Listening to his words of self-talk and even self-abandonment, Jiang Lanzhou suddenly thought of such a point when consulting depression-related information today: patients will have a low self-evaluation, a sense of uselessness, hopelessness, helplessness and worthlessness, often accompanied by self-blame, self-guilt, and in severe cases, delusions of guilt.

At this moment, Jiang Lanzhou realized that Ou Du should have been in a depressive state at this moment.

Jiang Lanzhou was also very angry with himself, Ou Du must have taken his words yesterday to heart, so when he was ill, he would mutter about last night's assumptions.

Really, why didn't she find out last night that this guy was starting to be in the wrong state? Jiang Lanzhou thought so in his heart, reached out and grabbed his hair, a little overwhelmed.

Jiang Lanzhou hid in the kitchen and secretly called, but kept his eyes on Ou Du on the sofa, lest he make any inappropriate moves. It's also a good thing that this guy didn't do anything to self-harm when she was away.

"Hey, Sister Wang, if you have a depression attack, what do the people around you need to do?"

"Seizures? Doesn't depression last a long time? ”

"Yes, yes, yes, for a long time, so during this period, what can the people around you do to help them get out as soon as possible."

"Lan Zhou, I'm just curator, not a psychiatrist, you seem to have asked the wrong person."

"Huh? I thought my sister knew a lot. ”

"I only know one thing, if the patient has obvious suicidal intent, then professional help needs to be sought."

Hearing this, Jiang Lanzhou couldn't help but take a closer look at Ou Du again, fortunately, not yet.

"Okay, thank you, sister." After that, he stood in place, silently organized the language in his heart, and thought about how to explain and enlighten him.

took off his coat, put his mobile phone in his pants pocket, slowly approached Ou Du, squatted beside him, and said softly: "Ou Du, you see, I am an adult, and adults will find ways to protect themselves." Just like this time, I found a solution to the problem on my own. ”

"This time, it's just that you're lucky, if you keep walking for a long, long time, and there is no one around, you may freeze to death, or you may be eaten by wild beasts. And the culprit of all this is me, it's me, then I, I'm a murderer. As he spoke, his voice gradually raised, and it was obvious that his mood was not as stable as it had been at the beginning.

"But luck is also a very important part of life, and I firmly believe that luck will always accompany me. And I'm sure you're never going to do anything to hurt me again, right? ”

"You believe me? But I don't believe in myself, I can't do it. What's the point of living a waste like me. Ou Du's words were trilling, and his eyes were in a trance.

Jiang Lanzhou chuckled in her heart, and suddenly thought of what Sister Wang Miao said, if the patient has obvious suicidal intentions, he needs professional help.

Before that, Jiang Lanzhou still tried to enlighten him first: "Why are you a wasted person, look at it, you are now taking care of a huge Ou Group, and your father is assisting from the side, which shows that he is very optimistic about your ability." ”

"Even so, I struggled and tired myself doing these things. I can't resist anymore, and I may have to live up to my father's expectations. ”

Jiang Lanzhou said that she was very broken, no matter what she said, Ou Du was always negating and denying, all starting from negative emotions.

No, she can't go on like this. So he stood up, secretly hid in the kitchen again, stared at Ou Du, and called Shentu leisurely.

"Leisurely, do you know a psychiatrist, I have something I want to consult."

"Psychiatrist? Who is sick? ”

Jiang Lanzhou blinked his eyes and deliberately explained in detail: "I saw a painting drawn by a child suffering from depression in the gallery today, and some of them can't let go of this child, so I want to consult with a psychologist about depression-related things." Let's see if we can give him some good guidance for his future painting path. ”

"That's it, it's okay, Lan Zhou, I worked so the first day of work. Wait a minute, I'll send you the contact information of that psychiatrist, and you can talk to him in detail. ”

"Well, thank you so much. I've been bothering you lately, and I'm a little embarrassed. ”

"It's okay, don't be embarrassed, I wish you were looking for me every day."

"Thank you." I don't know how to express any words, but they can only be summed up in the most sincere thanks.

Soon, Jiang Lanzhou contacted the psychiatrist, of course, in the name of the child.

Through the doctor's explanation, Jiang Lanzhou realized that he had just made a big mistake and really wanted to slap himself in the face.

For depressed patients, the general principle is "caring listening", and long-winded comments about depressed patients or promoting a good life will not have a substantial effect, on the contrary, it may exacerbate the patient's alienation.

The reason why Ou Du reacted more violently just now was that the life she advertised was beautiful, but for him, subconsciously, it was not so good.

Once again, Jiang Lanzhou went to European independence.

"It's time for dinner, what do you want to eat, I'll make it for you?"

Ou Du shook his head.

"Then I don't want to eat it, why don't you drink some soup, I'm particularly good at making balls and soup, let's go to the supermarket to buy mash together."

Ou Du shook his head.

Jiang Lanzhou turned his head and glanced out the window: "The weather is good tonight, why don't you go out for a walk?" ”

Europe still shook its head.

Although the doctor said that the patient occasionally needs to be left alone, before she came back, Ou Du had been alone for a long time, and now he really didn't worry about him continuing to be like this.

So I had to sit on the sofa together, and then tilted my head slightly and leaned on Ou Du.

Ou Du, who had no focus on his eyes, suddenly widened his eyes and seemed to be a little incredulous.

"I'm so tired, just let me rest by you like this."

Jiang Lanzhou said such words that made Ou Du feel dependent, and a small piece of his heart loosened, and he nodded. Then he was afraid that Jiang Lanzhou would be cold, so he specially opened his quilt and gave her a part.

Seeing his intimate behavior, Jiang Lanzhou leaned on his shoulder and leaned closer to him, trying his best to make the quilt fit both of them.

"Sure enough, Ou Du is still very gentle. You covered him very warmly with this quilt. With his eyes closed, like a whisper between lovers, a little sound came into Ou Du's ears, seeing her so satisfied, Ou Du gently hooked the corners of his mouth, but he didn't dare to make a big move, for fear of disturbing her.