Married for whom
Since Wang Yan took the initiative to chat with Shi Lei that day and got those refreshing comments, she always wanted to find an opportunity to use real cases to block Shi Lei's mouth and reverse her point of view. After several days of hard work, the target person was finally found, and the dawn of hope was just around the corner.
congratulated Wang Yang on getting married, and asked her out for the reason that they had worked together, expressing the point of view that they wanted to prove that marriage and happiness are priceless and cannot be measured by money.
"You're rich."
This sentence beat Wang Yan to Meng, and the next story made Meng a strengthened version.
A little girl, for as long as she can remember, knew that her parents didn't like her because she wasn't a boy. They didn't like her but didn't abuse her, and the little girl believed that they had always loved her, and that although she wasn't a son, she was also their child. When she moved from nursery to kindergarten, she noticed that her parents treated her differently from the parents of the children around her. They will give themselves delicious food in front of their colleagues, and in private, they will snatch the uneaten things from the children's hands and eat them themselves. Dad does it all the time, and Mom does it occasionally.
As long as the father is at home, the mother will let the little girl finish the meal early, and after eating, lock her in a room, give her some children's books and toys, and tell her not to leave the house obediently. When she stays in her room and plays by herself, she hears the cries outside and the sound of broken objects outside, which for the little girl adds to the fear in her heart and has the charm of encouraging you to explore. One day the little girl ran out secretly, and the cold father was throwing things like a mad beast, and the smell of wine was in the air, and when he saw the little girl coming, he suddenly grabbed her neck. "Little rabbit, if there is no more, I am entitled to have a son. What's the use of you keeping it. ”
The feeling of suffocation left the little girl in a state of freezing.
Mom ran up and broke my father's hand, shouting. "You're crazy, it's against the law. Do you want to work anymore. Pour a few mouthfuls of yellow soup, and the horse urine will not know who it is. He's your own daughter. ”
The hand was broken, and the little girl was protected in her mother's arms. The beast did not achieve its purpose and roared. "Just because she delayed Lao Tzu to give birth to a son. What to do with her, raising her is also cheap for other people's families. ”
"I gave birth, and I am willing to raise it."
"You eat Lao Tzu, flower Lao Tzu, what do you raise. If you have a job, you are in a family class, and without Lao Tzu, you can have such a job. ”
"You don't want to be the object of a neighbor's joke, just shout."
"You stinky woman, you can't give birth to a son, what else can you do besides this."
"If you are unwilling, you want your child to be demoted and pay a fine, so you will be angry with your child."
"What about thousands, how many years do you have to earn, if she is a little egg, as for it?"
"You're not capable."
"You have the ability, don't rely on Lao Tzu if you have the ability."
"A woman can hold up half the sky."
The little girl gradually quieted down in her mother's arms, and her father became synonymous with the devil in her eyes, and from that day on, the little girl began to hide from her father. She was 6 years old.
In September of that year, my mother asked distant relatives to send the little girl to primary school because my mother set up a stall in front of the primary school, which was a bungalow of more than ten square meters. During the day, my mother sells goods, I go to school, and at night we live together. Dad would come occasionally, and every time he came to the stall, the money in the collection box would be collected by the man. The mother hides on her body, and the money she hides on the child's body, so that she can survive.
Every time he comes, it's a nightmare for the little girl, a feeling of being watched like food. The little girl overhears her mother and cousins discussing how to get rid of her father, and it ends up with the idea of divorce and giving the child a complete home.
When the little girl was in the third grade, her mother cried and told her that her father had a safety accident in the unit and had not been rescued and died. Tears fell, but a trace of sweetness was produced in my heart.
Mom became a widow and inherited the one left by Dad, and they returned to the former home. The life of mother and daughter dependent on each other is bitter in the eyes of others, but in the heart of the little girl, it is sweet, and the demon dies and leaves behind all the happy sunshine.
As the little girl grows up, she understands many things and knows why her father and mother treated her like this. Be grateful to your mother and do everything to be happy for your mother. It wasn't until I was admitted to the university that my mother wanted to go to that I found a problem, my mother was happy, but I was not happy. There is no way to be unhappy, because you don't have the capital to make yourself happy. In front of the grace of nurturing, you don't even have a reason to be happy.
Your life is your mother's, everything you have is given by your mother, and you need to give her something back, no matter what she asks. Whether you like it or not is not a problem, opposing her is a problem. Fixed work, the obsession of the iron rice bowl, you must be satisfied, you are not allowed to do it. When you're old and you have to get married, I want to be a grandmother. You can't resist.
After work, the little girl found that there are many people in this city and the world who are facing the same problems as herself.
Public order, good customs and filial piety are integrated into one of you, and you face your parents who make tough demands on you, and after you can't meet them, there is no other way than to return them with your life. You who are nostalgic for the world can only do what the old man thinks.
Looking at the person in front of him and stopping to speak, Wang Yan took a calm breath in his understanding. "You're an adult."
Wang Yang's eyes were slightly red. "It's because I'm an adult that I can't be reckless, and I have to think calmly when I do things. It is necessary to make up for the kindness of breaking free from the tiger's mouth at the age of 6 and the kindness of raising. Hide your likes, suppress your desires, abandon your dreams, live only for your mother all your life, and become her eternal slave. ”
"You don't have to live to be tired."
"Tired. Hehe. I've tasted the pain and pain of giving up my love, and I'm still afraid of getting tired? When you don't have the capital to fight for bread, your dreams are a notice from death. Why is it that the rich second generation and people with good family conditions are enviable, they have no worries about food and clothing in order to be qualified to think about their dreams and want to like them. And I can only turn my thoughts around my head and fill my stomach. Only when the standard of living continues to maintain this urban average will I be qualified to show my thoughts to the world. The national law has been improved in terms of the maintenance of the elderly, haven't you looked. Your parents are kind to you no matter what, and you have to repay that kindness. Ridiculously give up all your way to please your parents, just enough to support yourself. This is the punishment of my greed in the world, and I can only accept it. ”
They're not doing well. After all, this sentence was not spoken. Since I was a child, I and my cousin will be strongly supported by my mother and uncle for any interests and shining points, money, energy, and opportunities, unless you take the initiative to give up. Wang Yan regretted talking to Wang Yang a little. Messing around in the head.
"You're welcome to my wedding when the time comes."
"By all means."
Author's words: But when people are helpless, to ask the heart for the answer, the result given by the heart will be a circle.