911 Malice
To get married is to be happy.
It is to make yourself happier, happier.
If you can't be happy in your marriage, you can't even get the respect of the other party.
I get depressed all day long.
Very unhappy.
Then, the woman should become a little more decisive. Outright divorce.
Wang Peng thinks that some women in the world really don't understand the meaning of the 8 big words of self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence and self-improvement.
In relationships, in marriage, the people who are hurt are often those who have low self-esteem, do not have much self-love, have no self-confidence, and do not know how to improve themselves.
They always feel that after they are divorced, no one wants them.
This is typical of low self-esteem.
I feel incompetent, unattractive, and don't know that I respect myself.
I don't know how to face up to my comprehensive strength.
Wang Peng used to have a client who was abused and beaten by her husband when she was in her twenties.
Later, after she was beaten twice, she ran away.
And it was one person who ran out.
My son didn't want it.
She was penniless, and ran from the economically underdeveloped countryside to the first-tier big city.
When she came out, she didn't even have an ID card, no identification.
And when she came out, she couldn't even speak the least standard Mandarin, so she could only speak a native dialect, and no one could understand what she was saying.
In addition, she is not a woman who is not particularly good-looking, and her skin is particularly black and yellow.
The figure is also the same as that thirty or forty-year-old aunt, and I don't know what the reason is on my face, and there are some spots.
It's such an inconspicuous woman.
When I was in my twenties, I began to look for work everywhere and collect rags.
She worked in the big city for several years.
It's about seven or eight years, and she has saved 120,000 yuan in her hands.
This woman never thought that after she came to this big city, she must find a man.
All she thinks about all day long is to make money, to make money, to make money.
She has a clear purpose.
Work and work hard.
So, 12 years later, he bought a house of his own in this big city.
Twenty years later, she has her own company.
It can be said that she is a completely different person now than she was a few decades ago.
She had said something in front of him over and over again, with a happy expression.
"If I didn't have the courage to come out of that place, then I would have to live under the fist of that dog man for the rest of my life."
"Back then, it was with a strong spirit, relying on his own hands and feet, to make such a career."
"If you're beaten, you're going to run. If you are bullied, you have to run. That's my simple logic of survival. If I hadn't run out back then, I would have been bullied to death by them. If I hadn't run, I wouldn't know if I would have been alive now! ”
Wang Peng thought of the woman, and recalled those things in the past with that kind of eyes.
Wang Peng felt that this woman, although she was not beautiful, believed in herself and was a very self-confident person.
To be confident is to believe in yourself.
Self-love is about loving yourself.
Self-improvement is about making yourself strong.
Self-esteem is about respecting oneself and facing one's strengths and weaknesses. Every aspect of themselves.
No one is perfect.
When she let her other half say that she is not good here, that she is not good there, that she is not right here, that she is not right there, that she is not right there, the first thing she thinks of is definitely not that she should reflect on herself. Thinking about that, if there is something, it will be corrected, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.
What she should have thought was.
The person who spoke.
The person who accuses her, he should reflect on himself the most!
He was an imperfect man himself.
Why did he always turn that harsh gaze at her?
This kind of man doesn't want to say how good it is to women.
But anyone who is in the name of doing good for the other party, generally speaking, will not have good intentions.
But anyone who uses harsh eyes to accuse her other half anytime and anywhere, saying that she can't do it here and there.
In fact, from a psychological point of view, he is actually a hostile emotion, a malicious mentality, to look at the other half of himself.
If it weren't for hostile emotions, not for a malicious mentality, he would have looked at it with an open, positive gaze.
If he wants to control her, he will say that she is not good here, not good there.
If he is really good for her, he really likes her, he should say anytime and anywhere, she is doing well here and there.
Pay for her.
Put yourself in her shoes and think about it.
Self-improvement is about making yourself strong.
Self-esteem is about respecting oneself and facing one's strengths and weaknesses. Every aspect of themselves.
No one is perfect.
When she let her other half say that she is not good here, that she is not good there, that she is not right here, that she is not right there, that she is not right there, the first thing she thinks of is definitely not that she should reflect on herself. Thinking about that, if there is something, it will be corrected, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.
What she should have thought was.
The person who spoke.
The person who accuses her, he should reflect on himself the most!
He was an imperfect man himself.
Why did he always turn that harsh gaze at her?
This kind of man doesn't want to say how good it is to women.
But anyone who is in the name of doing good for the other party, generally speaking, will not have good intentions.
But anyone who uses harsh eyes to accuse her other half anytime and anywhere, saying that she can't do it here and there.
In fact, from a psychological point of view, he is actually a hostile emotion, a malicious mentality, to look at the other half of himself.
If it weren't for hostile emotions, not for a malicious mentality, he would have looked at it with an open, positive gaze.
If he wants to control her, he will say that she is not good here, not good there.
If he is really good for her, he really likes her, he should say anytime and anywhere, she is doing well here and there.
Pay for her.
Put yourself in her shoes and think about it.
Self-improvement is about making yourself strong.
Self-esteem is about respecting oneself and facing one's strengths and weaknesses. Every aspect of themselves.
No one is perfect.
When she let her other half say that she is not good here, that she is not good there, that she is not right here, that she is not right there, that she is not right there, the first thing she thinks of is definitely not that she should reflect on herself. Thinking about that, if there is something, it will be corrected, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.
What she should have thought was.
The person who spoke.
The person who accuses her, he should reflect on himself the most!