Chapter 520: An Amazing Man
The women at the head of the family are like enchanted these days, and the housework at home is no longer easy to do, and the children are no longer fond of taking care of it.
Even her own parents, she doesn't know how to be honored.
Moreover, the daughter-in-law, who should wash her mother's feet at night, is becoming more and more disobedient.
Feeling the temper of their daughters-in-law, the men are getting weirder and weirder day by day, and their mood is becoming more and more bad.
And Chen Yuanyuan, who knew that she was paying attention to the changes in the situation, quickly understood something when she noticed this detail.
She actually thinks that her husband seems to be a little bad.
However, she still likes this kind of badness.
After all, who told those men that from the very beginning, they liked to say something nasty to their husbands......
Now it's not a price to pay for letting their homes catch fire.
Chen Yuanyuan, who was thinking like this, finally felt that after a night of consideration, she felt that she should add another fire to this.
Add a little more, the anger of those lesbians.
So, from that time on, as long as she had the opportunity, she began to talk about some of the advanced theoretical knowledge she saw in books.
and a more egalitarian concept of marriage.
She said to those people, "In the past, we all paid attention to marrying chickens and dogs, but now, although the chairman has been mentioning it for decades, women can hold up half the sky!" However, in terms of equality between men and women, I really found that there is still a big gap between people here. ”
"Like my husband, although he is young, he never pretends to be a master at home. Every time he had time, he would cook with me in the kitchen. Work with me to educate your children. ”
Therefore, in such a peaceful and happy atmosphere, our children are particularly sensible and obedient. Now that I am pregnant with my third child, the man in my family, after reading some books, often holds my belly, saying that he wants to give him early education. ”
"This early bird has worms. When the child is in the womb, listen to some truths and knowledge in advance, and believe that when he is born, he will be much smarter than people of the same age......"
Every time Chen Yuanyuan talks about these theories, they are one after another.
Therefore, the female comrades, who are mostly housewives at home, were stunned.
Every time those female comrades heard Chen Yuanyuan's wonderful "lecture", they really felt that this cultural person who had studied in college was really different from those who had never read a book.
She has read a lot, not only because she is eloquent and has a clear brain, but also because she understands what the chairman said, which is quite strong.
It turns out that women can hold up half the sky, does that mean......
Women are not just at home and can contribute.
In the workplace and outside, women can also contribute their own strength to the country.
Moreover, this man should be involved in the work of the family no matter what.
They can't just leave everything in the family to their wives just because they have a job.
The head of the family is responsible for raising children and being filial to his parents, and his wife cannot be left alone.
In fact, in this world, there is never anything that is immutable.
Everything is changing.
The human body is changing with the environment, and the human mentality is also changing.
Once you accept more new things, your horizons will be much broader than before.
No matter how stubborn people are, when they hear theories that are beneficial to them, they will actually choose to favor their own things.
Therefore, under the influence of language accumulated over time, the female comrades in the entire courtyard where Chen Yuanyuan now lives have unconsciously improved their entire ideological consciousness and consciousness.
Many of them, especially the daughters-in-law who are more rigid and often fight with their mothers-in-law at home, although they do not have the capital to fight for a place in the family, they are becoming more and more hardened when they speak.
Because, they already know at this time, even if they become lazy, what can they do?
Even if she doesn't like to do housework, these people in the family don't have anything to do with her at all.
Since she can't divorce her, what about her, she can't be beaten less on weekdays, so whether she does more or less, she will be beaten anyway, so why does she have to work now?
Therefore, once the head is clear, they are no longer like the blindfolded old scalper, who is vigorously circling around the stone mill at home.
What this person fears most is comparison.
This kind of comparison has a comparison with others and a comparison with oneself.
But if you make a mistake that is inconsistent and inconsistent, others will generally think that this kind of person is actually a person who is particularly good at pretending.
The previous image of diligence and honesty, that is, pretending.
Although these women have been "pretending" for more than 20 years.
There are so many female comrades who are constantly fighting at home, so when these men are in the unit, they will unconsciously put on a stinky face.
No one likes a stinky face.
Some people will even continue to hate each other after seeing each other and putting a stinky face on themselves.
Once you start to hold a grudge against each other, people with a strong sense of revenge will seize all kinds of opportunities to wear all kinds of small shoes for each other.
So in such an environment, Gao Jiangyuan felt that he wanted to be more and more liked by the top people.
The appreciation and affirmation of the leader can actually get visible returns.
Gao Jiangyuan not long after, that is, at the end of 76 years, Gao Jiangyuan, who was serious and particularly popular, followed the roll call of the leaders above and was exceptionally promoted to the department level.
You must know that Gao Jiangyuan's work in this unit has not been five years after careful calculation.
In the past five years, he has become a lot of grassroots personnel, and he has never reached this formal level cadre in his life, and he is actually a very remarkable person.
In this regard, after Chen Yuanyuan learned about the political system and the position arrangement, she appreciated and admired her husband more and more.
Gao Jiangyuan was also very happy when he saw his daughter-in-law's appreciative and adoring eyes.
His daughter-in-law, like herself, love herself, respect herself, care about herself, he, as a husband, no matter what, has to show something.
When a man loves a woman, there are usually three manifestations.
One is psychological.
One is physical.
And the other one is monetary.