A woman who has always been abused by her own man, even if she is divorced for the first time, when she remarries, she will find a second man who abused her.

Chen Yuanyuan used to have a colleague who had been divorced four times.

Then these four husbands, all of whom are men who like domestic violence.

Although there is an authoritative survey in our society, it is said that nearly 13 men in China have been abused against their own women.

However, Chen Yuanyuan feels that a man of 13 does not mean that every man a woman meets when she gets married must be a man who likes domestic violence.

A woman who looks well-behaved and smart, but likes to find that kind of bastard man as a husband, in fact, the two of them are essentially no different.

That woman is just well-behaved on the surface, but in fact she has a special request in her heart.

And this kind of request is the internal driving force for her to find that husband.

She longs to be rebellious and to live freely.

But the reality of the conditions does not allow her, but she lives more self-consciously.

Therefore, she projected through that kind of need to project onto the type of man who is completely different from herself.

So it can be said that those women who have found a domestic violence man as their husband several times, in fact, they are in essence, they just like to be subjected to domestic violence.

……

Therefore, Chen Yuanyuan, who has seen a lot of humanity, was a little indifferent to her daughter's complaints at this time.

She didn't have any special thoughts, she didn't feel that her daughter was pitiful, and she didn't feel the purpose of her daughter's words to her.

"Girl, that man was chosen by yourself. You have such a big belly now,...... Well, I think that if you don't have a turning back arrow when you open the bow, you won't regret it. ”

"But it doesn't matter, fortunately, you haven't got a marriage certificate with him now, and you haven't held any banquets with him. So, there is a remedy! ”

"If you wish, after you give birth to this child, we will raise it."

"You can do what you really like. For example, study abroad and see more of the world outside. ”

"Another example is to travel abroad and make a few more foreign friends outside."

When Chen Yuanyuan said this, she looked at her daughter meaningfully.

"People say that this life is long and short. Therefore, the most important thing is to make yourself happy, carefree, and happy. ”

"You're so young! It's hard enough to get pregnant now. When the time comes, you will have to give birth to a child, and you will have to raise the child little by little. Teach him the truth of life. Let him know that people are sophisticated. ”

"As a mother, that's not ordinary. One person can't do a family's business. Then my man won't help you then, and those days will be really hard......"

Chen Yuanyuan and Gao Xinyue chatted while eating.

Gao Xinyue's mood was relatively stable at this time, and she did not have that manic tendency.

Therefore, what Chen Yuanyuan said just now, she roughly listened to it.

However, after listening to those words, Gao Xinyue instinctively frowned.

"Mom, I know all these things you said. I've known for a long time that it's not easy to have a baby and take care of these things. I was very fond of cramps in my legs the other day. And then who sadly felt dizzy. So I feel that it is really not easy to have children. ”

When Chen Yuanyuan heard that her eldest daughter was making such childish words, she immediately shook her head helplessly.

"Girl, leg cramps, dizziness, that's all a trivial matter, the important thing is that after giving birth, you will feel your body, it's not as big as before!"

"It's really hard to get pregnant. The process of having a baby is also very difficult. Many people die on the operating table and never open their eyes again. You must know that the current maternal mortality rate is as high as 12,500! ”

"And all sorts of complications."

Chen Yuanyuan shook her head when she said this, "Hey, I won't tell you so much now, anyway, you are pregnant now, you just want to think about how to take care of the child after you give birth......

"If the child follows your man's surname, then you don't want me to take the child. No matter what, I won't bring a person with a foreign surname. I'm not idle. ”

"If you have to be with that guy, then you can help her with the baby. Carry it yourself. ”

"If you figure it out, if you want to study abroad or something, then I can help you take care of your children."

Gao Xinyue was very unhappy when she heard her say this.

directly stretched his face, and said indignantly to his mother, "Mom! Aren't you threatening me? ”

"I've always been down-to-earth. Never thought of deceiving other people's feelings. I didn't think about taking advantage of others. It's not the kind of woman who likes to worship money. I've figured it out since I was a kid that this life is really short. So, I have to leave something in this world. ”

"Things like fame and fortune, money and so on, are actually not my life's pursuit. I think it would be nice to have a few more children. As long as I have a few more children, those children will remember me. Moreover, my husband will also be good to me. ”

Chen Yuanyuan heard her daughter say these words stupidly, she was not in the mood to talk to her daughter at that time.

"You've got it!"

"What's the use of having a baby?"

"If you really want to leave something in the world, then you should study it in a certain field and make a difference. Leave your mark on the whole world. Then let everyone remember you. ”

"Giving birth to a man,...... Will you be able to make your children remember you? If you don't know how to make money and don't have the strength, you see that the children you give birth to will take you seriously? ”

"I'm a mother, I used to run a company! Special to make money. But what about your daughter? Every time, they have to sarcastically mock me. I said I really don't know what your daughter has achieved so far, and then you treat me as your own mother, and you keep looking through the crack in the door......"

Gao Xinyue was told by her mother, and her face immediately swelled red.

She didn't even think about it, so she shook her head vigorously and denied it.

"Mom, I didn't. How could I possibly think that? ”

"You're getting it wrong......"

Chen Yuanyuan was too lazy to distinguish with her daughter in this matter, so she closed her mouth in time.

No more talking.

Chen Yuanyuan took a big sip of mutton soup, and her whole body became lazy at that time.

It's delicious!

This is what his man cooked for himself before he went out.