She was forced to come out to pay New Year's greetings, her personality is dictated, she doesn't like to go out, she can't chat when she sees people, she won't please her elders, her father won't scold her, she will scold her every time, blame her mother for not teaching her well, and scold her.

  She wanted to find someone to talk to, and she didn't want to go down according to her family's arrangement.

  "What about you? What do you think? You remember, you are a human being, people have independent thoughts, you yourself will not be without ideas, without ideas. Ling Sheng tried to guide her.

  From her words, she knew that her father was the kind of man who was extremely controlling and dictatorial, and everyone had to do what he wanted, and no one was allowed to disobey him.

  Song Yiyan said that from childhood to adulthood, what she studied, which school she attended, what she worn, what she used, how she spoke and did things, and even who she made friends with, were all arranged by her family, and she only needed to follow everything they arranged step by step.

  "Ling Sheng, I don't want to be like this, I want to do what I like, I didn't like anything I liked before, my mother told me what I liked, I liked it.

  But now, I want to act, and only when I act again can I feel that I am happy. Song Yiyan finally stopped crying, and when she talked about acting, her eyes were shining.

  Ling Sheng figured it out, she has been controlled for a long time, and she doesn't even have the slightest sense of resistance, or she is afraid of her father's might, she doesn't dare to resist, because of her personality, except for crying or crying, she has no idea, she has been raised as a marionette, she doesn't dare to have a little sense of independence, and she hasn't completely erased her independent personality.

  Suddenly I thought of the first time we met, the arrogant and rough girl, roaring at her, must wake her up when she was eager.

  Although she is a little suspected of destroying other people's family relationships, she still has to say: "Song Yiyan, you are a person, you are not your parents' private property, you don't need to listen to them for everything, and go completely according to the life they have planned for you." ”

  Song Yiyan frowned, a little didn't understand, and looked at her suspiciously.

  Ling Sheng sighed and continued: "You have to learn to say no to people, you can't listen to them for everything, if you have something you like, you should boldly pursue it, don't look ahead and backward, otherwise you can only be led by the nose forever, like a robot who follows the instructions given to you by others." ”

  Song Yiyan pointed to her nose: "Am I a robot?" So what do I do? ”

  Ling Sheng is out of line, don't you want to be so stupid, my little ancestor, it's really hard to talk to her: "Do you know that there is a word called rebellion?" is resolutely not to listen to him, your father tells you to go east, you go west. ”

  Song Yiyan seemed to understand a little: "For example, my dad asked me to come out with him today to pay New Year's greetings, but I won't come out, what will I do with him?" ”

  Ling Sheng felt that she seemed to understand a little bit, but it was not like this: "It's something you think is right, you have to insist on saying no to him, your father asked you to come out to celebrate the New Year for your elders, it is basic social etiquette, unless you are out of human society, you can't avoid it, I didn't also come out with my father to pay New Year's greetings." ”

  When Song Yiyan heard her say Dad, she reacted in hindsight, and was startled: "Ling Sheng, your dad is Huo Ci, why haven't I heard of it." ”