(Chapter 248) looked back suddenly
Zang Ye said: "The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally no longer lonely, at least one person thinks about you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good, but slowly, as you get to know each other more deeply, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems happen one after another, you begin to be annoyed, tired and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, But how do you know when you'll be able to pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her? In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, have you started grinding?
This is what I heard people say: there is a couple who meet to go to dinner and shopping after work, but the girl is delayed because of the company meeting, and when she arrives in the rain, she is already more than 30 minutes late, and his boyfriend is very unhappy and says: Every time it is like this, now I am in no mood at all, and I will never wait again. At that time, the girl finally broke the embankment and collapsed, and she thought to herself: Perhaps, they will never have a future again! In the same place, another couple is in the same situation; The girl was also half an hour late when she arrived, and her boyfriend said, "I think it must be too busy!" Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face, and took off his coat and put it on the girl, and at this moment, the girl was in tears! But the tears that flowed down her cheeks were warm, did you feel it? In fact, love and hate are often just between our thoughts! Love needs to know how to be tolerant, and many things may just lie in your change of mood! Do you understand?
When someone falls in love with you and you think they're good. That doesn't mean you'll choose him. You say: You have to find someone you love very much, so you will fall in love. But when the other party asks you what it means to be very loving, you can't answer him, because you don't know it. That's right, we always think that we will find someone we love very much.
But later, when we look back, we realize how naïve we were. If you never started, how do you know if you will love that person very much? In fact, the feeling of loving and loving is only discovered after experiencing many things together.
A friend asked me one day in a certain year, a certain month, and one day: What should I do to love someone? I smiled and said to him: In fact, everyone's view of love is different, and if you say it right, it is called enlightenment, but it is terrible to be afraid that it will become misleading!
If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration: Love someone! To understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually......
If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold a grudge.
Do you know how to love? Give it a try!
The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally no longer lonely, at least one person thinks about you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good, but slowly, as you get to know each other more deeply, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems occur one after another, you begin to be annoyed, tired and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, But how do you know when you'll be able to pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her? In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, have you started grinding?
This is what I heard people say: there is a couple who meet to go to dinner and shopping after work, but the girl is delayed because of the company meeting, and when she arrives in the rain, she is already more than 30 minutes late, and his boyfriend is very unhappy and says: Every time it is like this, now I am in no mood at all, and I will never wait again. At that time, the girl finally broke the embankment and collapsed, and she thought to herself: Perhaps, they will never have a future again! In the same place, another couple is in the same situation; The girl was also half an hour late when she arrived, and her boyfriend said, "I think it must be too busy!" Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face, and took off his coat and put it on the girl, and at this moment, the girl was in tears! But the tears that flowed down her cheeks were warm, did you feel it? In fact, love and hate are often just between our thoughts! Love needs to know how to be tolerant, and many things may just lie in your change of mood! Do you understand?
When someone falls in love with you and you think they're good. That doesn't mean you'll choose him. You say: You have to find someone you love very much, so you will fall in love. But when the other party asks you what it means to be very loving, you can't answer him, because you don't know it. That's right, we always think that we will find someone we love very much.
But later, when we look back, we realize how naïve we were. If you never started, how do you know if you will love that person very much? In fact, the feeling of loving and loving is only discovered after experiencing many things together.
A friend asked me one day in a certain year, a certain month, and one day: What should I do to love someone? I smiled and said to him: In fact, everyone's view of love is different, and if you say it right, it is called enlightenment, but it is terrible to be afraid that it will become misleading!
If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration: Love someone! To understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually......
If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold a grudge.
Do you know how to love? Give it a try!