(Chapter 252) realm
Hu Lingling said: "Whenever there is no one, I will fall in love with the days when I am alone in a daze, listening to songs in a daze, holding a book in a daze, or looking at the pedestrians hurrying in the June sun. More often, people are the carrier of contradictions, always afraid of getting close to strangers, that is afraid of parting after affection, but afraid of loneliness, this is the loneliness in the depths of the heart. I have always believed that enjoying solitude is also a kind of beauty, a kind of realm. However, people are human beings after all, and they need someone who knows how to share happiness and sorrow with them, and who can accompany and confide in each other affectionately. However, the company of this person is like enjoying a passing scenery, that fate, may be separated in the crowd, no matter what the result is, we must treat it with a normal heart.
It was also her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I said to you at the beginning, I thought about parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.
Instead of worrying about who will leave in the future, why not cherish the present, don't make a long-lasting promise with you, don't talk about life and death with you, and only cherish the beauty of the present encounter with you. So, from your words, I saw your open-mindedness, your wisdom, and your rare ordinary heart. People live in the world, and if they have the joy of meeting, they will have the heartache of parting, but there are thousands of factors for this parting, which we cannot predict. In fact, it is impossible to predict parting, just like this unpredictable person to meet, yes, even if everything is unpredictable, I still like to look for the encounter that can be done and cherished. I know completely in my heart that all promises, at the moment of parting, all the sweetness and tenderness have become empty words, and they will all turn into floating clouds in the sky.
When two people start quarreling together and are dissatisfied with each other, it will lead to parting, and feelings need to be understood and tolerated by each other. We can't always be just in the first meeting as beautiful as the first time, but we can continue the truth in our hearts. Every happy encounter is the most beautiful fate. Xi Murong wrote in "A Blossoming Tree": How to let you meet me, in my most beautiful moment. For this, I have been praying before the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a relationship with the earth. So, is the encounter between you and me also the fruit of the former Buddha who sought it for 500 years?
We can often face the first encounter happily, but we can't treat each other well in getting along, and finally drift away and become unbooked. Sima Guang also said in his "Xijiang Moon": If you don't see each other, how ruthless is affection. We value each other so much, but we want to say hurtful things to each other and increase our suffering.
Whenever there is no one, I will fall in love with the days when I am alone in a daze, listening to a song in a daze, holding a book in a daze, or watching the pedestrians hurrying in the June sun. More often, people are the carrier of contradictions, always afraid of getting close to strangers, that is afraid of parting after affection, but afraid of loneliness, this is the loneliness in the depths of the heart. I have always believed that enjoying solitude is also a kind of beauty, a kind of realm. However, people are human beings after all, and they need someone who knows how to share happiness and sorrow with them, and who can accompany and confide in each other affectionately. However, the company of this person is like enjoying a passing scenery, that fate, may be separated in the crowd, no matter what the result is, we must treat it with a normal heart.
It was also her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I said to you at the beginning, I thought about parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.
Instead of worrying about who will leave in the future, why not cherish the present, don't make a long-lasting promise with you, don't talk about life and death with you, and only cherish the beauty of the present encounter with you. So, from your words, I saw your open-mindedness, your wisdom, and your rare ordinary heart. People live in the world, and if they have the joy of meeting, they will have the heartache of parting, but there are thousands of factors for this parting, which we cannot predict. In fact, it is impossible to predict parting, just like this unpredictable person to meet, yes, even if everything is unpredictable, I still like to look for the encounter that can be done and cherished. I know completely in my heart that all promises, at the moment of parting, all the sweetness and tenderness have become empty words, and they will all turn into floating clouds in the sky.
When two people start quarreling together and are dissatisfied with each other, it will lead to parting, and feelings need to be understood and tolerated by each other. We can't always be just in the first meeting as beautiful as the first time, but we can continue the truth in our hearts. Every happy encounter is the most beautiful fate. Xi Murong wrote in "A Blossoming Tree": How to let you meet me, in my most beautiful moment. For this, I have been praying before the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a relationship with the earth. So, is the encounter between you and me also the fruit of the former Buddha who sought it for 500 years?
We can often face the first encounter happily, but we can't treat each other well in getting along, and finally drift away and become unbooked. Sima Guang also said in his "Xijiang Moon": If you don't see each other, how ruthless is affection. We value each other so much, but we want to say hurtful things to each other and increase our suffering.
It was her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I told you at the beginning, I thought of parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.
It was her words that touched my heart, she said: Do you remember what I told you at the beginning, I thought of parting in the future, because there will be many unknown factors halfway through, confusing each other's hearts. When I first saw her words, although I pretended not to care, my heart still ached faintly, what this person feared the most was not life and death, it was parting, but the most uncontrollable thing was this parting, parting was heartache, but the encounter was beautiful, and there was no banquet in the world that would not be dispersed.