half of her life. In the end, all of a sudden, all the happiness that he had protected collapsed. Now my mother has finally stood up and become a strong and beautiful woman. I would like her to spend the rest of her life looking for her happiness.
You are her son, you think about it, whether you are doing it so well, many times you will never think of what your mother does for you.
But more often than not, you get your mother's affection for you, but you don't think about your mother at all. Big brother, you are not a child anymore, you have always been very willful to do what you want to do for so many years, but you have never considered more family members.
Your love is somewhat overbearing, and some is unreasonable.
I hope you can put yourself in other people's shoes. Instead of simply using your temper to vent your anger. Mother doesn't owe you, but you owe her a lot. ”
Su Qing didn't know why her eldest brother hadn't grown up in this life, was it because she interrupted the hardships that her eldest brother should have experienced in his previous life?
So there is no suffering for the eldest brother to grow, and without setbacks, he can't grow into a truly responsible man.
If that's the case, Su Qing feels that she should be held a lot responsible.
Su Qian patted her sister's hand, her sister was a little emotional just now, although her tone had been very steady, but she knew this sister very well.
My sister loves her mother more than all of them.
"Su Zhe, Su Qing and I have the same thoughts. Mom's life is not easy, if she wants to pursue her own happiness. No matter who she chooses, as a child I will fully support her. ”
Su Qian's words made Su Zhe completely fall into deep thought.
He always thought that his eldest sister was as conservative as he was, and would think that what he was doing was right. But he didn't expect that the eldest sister was completely different from what he imagined.
"Su Zhe, in fact, the eldest sister and Su Qing are very right. One thing you didn't know was that she had already talked to me about your relationship with me a long time ago, and as long as I was able to complete all my studies in Milan, she would have agreed to be together.
I should have told you about this a long time ago, but so many things happened at home after I came back. I've been busy with my mother, my big brother, my sister-in-law, and my grandmother. So I didn't explain this matter clearly to you, you have always misunderstood Mr. He. In fact, Mr. He has always considered many things from your point of view. She doesn't want to hurt you.
Even in the past two days, Mr. He called me and contacted me privately. Understand your feelings from the side. She thinks she understands your resistance to her remarriage. Even let me explain you, there is one more thing you probably don't know, Mr. He is very hesitant to remarry now, and is even ready to dispel the idea of remarriage. ”
The door was not closed, and Mi Xiaoxiao's words completely knocked Su Zhe into the abyss.