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How should this question be answered?

It seems that Wang Yuhe cares about this matter very much, if she can't untie the knot, I'm afraid she will always be haunted.

"The same rice raises a hundred kinds of people, and some people are born different from our ordinary people." That's all Liu Ye can say.

"But, no matter how different it is, isn't it even family affection?"

In fact, Liu Ye can't understand the psychology of people like Master Feng, doesn't he care about anything else except those silver wealth? Wouldn't it really hurt to hurt your loved ones like this?

Regarding this issue, Liu Ye felt that it was time to talk to her properly. How I will get along with her in the future, what kind of things will happen to me is still unpredictable, and then I will say that since I have already decided so, then I should protect this girl first according to my own heart.

"Miss, I know this incident makes you sad, but you are not a child anymore, there are always thousands of strange people in the world that we cannot understand, we have to learn to adapt." Liu Ye slowly poured a cup of tea for Wang Yuhe, pushed it in front of her, and continued: "In this world, some people value money, some people value wealth, and some people value family affection and friends. You may not look at silver in your eyes, young lady, because you have never been short of money. What would you do if you were penniless and your loved ones needed a lot of money to save their lives? If no one had borrowed you taels of silver at that time, and your relatives had died because of it, would you still not care about the money in the future? ”

Wang Yuhe was stunned, she had never worried about money, and the things that needed money were the simplest things in her eyes.

"This ......"

"Also, if one day we inadvertently offend the people of the official family, people don't want money, they just oppress people with power, and finally they are oppressed and lose their lives, but you can't do anything, Miss. Will you crave power from then on? In order not to lose more important people, would you want power? ”

Wang Yuhe completely lost the ability to speak, his whole face was pale, and his hands trembled involuntarily. I have never thought about this, I have never thought about the problem from this angle, this thought is actually creepy, and my whole body is as cold as falling into an ice cave.

"You mean, uncle, he...... Is this understandable? Wang Yuhe was confused, and these words subverted her cognition.

Liu Ye shook his head: "I can't say that I understand, I can only say that you can't refuse this kind of existence, since this kind of behavior exists, we can't turn a blind eye or hide our ears and think that it doesn't conform to our world view, so it shouldn't exist." ”

"Existential...... Worldview? Wang Yuhe took a deep breath and said with a wry smile: "I can understand that some people sell or murder others for profit or for their lives, but I really don't understand that I will do this to my blood relatives......"

"Is there a difference? In the eyes of people who put interests first, everyone else is except themselves, and if others are in their way, they must be eliminated, even if that person is their own relatives. Are there few such examples throughout the ages? For example, the change of the throne, how many can truly inherit the filial piety of the father and the son, and the inheritance of brothers, friends and brothers? Which emperor's path to the throne is not stained with the blood of both his opponents and relatives? ”

Wang Yuhe trembled, yes, the royal family has no family affection, or the royal family affection only exists in the absence of a conflict of interest.

"But that's the throne, one person is above 10,000 people, it's still worth fighting, but what does his Feng family have?" Wang Yuhe wrinkled his eyebrows and looked at Liu Ye, really not understanding.

"Just as we look at the royal family's seizure of the throne, perhaps that position is more important than relatives, after all, once the successor is determined, the brother becomes the monarch and the minister, and it is worth fighting. Your Wang family is rich in the world, and you can't look down on the Feng family's wealth, but in the eyes of poorer people, Master Feng's family is already rich and noble, which is just the best commentary on the theory of relativity. ”

Wang Yuhe sighed deeply when he heard this, and said after a while: "Perhaps, I don't have a position to say this, I always think that people are still the most important." ”

"Miss is not wrong, your words and your concept are not wrong, it's just that some people can't understand it, life is just a few decades in the world, everyone knows that they can't live a long life, but they all hope so much. Everyone knows that everything can't go as they wish, but they will still say everything to each other in the New Year, but it's just their own wishes. Because of the difference in personality and experience, some people will think of solutions when they encounter setbacks, and some people will complain when they encounter setbacks. ”

"What should we do in this situation?"

"Keep the original intention, uphold your consistent bottom line, do not follow the trend to go high and low, and do not think of the world with compassion. Try your best to do your own thing, do what you can do to make yourself feel at ease, this is what you can do, Miss. ”

"In the end, I can only take care of the people around me...... "Wang Yuhe laughed at himself, "it's still useless." ”

"A person's usefulness doesn't necessarily have to be reflected in helping others," Liu Ye reassured her: "A person's position determines what he can do." For example, a beggar can influence a limited number of people, even if he breaks his leg, it may just make a street chaotic, and if a high-ranking person looks at him, he may be able to destroy a family! Miss, you are in the boudoir, you can't show your face, all you can do is to be kind to the people around you, in the future, when you have a foothold in the capital, you have your own circle, you can call some friends in the circle, to do something meaningful. ”

Liu Ye stretched out his hand to cover Wang Yuhe's hand and shook it gently: "There is no need to fight for the moment, there are many things, you don't necessarily have a chance if you have a heart, but once you have an opportunity, you will do it when you have a heart." ”

This is even more awkward, but Wang Yuhe is so smart that he understands.

She breathed a sigh of relief, held Liu Ye's hand with her backhand, shook it tightly, and said, "Fortunately, I have you, otherwise I don't know how depressed I will be, this matter has really bothered me for a long time, it turns out that you can still think like this." ”

"It's good that Miss has figured it out, after all, Miss, the environment you have lived in since you were a child is too warm and simple, and the lord and Mrs. have spared no effort to protect you, but since you have embarked on the road of marrying far away, you can only support yourself in the future, and you can't be as simple as before. There is a way that if people don't offend me, I won't offend others, and we must remember that the heart of harming others cannot be dispensed without! ”

Wang Yuhe stared at Liu Ye for a long time, blinked his eyes, and laughed: "Your tone is like a nurse!" ”

Liu Ye's expression of earnest teaching is a stagnation, like an old lady?

Seeing that her face changed instantly, she couldn't believe it, Wang Yuhe was in a good mood, and pinched Liu Ye's face and said, "I lied to you!" ”

Liu Ye gasped, Miss, is it appropriate for you to treat a life mentor who has just instilled chicken soup for the soul in you?

Wang Yuhe smiled for a long time, looked at Liu Ye's helpless expression, paused and smiled, and said softly: "Ye'er, thank you." ”

Liu Ye showed a big smile, forget it, this little girl is such a ghost horse elf, I just like her, don't you?

Seeing that Aunt Wang was worried that her son's condition was getting thinner and thinner, Wang Yuhe felt very uncomfortable, and found that there were no outsiders in the house, so she couldn't help but step forward and hold Aunt Wang's hand and comforted softly: "Auntie, believe me, everything will be fine." ”

Although Aunt Wang has annoyed her these days, she is a relative of flesh and blood, and at this moment, seeing that the concern in her eyes does not seem to be fake, her heart softened, and she said sadly: "Son, thank you for your comfort, my aunt knows that she has been treating you slowly these days, don't blame your aunt, it's really your cousin...... It really bothers me! ”

Wang Yuhe couldn't say that her father had already made arrangements, since her father didn't let her tell her aunt, she must not say it, so she had to comfort her aunt silently.

"With my aunt praying every day and my cousin taking care of me, my cousin will get better. Feel relieved. ”

These words are actually very pale, but the strange thing is that Aunt Wang wants to hear the most at the moment, she is like grasping a life-saving straw, holding Wang Yuhe's hand tightly with both hands, and said sadly: "Yes, yes!" Rong'er, he'll be fine! ”

"Yes, it will be fine!" Wang Yuhe thought about the misery of his cousin being disliked by his biological father, and saw Aunt Wang's compassion for his cousin, he couldn't help but have mixed feelings, thinking of his father, who sent himself to marry thousands of miles away, and even spoiled him very much on weekdays, and for a while he was full of confusion and red eyes.

"We set off from the house when we left, after all, the cages have already been delivered, and it is closer to the dock, so my aunt will not come out at that time, and it is only right to guard my cousin carefully." Before leaving, Wang Yuhe said to Aunt Wang.

"I'm still too weak to go out, so I can only say goodbye to you here, good boy, don't forget to write when you get to the capital."

Aunt Wang knew that Wang Yuhe was a passer-by and was about to leave, but she was still a little reluctant, saying that what she needed most now was the support and comfort of her relatives. But Wang Yuhe's marriage is also a big event, a girl's big event, and she can't open her mouth to ask them to stay longer.

After leaving the Feng family, Wang Yuhe was still uneasy, after all, she was only sixteen years old, and it was too far-fetched for her to easily control her thoughts and ideas.

I thought that the experience of Red Kite City would end here, but before getting on the boat, a little bit of time to rest in the teahouse on the pier happened something that made several people unforgettable.

Whenever he thinks about it afterwards, Wang Yuhe feels that many things have been decided at that time, but neither he nor the other party expected that this fate would be so twists and turns.

But at this time, they just sat in the carriage, lifted the curtain to see the streets of the city that gave them many different experiences, and finally imprinted this city in their minds, as many pictures as possible.