Recently, Su Fuli feels that her life is particularly depressing.

Because she was introduced by others, she met her husband through a blind date.

Therefore, she does not have a special understanding of her husband's temperament.

As the saying goes, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

The more she gets along with her husband now, the more she feels a sense of depression from the inside out.

That kind of depression often makes her feel that sometimes she is really about to run out of breath.

She didn't know what was wrong with her.

Every time she saw her husband, she felt very bored in her heart.

She felt a special disgust for the way she was living.

She really wanted to get out of here.

Over the past year, Su Fuli has been doing housework at home, from morning to night.

She felt like a slave and a maid, like a cow and horse who only knew how to work.

I work day and night, and there is no time to rest every day.

Laundry, cooking, sweeping, cleaning, washing here, wiping there, doing these things over and over again every day.

There was no sense of accomplishment at all.

Without a sense of accomplishment, she won't talk about it.

What made him feel even more unbearable was that his mother-in-law, including her husband, was like an overseer.

Every day, she points to her as a wrapper, and asks her to always pay attention to whether there is a strand of hair on the floor at home.

If there is a strand of hair, let her quickly pick up the long hair and throw it out.

Su Fuli has heard her husband say countless times, "This woman's hair on the ground is the dirtiest......

In addition, every time she changes out of her underwear, her husband also likes to talk a lot about disgust there.

"It's ...... dirty"

Su Fuli thinks that she washes her lower body every day, and she also changes her underwear every day.

However, that's what the man with the high banner said.

At the beginning, the words he said would often make Su Fuli feel particularly ashamed.

At that time, Su Fuli often reflected in her heart, were her living habits not very good?

Is it really too unhygienic?

Why don't you wash it yourself twice a day?

Sooner or later?

However, after Su Fuli washed once in the morning and once in the evening, she still heard her husband say in front of her, "It's dirty!" ”

On that day, Su Fuli realized that her husband was actually saying that she was really dirty.

Su Fuli suddenly realized at that moment that it was very likely that her husband was disgusted by her bad background.

And this dislike comes from his bones.

Su Fuli was still sad, aggrieved, and sad at first. And she hid in the toilet alone, and cried happily.

Later, she had a relatively strong personality, and suddenly had an idea.

She suddenly realized that her husband could not be her support for the rest of her life.

And she doesn't have that qualification, what to rely on!

In this life, women can only rely on themselves.

Rely on the mountains and mountains, and run by the water.

In fact, no one in this world can be trusted.

What's more, if he marries such a husband now, it just means that he thinks he is beautiful and young.

Thinking of this, Su Fuli suddenly realized that if one day in the future she is no longer young and beautiful, then her husband is likely to turn around and leave her. Then go and choose someone else.

When Su Fuli realized that she was likely to face this problem in the future, she began to think about her own way out.

A man who has no blood relationship with him, after marrying himself, has been exploiting himself, exploiting himself, using himself, and when he has no use value, he is very likely to kick himself.

Therefore, now, I must fight for myself to survive more.

A person lives in this world by not relying on a face.

It's the ability.

What is the ability?

A mouth that can be spoken?

A pair of skillful hands that can turn decay into magic?

Or a college diploma that you can eat anywhere?

……

These are actually skills.

They are all the foundation that can become a woman's real life.

After Su Fuli had these things in her heart, she began to secretly start a new stove for herself.

Study.

She had to keep studying.

And she had to go to that kind of university with a big name.

She wanted to stay away from this place.

Earn a little more for yourself, free space. Survival capital.

Wu Zetian once had a saying that was particularly good, called "Single-mindedness and success".

The meaning of this sentence is that a person who has set his heart to something can do it.

Therefore, the perseverance and perseverance of a wise woman cannot be underestimated.

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The two years from '76 to '78 were turbulent and huge.

Especially the changes in the year of '78 have deeply affected another generation.

People from all over the country, when listening to the enthusiastic host of the radio station and using his high-pitched voice to vigorously praise Shantou's new policy and the whole country to implement reform and opening up, Su Fuli, who was still gritting her teeth and working hard to do housework, immediately moved her eyebrows.

Reform?

When Su Fuli first heard this word, she thought a lot about it.

I also thought about it a lot.

This was an opportunity, she thought to herself.

An opportunity to truly change your own destiny.

Su Fuli has grown up since she was a child, and under the influence of her grandfather, she is ambitious and ambitious.

She actually has her own ideals.

It's just that this ideal, under that cruel reality, was hidden by her and pressed in her heart.

However, Su Fuli now feels that this will be a great time to help her achieve her dreams and goals in life.

For all this, Su Fuli's husband Gao Qi is still the same as before, without any self-consciousness.

In the past few years, he has actually become more and more satisfied with his life.

He felt that since he had such a little wife, who was much younger than himself, he was much more comfortable than before.

The first is that it is much more convenient.

The second is to be much more relaxed.

He has such a diligent, sensible, and understanding daughter-in-law, and he feels that it is not a loss for him to marry her at the beginning.

The deal I made before was still more cost-effective.

The daughter-in-law is really sensible, obedient, and well-behaved.

People are getting more and more beautiful.

He felt that although her family background was a little worse, she was just an orphan girl without the help of her parents, brothers and sisters, but this orphan girl also had the advantage of being an orphan girl.