(Chapter 325) Stay in the heart
Hu Lingling said: "So time, like a big steamer, steamed our feelings thoroughly, and finally we ate them into our stomachs and stayed in our hearts." Time, like a healer of the soul, will make you understand that the nature that should be forgotten will be slowly forgotten, and what cannot be forgotten is still as clear as yesterday even if it is deliberately forgotten, so be it! If you can't remember it, you don't have to deliberately remember it, and what you can't forget will stay in your heart and become sweet memories. Like the day I asked you: when did we meet, and what is my birthday? And these questions, I talk about them almost every day, and tell you from time to time, but you still forget them in the end, and forget them so completely.
At that moment, my heart froze and I asked you one last stupid question: Am I important in your heart? Without hesitation, you replied: Yes. One word is important, so my heart suddenly melts, moved, think about it, I am really easy to move. In the days to come, we seem to be estranged, maybe not to disturb, it can be regarded as a kind of most beautiful waiting! Wordless and gentle. Why bother with boring things? Everything is fate, how good, look down on those cumbersome things, only the mentality is cloudy, indifferent as water, we will live happily, we must grow old, can be the most beautiful time, silently accompany each other, is satisfied, why bother, self-trouble.
Whenever there is no one, I will fall in love with the days when I am alone in a daze, listening to a song in a daze, holding a book in a daze, or watching the pedestrians hurrying in the June sun. More often, people are the carrier of contradictions, always afraid of getting close to strangers, that is afraid of parting after affection, but afraid of loneliness, this is the loneliness in the depths of the heart. I have always believed that enjoying solitude is also a kind of beauty, a kind of realm. However, people are human beings after all, and they need someone who knows how to share happiness and sorrow with them, and who can accompany and confide in each other affectionately. However, the company of this person is like enjoying a passing scenery, that fate, may be separated in the crowd, no matter what the result is, we must treat it with a normal heart.
It was also her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I said to you at the beginning, I thought about parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.
Instead of worrying about who will leave in the future, why not cherish the present, don't make a long-lasting promise with you, don't talk about life and death with you, and only cherish the beauty of the present encounter with you. So, from your words, I saw your open-mindedness, your wisdom, and your rare ordinary heart. People live in the world, and if they have the joy of meeting, they will have the heartache of parting, but there are thousands of factors for this parting, which we cannot predict. In fact, it is impossible to predict parting, just like this unpredictable person to meet, yes, even if everything is unpredictable, I still like to look for the encounter that can be done and cherished. I know completely in my heart that all promises, at the moment of parting, all the sweetness and tenderness have become empty words, and they will all turn into floating clouds in the sky.
When two people start quarreling together and are dissatisfied with each other, it will lead to parting, and feelings need to be understood and tolerated by each other. We can't always be just in the first meeting as beautiful as the first time, but we can continue the truth in our hearts. Every happy encounter is the most beautiful fate. Xi Murong wrote in "A Blossoming Tree": How to let you meet me, in my most beautiful moment. For this, I have been praying before the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a relationship with the earth. So, is the encounter between you and me also the fruit of the former Buddha who sought it for 500 years?
We can often face the first encounter happily, but we can't treat each other well in getting along, and finally drift away and become unbooked. Sima Guang also said in his "Xijiang Moon": If you don't see each other, how ruthless is affection. We value each other so much, but we want to say hurtful things to each other and increase our suffering.
If it is said that suffering and happiness require an open-minded attitude, then parting and parting are also inseparable from open-mindedness, rather than putting oneself in the cage of emotional bondage. I especially like a poem in Zheng Chouyu's "Farewell": This time I leave you, it is the wind, the rain, and the night; You smiled, I waved my hand, and a lonely road stretched out at both ends. Look, you smile, I waved my hand, what a chic action, the poet is telling us, even if parting is painful, even so, we must have a chic and open-minded, observant attitude, when I didn't meet you, it was lonely, your departure, just let us, once again return to the origin of loneliness, once again loneliness, is a person, now is the loneliness of two people, at least each other has left a beautiful and touched.
Whenever there is no one, I will fall in love with the days when I am alone in a daze, listening to a song in a daze, holding a book in a daze, or watching the pedestrians hurrying in the June sun. More often, people are the carrier of contradictions, always afraid of getting close to strangers, that is afraid of parting after affection, but afraid of loneliness, this is the loneliness in the depths of the heart. I have always believed that enjoying solitude is also a kind of beauty, a kind of realm. However, people are human beings after all, and they need someone who knows how to share happiness and sorrow with them, and who can accompany and confide in each other affectionately. However, the company of this person is like enjoying a passing scenery, that fate, may be separated in the crowd, no matter what the result is, we must treat it with a normal heart.
It was also her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I said to you at the beginning, I thought about parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.
Instead of worrying about who will leave in the future, why not cherish the present, don't make a long-lasting promise with you, don't talk about life and death with you, and only cherish the beauty of the present encounter with you. So, from your words, I saw your open-mindedness, your wisdom, and your rare ordinary heart. People live in the world, and if they have the joy of meeting, they will have the heartache of parting, but there are thousands of factors for this parting, which we cannot predict. In fact, it is impossible to predict parting, just like this unpredictable person to meet, yes, even if everything is unpredictable, I still like to look for the encounter that can be done and cherished. I know completely in my heart that all promises, at the moment of parting, all the sweetness and tenderness have become empty words, and they will all turn into floating clouds in the sky.
When two people start quarreling together and are dissatisfied with each other, it will lead to parting, and feelings need to be understood and tolerated by each other. We can't always be just in the first meeting as beautiful as the first time, but we can continue the truth in our hearts. Every happy encounter is the most beautiful fate. Xi Murong wrote in it: How can I let you meet me, in my most beautiful moment. For this, I have been praying before the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a relationship with the earth. So, is the encounter between you and me also the fruit of the former Buddha who sought it for 500 years?
We can often face the first encounter happily, but we can't treat each other well in getting along, and finally drift away and become unbooked. Sima Guang also said in his word: If you don't see each other, how ruthless is affection. We value each other so much, but we want to say hurtful things to each other and increase our suffering.