"Hello uncle, this is for you," he took out a pack of Chinese cigarettes from his body and handed it over

Xia Xue'er's father looked at the cigarette and asked

"How long have you been with Cher?"

"From the beginning of high school"

Xia Xue'er's father's face changed slightly, but the face that had experienced vicissitudes did not show any clues

"You haven't done anything out of the ordinary, have you?"

"No, no"

"It's good if you don't have it" I can't tell whether I like it or I am sad, and there is a little smile on my face

"I don't think you and Cher are suitable"

"Why, uncle"

"You shouldn't fall in love with someone you don't have to take care of at an age when you have nothing"

"Uncle, we are all still students, just because I don't have it now doesn't mean I won't have it in the future."

"Young people, it's good to have ideals, after all, it's not easy to achieve"

At that time, Xia Xue'er was also shocked when she heard this, how could her father talk like this

"Dad, what are you talking about?"

"I'm telling the truth, I'm just reminding him to make the right decision"

"Dad, what are you talking about"

Yang Yuchen didn't speak, and in the face of this harsh words, he did scare back

"Uncle, I think I will live with Xue'er in the future, and these questions will be clarified in the future."

"That's a good word, but what do you take to give her happiness, what do you let me take to reassure me to entrust my daughter to you, rely on your two cartons of milk, and a few fruits?"

These words are scathing and mean, without any mercy

"Old man, why are you talking so ugly, young man, don't pay attention to him"

Xia Xue'er's mother came out, and she came out with the dishes

At this time, Xia Xue'er's father poured Yang Yuchen a cup of tea, a full cup of tea

Xia Xueer naively thought that her father's attitude had changed

"Yuchen, you see that my dad has poured you tea, don't worry about what you did just now"

"Young man, you should understand this, right?"

Yang Yuchen looked at the cup of tea in front of him and looked at the words of this elder, it seems that he will not have a good impression today

"I understand, I'm leaving"

Yang Yuchen got up and was about to leave, Xia Xue'er was anxious, if she was not recognized today, it would definitely not be good for them, seeing that Yang Yuchen was leaving

"Yuchen, why don't you do this now?"

Yang Yuchen didn't speak, because he knew that Xia Xue'er shouldn't know the meaning of this cup of tea

"I'm sorry, Cher, I have to go today"

After Yang Yuchen left, Xia Xue'er's mother blamed

"Why are you like this, he is also Xue'er's boyfriend, and he doesn't leave any affection for doing things, how do you ask Xue'er to get along with him"

"Still getting along? I think it's better for them not to get along, they started in high school, and they are still here, I didn't do anything to drive him away, just get along"

Xia Xue'er's father was already furious, and Xia Xue'er and Yang Yuchen had no contact that day

Xia Xue'er found Gu Lei

"Gu Lei, I don't think Yang Yuchen and I should go too far"

"Why"

"Because my parents didn't approve of him"

After that day, Yang Yuchen started his own business, and he was determined to do something, because he was very busy every day, and he had very little contact with Xia Xueer every day

Therefore, Gu Lei became the flower messenger by Xia Xue'er's side, and he was basically the one who took care of him when she was sick, Xia Xue'er naturally slowly liked Yang Yuchen and transferred to Gu Lei's side

That time because she was sick, Yang Yuchen didn't answer the call she was waiting for because of a small list, and then it was Gu Lei who had been taking care of her by her side, maybe because she was moved, or maybe because she was really slowly liking

She hugged Gu Lei and talked a lot, and then she was with Gu Lei, because when she was with Gu Lei, she felt sorry for Yang Yuchen, and she didn't tell Yang Yuchen for a long time, and it dragged on for a whole year

Growth may have always been like this, and a big part of growth is acceptance. Accept parting ways, accept the impermanence of the world, accept loneliness and frustration, accept sudden feelings of powerlessness, and accept your own shortcomings. Then change from the heart and find a balance. To get along with the world is first and foremost to get along with yourself. Turn on the light when it's dark, bring an umbrella in the rain, and be sad first. I'm not afraid that others will look down on me, but I'm afraid that I won't be angry

Everyone will have that helplessness, inexplicable desire to cry, but can't say a reason, everyone longs: crying, someone comforts; Tired, someone to rely on; It's bitter, someone hurts; For a long time, some people remember; Far away, someone is leading. But everyone understands: life, you have to be busy yourself; Tired, you have to carry it yourself; Tears should be wiped by yourself; Wind and rain, you have to block yourself; Taste for yourself. The roads of the world, sometimes, can only be walked by one person; Heart wounds, sometimes, can only be raised by one person. A person, tired and tired, will feel sad if there is no human understanding; A heart is conscientious, and if less people understand, it will feel unworthy

Yang Yuchen also thinks that it is best to fall in love only once in his life, but in fact, he wants to give her the best of himself, but the things he gives him with all his strength are not worth mentioning

I have experienced too many emotions and will be numb; If you are separated a lot, you will get used to it; There are many lovers, and they will compare. You won't believe in love anymore; You will give up on yourself; You'll be the walking dead; You will marry someone you don't love and live like this for the rest of your life.

People who have loved hard will know that if you want to laugh heartlessly in the future, you don't want to dig out your heart and lungs, there is something that makes people's hearts, it is difficult to warm when it is cold, in love, we are all insecure people, because we care too much, we are afraid of losing.

Anger – the most hurt is oneself, forgiving others is the only way to free oneself

Yes, in fact, the time they spent together was not pleasant, but they were struggling to persevere, trying their best to cooperate with the performance, Yang Yuchen felt that he and Xia Xue'er had made a mistake at the beginning, so he was ready to let go of the memories in his heart

Yang Yuchen told himself how cruel life is, how strong you should be. The things that make you sad now will look back on it for a long time and feel that it is not a big deal, and the reason why you take the pain so seriously is because you have not experienced it enough. When you feel sad, tell yourself that now is your time for transformation.

It's a strange question about feelings, and for a moment, because of a person's words, we feel cold from the head to the bottom of the feet, so we often magnify the pain, because the wish is not fully realized. We often ignore happiness because the "threshold" for happiness is set too high. We are often unwilling to be bland, and strive to create some unblandness, but such happiness comes and goes in a hurry

When all the winds are calm and the waves are quiet, what is left behind, although there are wisps of good memories, more are regrets, helplessness, and dull heartache. Life is originally plain and happy, and it comes more from ordinary life, the bits and pieces of life's journey. Life is short, but when measured by happiness, it is even shorter. What we can do is to try to find the beauty in life and feel the happiness that a good life brings us

When you love someone, you can not care about all her shortcomings, and then like her as always. Because you need to be sincere when you love each other, you need to communicate when you are arguing, you need to be calm when you are angry, you need to share when you are happy, you need to understand when you accuse, and you need to be tolerant when you live your life. Don't tell me if you can have a backbone, no matter how backbone you are, there will be a time when you become unproductive because of love