Chapter 305: Lin Xue's thoughts
The house was smoky, Lin Qinghe felt very annoyed, so he followed Lin Xue out.
"Sister Lin Xue, what do you think about the blind date?"
Lin Xue said angrily: "What is this little kid asking for?" ”
Lin Qinghe shrugged his shoulders and said, "Anyway, it's boring, just talk about it." ”
Lin Xue glanced at her and didn't speak, the two were silent for a while, Lin Xue couldn't help but say: "Marriage is obviously a matter between two people, why are the parents who make the decision?" Can't you let yourself call the shots? I have been opposing arranged marriages for decades, but whose family is not an arranged marriage, and when can the major matters of marriage be truly decided by the parties to the marriage? ”
Lin Qinghe looked up at her, Lin Xue will be 17 years old when she turns the New Year, a 17-year-old girl is slim, with a delicate face and a healthy body, she is a beautiful and generous little beauty.
In the nearby village, someone had already come to the door last year to propose marriage, if it weren't for the poor family conditions, Lu Xiu couldn't look down on it, or Lu Xiu couldn't look down on it, and Lin Xue couldn't look down on it.
Now listening to Lin Xue's tone, does she have someone she likes in her heart?
Lin Qinghe whispered, "Sister Lin Xue, do you have someone you like?" Is his family in a bad condition? ”
If his family conditions are good, why should Lin Xue be so entangled? Tell her mother directly, the two parties just settle the family affairs, and now Lin Xue doesn't dare to say it to the family, then there is only one reason, the man's family conditions are not good.
Because Lu Xiu is a bit powerful, he has always wanted his daughter to marry someone with good conditions.
In fact, she is not wrong in this idea, as a parent, who doesn't want their children to marry with good conditions?
What's more, Grandpa Seventh is also an accountant in Shanghe Village, and as his granddaughter, he is indeed qualified to make certain requirements for the man's economic conditions.
Lin Xue didn't expect that she was just complaining, and Lotus Hua'er found out what was on her mind with a sharp point.
Her face changed, she looked back at the door nervously, and saw that no one else heard it, so she breathed a sigh of relief, pulled Lin Qinghe to the far end of the verandah, and whispered, "Lotus, don't go out and talk nonsense." ”
Lin Qinghe tilted his head to look at her and said, "Then Sister Lin Xue tell me, who do you like?" I promise not to tell anyone, but maybe I can give you an idea. ”
Maybe it's rare to have someone to talk to, Lin Xue was entangled for a moment, and finally told Lin Qinghe.
It turned out that the boy she liked was her classmate, the family conditions were very poor, his grandfather broke his leg in his early years, he was unable to move, and lost his ability to work, and his mother was frail and sickly, she was a medicine jar, and she was taking medicine all year round, and his father was the only laborer in the family.
But his father didn't have any skills, so he usually farmed at home, and when the farm was not working, he went outside to do some hard work.
He studied very hard, worked very hard, and his grades were very good, and the teachers at the school liked him very much, waived a lot of tuition and miscellaneous fees for him, and provided him with some bursaries, and it was because of this that he was able to continue studying.
Lin Qinghe said softly: "Sister Lin Xue, is he preparing to take the university entrance examination?" ”
"Yes, the teacher of our class said that Chunsheng will definitely be able to be admitted to university the year after tomorrow!"
Speaking of her sweetheart, Lin Xue's eyes were shining, obviously with deep roots.
Lin Qinghe thought for a while and said, "Sister Lin Xue, with the current burden of his family, Erniang will never let you marry him." Unless he is admitted to college, but he still has two years to go to college, and after two years, you will be 19 years old, if by then, he doesn't want to marry you, then it will be more difficult for you to find a partner. ”
Nowadays, if a girl does not study, at the age of sixteen or seventeen, it is easier to choose a partner, and when she is really nineteen or twenty years old, she will become an old girl in the eyes of people.
Lin Xue pursed her lips and said, "Chunsheng is not that kind of person!" ”
Lin Qinghe remained skeptical, after all, she didn't know this Chunsheng at all, so she didn't know what kind of person he was.
If people in this era want to say simplicity, it is really simple, and they can keep a promise for a lifetime.
If people in this era want to say bad, then there are indeed people who are bad and pus, and there are many people who abandon their wives and children for their own future, for example, isn't her father also such a person? The lessons of the past are not far away!
Lin Qinghe said softly: "Actually, I think that in the marriage relationship, there is actually a certain reason for requiring both men and women to be the right person." ”
"If that classmate of yours is admitted to university later, then he will come into contact with a lot of female classmates in school, and those female classmates are as literate and have a common language as him, but what about you? After graduating from junior high school, I didn't study anymore, so if you say anything, can you understand it? Will he think you're ignorant then? Will you think you're not worthy of him? With the barrier of time and space, many things will be changed. ”
Lin Xue's face turned pale, in fact, why didn't she worry about it in her heart?
From her heart, she hopes that Chunsheng can be admitted to college, he is so smart and hard-working, he should be admitted to college and change his life.
But on the other hand, she is really worried about what Lotus Flower's said, after Chunsheng is developed, will he really be able to maintain his current original intention?
Even if Chunsheng doesn't change his original intention, won't he become inferior?
Lin Xue muttered, "Do I really want to listen to my mother?" In the next few villages, choose a random family background and marry my family? ”
Lin Qinghe said: "Whether you choose to be with your classmates, fight hard, or choose to follow your parents' arrangements and have a relatively stable life, you need to think carefully before making a decision." ”
"Two choices, what you can gain from it, what you lose, think about it yourself, once you choose, it may be a lifetime thing, don't let yourself regret it, and don't let yourself leave regrets."
An ugly smile squeezed out of the corner of Lin Xue's mouth, looked at Lin Qinghe and said, "How do you say that this girl is the head, as if you understand it quite well." I'm dizzy too, what are you doing discussing these things with you little kid? ”
Lin Qinghe smiled slightly, how can you know that my soul is older than your age?
At this time, Lin Zhiyuan ran to the door and called: "Sister Lin Xue, lotus, it's time to eat." ”
Lin Xue pulled Lin Qinghe into the house and said, "Do you remember what I told you just now, don't tell anyone, even your mother can't say it, you know?" ”
If my cousin had known, she would have told her mother about it.