Zhang Shan said: "Well, Xiaoyuan is going to kindergarten in the second half of the year, how did you arrange it?" ”

Oh, it turns out that this matter, Xia Yu replied: "I have already contacted it, and the principle of Xiaoyuan is to go to school in a public kindergarten near our community." ”

Zhang Shan immediately denied: "No, this kindergarten is too ordinary, and the teachers in public schools are generally not enough, and Xiaoyuan is very small, so he will definitely suffer." Let's go to a private kindergarten, I've already got in touch. ”

Xia Yu was puzzled: "Xiaoyuan's affairs have always been in my charge, and I have already arranged it." Private kindergartens are too utilitarian, and giving cultural lessons to children at a young age is equivalent to pulling out seedlings to help them grow, and I don't approve of it. You don't have to be overhearted, I will take care of Xiaoyuan's affairs, you are still busy talking about your love. "In this way, after you have a child in the future, you don't have to come to Xiaoyuan with me.

Xia Yu said this, and Zhang Shanqiqi, who was directly angry, bled out.

Zhang Shan suddenly asked, "Did you see it?" ”

Xia Yu didn't understand: "What do you see?" ”

Zhang Shan really felt that Xia Yu and the brain circuit made it impossible for him and Xia Yu to communicate calmly. simply didn't ask this question that Xia Yu didn't understand, and said: "I still choose to let Xiaoyuan go to a private kindergarten, there are few people in a class in a private kindergarten, and there are many teachers to take care of, so the kindergarten will start to learn English, which is conducive to the child's future development." ”

Xia Yu looked at Zhang Shan with some incredulity and blindly recommended the benefits of private kindergartens, and said: "I just said, private kindergartens are too eager for quick success, kindergarten is the age of children's games and play, they need to play happily, sing and dance to learn to get along with friends, need a happy childhood, and develop good habits."

Why do you want to start learning English in kindergarten, I haven't learned my native Chinese well, what English to learn?? ”

Zhang Shan retorted: "English is the universal language of the world, you won't know it, this is for the sake of Xiaoyuan, is it like us, the spoken English is so poor, it is not that the educational resources in the countryside are too poor." I now have the conditions to let Xiaoyuan go to a better school and receive better educational resources, I don't understand why you have to oppose it? ”

Xia Yu asked in surprise: "You are a layman, why do you say that the educational resources in your hometown are poor, I only learned English in junior high school, and I am not worse than others."

Is English that good? Do you have to worship the foreign? You must understand that the leader who led us Chinese to stand up for national independence never went abroad, but it was precisely because he learned the essence of our Chinese culture that led so many people who stayed abroad to achieve great victories. Our own stuff is the best, and if we want to learn, we must first learn our culture, and English is just a tool, so why do we have to do any bilingual teaching from kindergarten, it's just laughing.

You still have the face to say that the educational resources in the rural areas are poor, but you didn't graduate from the rural schools and thus achieve success. There are thousands of successful people from poor families, all of whom have been educated by rural teachers. You talk nonsense for a living, and you generalize.

As an insider, I would like to tell you that the professional ability of teachers in rural areas is no worse than that of famous teachers in big cities, and what they lack is the attention of the government and the inclination of educational resources, and what they lack is the source of students. ”

Zhang Shan was poor by Xia Yu's reasoning, so he had to say: "I can't talk about you, anyway, it's good for the child to go to a private kindergarten, otherwise he won't be able to keep up with him in elementary school in the future." ”

Xia Yu said: "You don't have to worry about this, the teacher will call it when I am in preschool, and it is a big deal that I will go home to tutor Xiaoyuan's homework in the future, but it is really not good, I will send Xiaoyuan to study the transition class from preschool to primary school, which is not bad."

In your previous life, you didn't worry about Xiaoyuan's education, and now you don't need to worry about it. I've got something, I'll go first. ”

After saying that, Xia Yu opened the door and got out of the car, which made Zhang Shan faintly look forward to seeing Xia Yu's jealous appearance, Zhang Shan was disappointed again, this woman really doesn't care about me.

Xia Yu and Du Xiaoyun came to Wang Xiuzhen's house together, finished eating together, and then took Xiaoyuan home.

On the weekend night, Liu Haoran came to visit his daughter Qianqian with a cake box and toys, and came back to bring a cake to Xiaoyuan.

Xia Yu and Liu Haoran have been together for more than half a year, and the two are now in a relationship of partners.

Liu Haoran once had a failed marriage, he and his ex-wife Huang Yumei are a good couple, but unfortunately the two of them who have no feelings entered the marriage, both of them were beaten by their parents and elders, after entering the marriage, the two who are not familiar with each other at all have turned their marriage into a pool of stagnant water, although they also have passion, but married life is also a chicken feather. After the couple gave birth to Qianqian, their marriage broke down due to their wonderful mother-in-law Li Fang.

Liu Haoran's ex-wife Huang Yumei couldn't stand this kind of marriage of boiled frogs, so she directly rekindled her old love with her male colleague in the unit, and the two hooked up.

Liu Haoran was told by Li Fang, saying that he saw Huang Yumei and a man holding hands and shopping on the street, and Liu Haoran, who has always been busy with work, found out that he had cheated on his wife.

Liu Haoran found out that his wife was cheating and had anger and reflection, but he didn't expect Liu Haoran's ex-wife Huang Yumei to break the jar and simply divorce to pursue passion and love.

The one-year-old daughter Qianqian also lives with her stepfather and mother, Liu Haoran has been living separately from her parents, Li Fang is in a psychiatric hospital, and Liu Haoran's father lives a debauched life of his own lustful dogs and horses. Liu Haoran wanted to fulfill the responsibility of a father, but Huang Yumei didn't give him this opportunity.

After the divorce, Liu Haoran felt uncomfortable when he saw his ex-wife and the newcomer's husband both staying and flying, and he was more reflective, what did he do wrong, so that his wife was still divorced to pursue love?

I have been meeting Xia Yu and Liu Haoran to understand that it is marriage that the ex-wife who makes him the right person abandon him, the shackles of marriage, and the marriage full of chicken feathers.

Xia Yu often told himself Beauvoir's Declaration of Independence: "I will never bend my life to the will of others." This strong sense of self allowed Beauvoir to establish her own direction of struggle early on, that is, to pursue the realization of self-worth as an independent and free woman.

Thinking of the relationship between Sartre and Beauvoir that Xia Yu said, Liu Haoran thought that maybe Xia Yu's point of view was correct, even if the two who loved each other again entered the shackles of marriage, endured the parents and families from both sides, and took care of the children of the growing beasts, and eventually the marriage would become a chicken feather.

Therefore, with the deepening of contact with Xia Yu, Liu Haoran was assimilated by Xia Yu and agreed with the view of unmarriage. thinks that the two live together if they have feelings, and it is okay to have children. But without the shackles of marriage, there is no need to face each other's relatives and families, so a free and easy relationship that is not loose or tight is very suitable. Therefore, in the relationship between Liu Haoran and Xia Yu in the past six months, Liu Haoran is very happy and relaxed, and is willing to continue to walk like this with Xia Yu.

Since being with Xia Yu, Liu Haoran, who has been taken care of and emotionally nourished, has grown flesh on his face, the trauma of the family has been soothed by Xia Yu, and he has returned to his former high-spirited and successful career.

Liu Haoran's relationship with Xiaoyuan is also handled very well, and Xiaoyuan also agrees with this relationship. Xia Yu and Liu Haoran were busy in the kitchen together at night, Xia Yu was most satisfied with Liu Haoran is that Liu Haoran is very considerate, unlike some machismo, he will always sit back and enjoy his success and be very picky, Liu Haoran will help Xia Yu cook, will help Xia Yu wash underwear, it is because of these reasons that Xia Yu and Liu Haoran have been gone for so long.

Sometimes the reborn Xia Yu thinks that he and Liu Haoran have experienced sweet love, but fortunately he withdrew early, or he will have endless troubles. Liu Haoran's mother is too capable of tossing. Xia Yu heard that after Liu Haoran married the daughter-in-law, Liu Haoran's mother didn't dare to bully her daughter-in-law openly, but she did all kinds of tricks behind her back.

Xia Yu heard Jiajia say that Liu Haoran's mother was relatively weak after her daughter-in-law had just given birth. When Liu Haoran's mother, who didn't know about some diseases, heard about it, she thought that her daughter-in-law was going to die, so she took her granddaughter and nanny to leave home and go to a relative's house, and took away all the food, rice, flour, grain and oil at home. Miss Qianjin's daughter-in-law Huang Yumei got up and found that there was nothing left at home, so she immediately called her parents, and after the parents came, they saw that Liu Haoran's mother was so immoral and cheap her daughter, and immediately took her daughter to the hospital to see a doctor, and provided delicious food and drink.

When the daughter-in-law was discharged from the hospital, Liu Haoran and Liu Haoran's mother, who went home, were reprimanded by their father-in-law and mother-in-law, asking for a divorce and taking away their daughter and granddaughter. Liu Haoran's mother disagreed, threatened with a kitchen knife, and was hated by the daughter-in-law's new and old hatreds, and directly grabbed the kitchen knife and cut Liu Haoran's mother's right hand.

Although he was sent to the hospital in time, Liu Haoran's mother's right hand was invalid, and Huang Yumei, who was almost harmed by Liu Haoran's mother, fell ill and died. This incident was interviewed by Jiajia with someone, and it became a well-known strange news in her hometown.

Xia Yu remembered that after Jiajia came back, he said to Xia Yu: "Fortunately, you withdrew early, or you were bullied by that perverted woman." Many people said that she deserved to do this. ”

After Xia Yu heard it at the time, he just felt sorry for Liu Haoran, and he didn't have any schadenfreude, Liu Haoran has such a mother, and his marriage is destined to be unhappy.

For Zhang Shan, the reborn Xia Yu has completely regarded him as a stranger, except for using him to give birth to Xiaoyuan, Xia Yu really doesn't want to have any intersection with Zhang Shan.

After meeting Liu Haoran again, Xia Yu felt very good, the two lived as partners like this, without the shackles of marriage, without facing the families of both sides, so they could get along easily, and it was good to have a partner.

Zhang Shan has recently gotten along with a new girlfriend, Qiao Chuchu himself is very good, Zhang Shan is very satisfied, and Li Man is even more satisfied. Li Man and Zhang Shan didn't have much time to accompany Xia Yuan, so when Zhang Shan remembered Xiaoyuan, he contacted Xia Yu, Xia Yu agreed, and when he sent his son to Zhang Shan's community, Zhang Shan was a little disappointed when he saw that Xiaoyuan was not as enthusiastic as before and asked for a hug.