Chapter 200: Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read
Ji's mother knew from Ji Qingqing's very young age that Ji Qingqing has always been a very strong child, for so many years, Ji Qingqing has been studying alone outside every time, and rarely takes the initiative to call to say what her life is like outside, and after a long time, Ji's mother will get used to it.
After that, every time I missed my daughter very much, I would call my daughter.
Or...... It's when something really big happens in the family.
But in fact, most of the time, it is good news but not bad news.
Ji Qingqing didn't have much time to call home, but every time they called, they felt very happy.
But who knew that he would hear his daughter's voice like this today.
Is it crying?
Mother Ji immediately felt very distressed, and her voice was a little regretful: "What's wrong, Qingqing?" Is there something going on at school? Come talk to your mother. ”
Ji's mother's voice was seductive, as if Ji Qingqing failed to pass an exam when she was a child, and she just kept crying after returning home, but she always didn't say why she cried.
At that time, I really worried about Ji's father and Ji's mother, but I went to ask the teacher later, and I found out the reason.
Thinking about it now, they couldn't laugh or cry at that time.
The two of them have never had any hard requirements for their children's grades, and it is because of this that Ji Qingqing is extremely strict with himself.
Parental connivance is sometimes a disguised encouragement.
Let your child start to develop the habit of taking responsibility for his or her actions.
"I'm fine......"
Ji Qingqing said: "I'm just homesick. ”
Mother Ji breathed a sigh of relief when she heard Ji Qingqing's words, smiled and said, "Why is it still the same as when I was a child?" Wouldn't it be nice to be homesick and take some time to come back? ”
Ji Qingqing said: "The final exam is coming soon, it's not good to find time to go home, and the weather here has been very bad recently, so I don't want to go out." ”
It was also at this time that Ji's mother heard the sound of rain on Ji Qingqing's side.
After all, she is a very experienced person, and as soon as Mother Ji hears the sound of rain here, she knows how heavy the rain is here.
Immediately, he was a little worried: "This weather is so cold, and it is raining heavily, you need to wear more clothes." ”
It's not the first rainstorm here, and Ji Qingqing is actually very accustomed to the rhythm of this kind of rainstorm.
After listening to Ji's mother's words, he nodded: "I know my mother, don't worry, I will definitely add clothes when I am cold." ”
Mother Ji is absolutely relieved about this.
Ji Qingqing is not like other girls, what kind of demeanor and temperature do she have in winter, she has always been comfortable and how to come, because she is addicted to games, she doesn't even like to dress up.
Every time I went home to buy clothes, Ji's mother forced Ji Qingqing to take Ji Qingqing out to buy them.
These things are really clear, Mother Ji smiled and said, "It's good that you know it in your own heart, your brother is about to have a winter vacation, and we have to go back to our hometown this time for a winter vacation." ”
The smile on Ji Qingqing's face gradually faded.
"Why do you want to go back to your hometown?" Ji Qingqing looked at the rain curtain outside, those raindrops fell quickly and directly, and although the sound of smashing on the ground was absolutely impossible to hear on Ji Qingqing's floor, Ji Qingqing felt that those raindrops seemed to be ringing in his ears.
The crackling sound seemed to be Ji Qingqing's heart now.
Irritability and restlessness.
Ji Qingqing does live in a happy family, but in fact, Ji Qingqing's parents are not living in a happy family.
Although he has both children and daughters, the situation in Ji's father's family is really complicated.
Ji's father's father, that is, Ji Qingqing's grandfather, is a typical patriarchal.
After Mr. gave birth to three daughters, Ji Qingqing's grandfather was still obsessed with his son, and after giving birth to three sons in succession, Ji Qingqing's grandfather was finally satisfied.
Ji Qingqing's grandmother hurt her body because she gave birth too much, which led to her very poor health when she got old, and she died within a few years.
Ji Qingqing's grandfather felt relaxed.
He is an old man who also has a mind that he can go wherever he wants to play, and always feels that it is time for him to enjoy the filial piety of all his children and grandchildren.
"Your grandfather ......"
Sure enough, as soon as Ji Qingqing thought of his grandfather's affairs in his heart, he heard Ji's mother speak.
Ji Qingqing felt a kind of irritability in his heart for no reason.
Regarding Ji Qingqing's grandfather, in fact, Ji Qingqing really doesn't dislike it in his heart, although Ji Qingqing has little experience in getting along with the elderly and children, Ji Qingqing has always been very polite.
He never said anything when he saw his grandfather, but Ji Qingqing felt that Ji Qingqing's grandfather was partial to his son in the past, but he never favored his father, the eldest son, but rather the two youngest sons.
And now that I'm old, I seem to be beginning to reflect on it, knowing that I am not very good to my daughter like that, so I have begun to be good to my daughter. 17
In fact, this is nothing, but Grandpa Ji really didn't think about Ji Qingqing's father's position from beginning to end.
Ji Qingqing has seen since he was a child that his father is not the eldest in the family, but because he is the eldest son in the family, he is always called by his grandfather, and no matter who encounters something in the three aunts' family, he has to help his father.
Ji Qingqing's parents are not a company, her mother is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, her job is stable, and her salary is not particularly high, but Ji's mother is a person who is very good at managing money.
And Ji's father is a high school teacher, and he is also a director-level figure.
Ji Qingqing is so self-disciplined, in fact, it is entirely because Ji's father has set a good example for Ji Qingqing since he was a child, so Ji Qingqing will have such a study habit.
There are two children in the family, and the parents' salary is okay, in fact, Ji Qingqing's family can live a very comfortable life.
It's just that Grandpa Ji is stirring up the situation, and when Qingqing was admitted to college before the previous year, Ji Qingqing's second aunt had a serious illness.
To tell the truth, the second aunt is sick, and Ji Qingqing's family should indeed have some expressions.
Ji's father also took the money at that time.
The second aunt has three sons and a daughter, and her mother is sick, so these cousins and cousins should naturally behave.
But these cousins are going to get married in the past few years, so they always cry poor and say that they have no money, so Grandpa Ji came up with that set of arguments again.
said that Ji Qingqing's father is the eldest son in the family, and he should become the pillar of the family.
Ji Qingqing really sneered when he heard it at that time.
Over the years, Grandpa Ji has begun to be kind to his daughter, and I don't know how many things he took from Father Ji on the grounds of "the eldest in the family".
The children in my aunt's family were not admitted to high school before, which dragged the relationship between Ji's father.
At that time, Ji's father said that the current high school is not allowed to buy points, and even if you want to buy it, you can only buy it at a high price.
But the people in the aunt's family are going to go to Ji's father's high school if they want to die or live, and Grandpa Ji even forced him to die.
Father Ji was worried about this matter, and his hair turned white.
Later, Ji's father paid for it himself and sent the children of his aunt's cousin to high school.
Dad Ji has great expectations for his cousin's children and always cares about the children's studies, but the aunt's family thinks that Dad Ji is retaliating and goes to find his grandfather again.
Grandpa ordered Dad Ji to stop caring about the children's affairs.
Dad Ji had no choice but to let go, last year's college entrance examination, the child didn't even get into the three books, and the aunt's family was complaining again, saying that Dad Ji was not conscientious enough.
Dad Ji is not a person inside and out.
Originally, Ji Qingqing didn't like the aunt's family very much, and after this incident, he didn't have a good impression of the aunt's family.
Mother Ji also knew about this, sighed and said: "I know you have some opinions about your relatives at home, but Qingqing, you know, we live in the world, how can we really not leave any relatives?" ”
Of course Ji Qingqing knows this truth.
In fact, Ji Qingqing also reflected on himself, whether he was really too demanding, otherwise why wouldn't he be as indifferent as his parents.
But then Ji Qingqing played the game, and in fact, he also understood a lot of truths from the game.
"Mom, I know what you said, but I still think that Dad doesn't need to follow Grandpa's side too much, so tell me first, what is going to happen on Grandpa's side this time?"
Every time Ji Qingqing's grandfather is mentioned, there is always nothing good anyway.
Ji Qingqing has seen through this matter for so many years.
"It's not a big deal, it's just that your grandfather will be eighty this year, and the family is saying that they want to give your grandfather an eighty birthday."
Ji Qingqing frowned: "Just do it, why do you want our family to go back?" ”
Ji's mother was silent for a while before she said, "What does your grandfather mean, your father is the eldest in the family......"
Ji Qingqing understood as soon as he heard this, and said with a sneer: "Grandpa wants Dad to pay all the expenses, right?" ”
Mother Ji was silent.
Ji Qingqing understood in seconds, and this time there was really undisguised disgust in his eyes.
"Mom, do we have that much money in our family?"
If it was said a few years ago, Ji's mother would definitely be able to directly say that she was rich.
But last year, the son of the young third aunt got married and borrowed 160,000 yuan from Ji's mother in the name of buying a car.
This is all the savings that Ji's mother has saved over the years.
It was kept for Ji Xiu to buy a wedding house later.
At that time, when I lent it out, I also made an IOU, saying that it would be changed this year, but this year is coming to an end, and I don't see that they have any intention of repaying.
"Mom, my dad is the fourth oldest in the family, even if he is a son, then no burden should be on my dad, I say something ugly, even if my dad is the only man in the family, then my three aunts should go to their dad no matter what, not their younger brother."