Chapter 254: Relatives Estranged 2
Lin Qi thought about it, that stupid little guy, the same sentence, had to be repeated with him seven or eight times before he could understand it. There was patience at first, but after a while, I didn't want to waste time on him.
"Some communication is not necessarily through words, but through action and games. She is a very sensitive child, and he can clearly sense the hostility and kindness of others. I'm not going to tell you what you've been through before, it's up to you to find out for yourself. But you have to remember that it's like when you're babbling, you don't know what I've been through, you just talk to me. I don't want you to communicate with him with disgust or sympathy. This is also a skill that you must learn as a family member. ”
"This too?"
"Knowing people."
"Knowing people?"
"Yes. There is no one in this world who is useless. If there is, it is that the people who used him did not use the wisdom of people and put him in the wrong position. ”
Lin Qi pondered Lin Ruo's words carefully for a while before responding: "Second sister, I understand. If you want to use a person well, you must first understand him; And if you want to understand him, you have to correct your own views and look at it with an open mind. ”
Lin Ruo touched Lin Qi's head, smiled lightly and said, "That's the truth." However, compared to 'others', Xi'en has an extra layer of identity than them, called 'family'. I'm not your own sister, but you treat me as your own sister. In the same way, Xi'en is also our loved one, understand? ”
"Understood."
Lin Qi grinned, but later, he was a little deflated: "Second sister, you are obviously only a little older than me, why do you know so much more than me?" ”
"You're only bigger than Xi En, and you know more than him!"
Although he said this, Lin Qi was not very excited, but pouted and said: "Second sister, are you laughing at me for 'being less than the top and more than the bottom'?" ”
Lin Ruo was surprised: "Did Mr. Cui talk to you about Lao Tzu?" ”
"Well, a little bit. Mr. Cui said that this 'Lao Tzu' has a very interesting name and a very interesting person, but the things he writes are quite boring. That's so right! ”
Lin Ruo made a "shhhh ”
Lin Qi was stunned for a moment and couldn't help laughing.
It seems that when the second sister was doing academics, she was also like this!
It turns out that the second sister, Mr. Cui, and him are all one person!
No wonder!
Lin Qi and Li Xien, two children of the same age, are already easy to get close to, especially Lin Qi, who has always been the youngest, naturally likes a little guy who is younger than him and younger than him.
However, half-year-olds at this age, especially boys, are particularly prone to impatience. Therefore, when Lin Qi found that the communication with Li Xien was too difficult, his enthusiasm to leave was mostly reduced.
However, after Lin Ruo's persuasion, Lin Qi's attitude towards Li Xien returned to the enthusiasm of the first meeting. At the dinner table, Lin Qi took the initiative to sit next to Li Xien, talking to Xien from time to time, and putting vegetables in his bowl.
Regarding Lin Qi's approach, Li Yan only glanced at it twice, and there was no superfluous expression. On the contrary, it was Li Xien, who looked a little restrained and helpless, looking at Lin Qi with innocent eyes, and didn't know how to refuse, so he could only lean towards Lin Ruo's side slightly and subconsciously, trying to find support.
Lin Ruo put down the dishes and chopsticks, hugged Li Xien, who was almost in his arms, and asked, "Xi'en, what's wrong?" ”
Li Xien hesitated for a moment, hugged the bowl and chopsticks, shook his head, and was silent.
Lin Ruo glanced at Lin Qi, who was a little helpless, the enthusiastic young man was obviously a little frustrated, and Li Xien was obviously a little unsure of how to get along with him because of Lin Qi's capricious attitude.
Thinking of this, Lin Ruo leaned into Li Xien's ear and asked in a low voice, "Xi'en, are you angry with your aunt?" ”
Li Xien's eyes widened and he shook his head: "No, no." ”
"Is that the little uncle bullying you?"
Li Xien glanced at Lin Qi and denied it again: "No." ”
Lin Ruo deliberately pulled his face and tapped Li Xien's nose: "Lying children, the nose will become longer!" ”
Li Xien hurriedly touched his nose, and then said: "Xi, Xi'en didn't say, he lied." The little uncle is my aunt's, the closest person, very good. Yes, it's not smart...... Let's make the little uncle unhappy......"
Lin Qi silently watched Lin Ruo and Li Xien communicate, Lin Ruo was very patient, and spoke softly and gently.
In a trance, Lin Qi's mind vaguely reminded him of the picture of his childhood.
Third Young Master Lin has been a particularly naughty child since he was a child, and he himself is also very self-aware of this. Like Su Muyu and Luo Er, who often mix together, these three guys who don't like to read and only love to mischievous get together, it's just a troublemaker! Lin Qian's painstaking persuasion, harsh scolding, or severe punishment were to no avail.
In the end, it was Lin Ruo who came forward and "rescued" Lin Qi from Lin Qian's stick, and assured Lin Qian that she would teach Lin Qi and promise not to let Lin Qi cause anything more.
Unlike Lin Qian, Lin Ruo has always been gentle in his words, everything follows Lin Qi's wishes, does what he likes, and slowly guides him: Lin Qi doesn't like the subset of scriptures and history, so Lin Ruo tells him strange anecdotes; Lin Qi doesn't like to read and write, so Lin Ruo finds a way to entertain and educate; Lin Qi made an old mistake and wanted to be naughty, so Lin Ruo taught him how to "dig a pit" and deceive Su Muyu and Luo Er. In this way, unconsciously, Lin Qi found that he could actually understand what his father and the big shopkeeper were talking about, and he was able to find problems and say a lot of reasons to support his ideas. The most important thing is that because he repeatedly cheated his former "fox friends and dogs", they are no longer willing to take him to make trouble.
Although Luo Er verbally said, "It's amazing to have a sister covering", he is still very envious!
After all, among their group, only Luo Er has always been at the bottom of the oppression.
Therefore, since he was a child, Lin Qi has always been very close to Lin Ruo, he is very attached to Lin Ruo, trusts Lin Ruo very much, and admires Lin Ruo very much.
Subtly, he slowly wanted to become as good as Lin Ruo, although such efforts would take a long, long time to accumulate.
looked at Lin Ruo, who was patiently talking to Li Xien, and suddenly understood what she had just told him about "knowing people".
Kindness, isn't that the merit of Li Xien?
In Li Xien's cognition, he trusts two people the most, one is Li Yan and the other is Lin Ruo.
The former is his father, who is related to him, and the latter is someone who has built trust through Li Yan's story and his own slow contact.