Chapter 303: Good Intimacy
It can be said that Gao Jiangyuan is more capable than Chen Yuanyuan in this era.
But if you want to talk about the complexity of the mind, Gao Jiangyuan, who has not experienced the bombardment of information, is no match for a hundred Chen Yuanyuan.
Chen Yuanyuan has really seen a lot.
So for love, family, friendship, these things, she seems to have an instinctive distrust from the heart.
What is love?
She used to lie alone in bed in the silent and unoccupied night, bored in the moonlight outside, toasting a glass of red wine, and then gently closing her eyes, slowly understanding, and then asking herself.
To say the men she once soaked?
Chen Yuanyuan thought that it was impossible for her to have any true feelings with them.
In the circle, how can there be any true feelings?
Even if there are true feelings, it is all true and false.
Who knows what's in that so-called true relationship?
Besides, those men who were clamoring on the Internet back then, and she didn't marry, turned their heads, didn't they forget it immediately?
When they were in front of her, they showed such affection, but as soon as they turned their backs on him, they hugged their so-called beloved woman and went to bliss together.
Therefore, in Chen Yuanyuan's heart, this man's temperament is forgetful.
What they said before, they didn't admit it after three seconds.
The ones who slapped themselves in the face were actually themselves.
How can she believe such a man?
Of course, Chen Yuanyuan still knows very well in her heart that there are two sides to everything.
There is a good side and a bad side.
There is a simple side and a complex side.
There is a likable side and an abhorrent side.
It just depends on which side the person looks at.
In addition, this time is not another time.
Those men in modern times, regardless of their class, are so unpleasant.
And men in this era, if you get in touch with it carefully, some men are still quite cute.
Chen Yuanyuan is actually a contradictory person herself.
Before, I was very worried about myself, because I had to coax Gao Jiangyuan a lot, which caused me to feel a little bored. Finally completely tired of him.
However, when she was behind, Chen Yuanyuan suddenly felt that there was nothing wrong with this.
Gao Jiangyuan's advantages can completely overshadow some of his shortcomings.
Gao Jiangyuan is a person who is more sensitive to Chen Yuanyuan's emotions.
He was able to keenly capture it before, and Chen Yuanyuan didn't really agree with what he said before.
Later, she boasted about what she was most capable of,...... Actually, it wasn't her heartfelt words.
She seemed to be a little annoyed by the topic.
Moreover, she didn't seem to like herself very much just now......
Gao Jiangyuan's eyes darkened when he thought of this.
immediately subconsciously remembered this in his heart.
In fact, to say that this memory, as long as it is a heart, generally speaking, some memories of men will be much stronger than those of women.
Of course, some of these memories are some of the feelings that the woman has about the man during the relationship.
I can't look at it, I can't afford it.
Do you like him?
Did you take advantage of him?
As long as it's normal, I usually have this in my heart.
Gao Jiangyuan is not a person who blindly does things.
Although he is now five big and three thick. But he is still as delicate as before.
At this time, he felt that since Yuanyuan didn't recognize what he said, he would follow her wishes for the time being.
should be with her words.
Anyway, there are still a few years before the two of them get married.
Let's get along with each other for the past three years.
Run in.
After getting married, let's talk about it after we get married.
It is just useless to say more now.
Yuanyuan is young and doesn't know that what she said is actually for her good.
Gao Jiangyuan never planned to be a worker for the rest of his life.
Of course, he didn't want to be a senior minister for the rest of his life.
Gao Jiangyuan still has a particularly clear plan for his future.
Of course, as a person with a city government, what they want to do in the future, what they want to do, what kind of goals they want to achieve, they generally don't tell others directly about these things that haven't happened yet.
After all, when talking to the people around you or those strangers about their future life arrangements, work plans, goals, ideals, dreams, and other things, those listeners will mistakenly think that they are actually dreaming.
It's still a daydream.
Being ridiculed, being ridiculed, that's all trivial, the point is to worry that some people will be cranky.
Think he's showing off.
Then, in the bottom of his heart, he will decide that he is actually such a person who floats in the air, vain and does not do practical things.
In this era, of course, no matter what era it is, once a man is labeled as a person who is very floating, vain, and not a person who does things, those people around him will project endless malice towards this kind of man.
Although Gao Jiangyuan has no real insight into the situation of such people.
However, he instinctively felt that he had to keep those thoughts in his heart as much as possible from telling them.
Not even your own biological parents.
Your own life will be arranged by yourself.
Then one footprint, one footprint, walked forward steadily.
Once you've done it, it's never too late to talk about it.
So, Gao Jiangyuan immediately changed the topic and said: "Yuanyuan, I suddenly remembered something. I don't know if you'd like to hear it? Would you like to help me out? ”
Gao Jiangyuan had already figured out a way to get along with people a long time ago.
Of course, this way of getting along is a trick to get closer to each other.
Deliberately ask for help from others, and deliberately let yourself unintentionally owe a small favor to others.
It will make the distance between each other closer.
Of course, in this small relationship, it is actually taking advantage of people's "paying costs".
This is commonly referred to as sunk costs.
Some people are like that, the more they give, the more they put in.
Even if they knew it was a hoax, they ended up taking chances. Think you can get away with it.
Gao Jiangyuan deliberately asked Chen Yuanyuan for help at this time, and Chen Yuanyuan couldn't ask for this.
The reason why Chen Yuanyuan couldn't ask for it was because in the past two years, although she was full of gratitude for Gao Jiangyuan's dedication to herself.
However, in the relationship between the two, if only one party blindly gives and the other party blindly enjoys, this relationship may last for ten or eight years.
But what if it was a little longer?
Fifteen years, twenty years, thirty years?
He can endure the one who gives kindness.
Then, the party who has been given kindness, it is very likely that she will gradually develop a sense of boredom and insecurity with such a life because of human nature itself. and a sense of boredom.
Chen Yuanyuan can perceive a trace of human nature from such social relationships.
Blessed is not.
Not grateful.
People who don't know how to cherish blessings and don't know how to be satisfied.
In fact, there are really many in this society. Reborn 60 Beautiful Life