"How do I make friends with my former self?" This question has bothered Li Yi for several days.

Her answer was: I don't know.

In the past, as long as she found that someone was too close to her, both men and women would definitely put up a cordon on each other. Unless she first became interested in others, the behavior of others who wanted the Lord to approach her could only be described in one word: "There are no doors."

The post on the table no longer bothered her, and Ling'er drafted the content of the reply, and she copied it and solved it. In its place is a new trouble—how to arouse the interest of the two of them in her, and then please them without a trace.

It's actually a lot like being in a relationship (she doesn't mean to be with those two people), and when you like a guy, don't be overly enthusiastic about him. The phrase "women chasing men compartment yarns" makes sense, but it is also methodical, and brute force cannot be used. The most irrational thing to do is to confess directly to the boy, unless he happens to like you too, or you are a standard Bai Fumei, otherwise you will never succeed.

There is a prerequisite for chasing boys: your appearance can't make him hateful.

A man who "has passed through thousands of flowers" said something that is not very pleasant, but pertinent: the outside determines whether you can be together, and the inside determines how long you will be together. This may seem harsh at first, but when you put aside your preconceptions and think about it, it makes sense.

Think about it from another perspective: How do you feel about a boy with knotted hair, half a pound of oil shaved off his face, and his clothes covered with stains confess to you? Even if he really loves you, holding a large bouquet of roses, kneeling in front of everyone, and tearfully telling the general manager of his love for you. What are the chances that you will be touched by him and decide on the spot to be with him?

This example is a bit extreme, but it illustrates the importance of the outside. Don't blame boys for judging people by their appearance, in fact, girls are the same, it's just that girls express themselves more implicitly.

When you're sure that your appearance doesn't annoy him, it's time to get moving.

The main theme of the action is to "create ambiguity", but don't give him a clear signal.

How to create ambiguity? This can refer to the miserable "Lin Youyou" who was scolded in the recently popular drama "Woman Thirty". Her "licking ice cream", this trick, is really pure and flirtatious. And it's a good idea to know what a guy thinks about him - if he hates you, he'll throw away the ice cream right away instead of taking a big bite. But this trick won't be used until later on, when you're confident that he won't throw the ice cream away. Don't use it as soon as you know it, be careful of making people offensive.

At the beginning, find a suitable excuse and let the two of them be alone. Make some slight physical contact, such as when he says something funny and you smile and pat him on the arm. Note that it's a "tap", not a "thrash". The strength should not be great, it should make his heart sour and itchy, and he wants more; Or "accidentally" rub your own arm against his hand to make him feel your body temperature; You can also inadvertently sweep the ends of your hair across his nose and let your hair fragrance penetrate into his heart.

In short, we must grasp a degree, don't make him disgusted, and let him linger.

He would think, "What the hell does this woman mean?" Do you like me? ”。 He doesn't get the answer to this question, he keeps thinking about you, and one day, the thought pops into his head: "Why do I think of her so often?" Do I already like her already? ”

Once the boy has determined his heart, he will take the initiative to confess to you.

It is important to remember that don't take the initiative to confess, don't take the initiative to confess, don't take the initiative to confess. Let the boy have the illusion that "he is the one who takes the initiative to chase you". Boys will cherish the feelings they take the initiative to fight for.

Don't think that you are a scumbag if you use such a routine, and only people who don't take their feelings seriously can be called "scum". You really like him, and both of you are single, and using the right way to be with the person you like is called "smart and wise".