Although Xia Yu was very depressed, he still insisted on breastfeeding and gave Xiao Bu a little bit of due maternal love. Zhang Shan, Li Man and Zhang Guizhang's family hugged Xiao Budian, Li Man said: "Xiaoshan, what is the name of this child?" ”

Li Man frowned at Zhang Shan, and Zhang Shan had no choice but to hug his youngest son and ask, "Xia Yu, what is the name of this child?" ”

Xia Yu said listlessly: "Whatever." ”

Zhang Shan pondered for a while and said, "Then it's called Zhang Ming." If it is not quiet, it will not be far-reaching, and if it is not indifferent, it will not be ambitious. ”

Xia Yu continued to immerse himself in the depression of not giving birth to a daughter, and nodded: "It's up to you." ”

Li Man took the opportunity to propose: "Just change Xiaoyuan's name to Zhang Yuan." ”

Xia Yu continued to be expressionless and promised: "Okay." ”

With Xia Yu's approval, Li Man, who had just finished repairing the house in his hometown, immediately took his son Zhang Shan to change his name.

Xia Yu felt that this time because he did not give birth to a daughter, he suffered from a certain degree of postpartum depression, and he was always worried about whether the two brothers would be discordant in the future, the relationship would be very poor, and whether they would be jealous and hateful to each other?

Thinking that when he is old, he may have to be wholeheartedly good to his son and daughter-in-law, but he may not necessarily gain their gratitude and gratitude, thinking that after he is old, he has no daughter to talk to him, take pocket money for himself, buy clothes for himself, and go shopping with him, Xia Yu is even more depressed.

Xia Yu thought that from now on, he had two money shredders, but there was no one who was considerate of him, and Xia Yu was even more depressed. Xia Yu, who suffers from a certain degree of postpartum depression, has not taken care of the child except for breastfeeding the child.

Both of Zhang Shan's parents moved over, and my nanny took care of the two children together.

Xia Yu, who was depressed, suddenly remembered that the de facto marriage between himself and Zhang Shan, who were not married but were together, seemed to have been accepted by most people. Although the two did not have a marriage certificate, the two had children together and had a second child, and everyone felt as if there was no problem and were accustomed to it. Xia Yu sighed, sure enough, people's receptivity is very.

Since Xiao Ming was born, although he has a nanny to take care of him, Zhang Shan has been glued by Xiao Yuan, and when he accompanies Xia Yu, he will be accompanied by Zhang Ming, Zhang Shan feels that he has no time to stay with Xia Yu, and he has no time to rest.

It just so happened that Zhang Shan's parents also missed their two precious grandchildren very much. In order to hide from his leisure, Zhang Shan took his parents over to help him take care of the children. Xia Yu was already a little depressed after giving birth and didn't have the time and energy to take care of the two children, so he agreed to Zhang Shan's parents to help take care of the two children.

After Zhang Shan's parents came, Xia Yu understood that Li Man simply cared for his two grandsons as stars and moons, and although he had a nanny to help with things, Li Man still took care of his two grandsons very carefully.

Xia Yu also understands that Li Man's body has been recuperating for several years, and it should be good. Most importantly, Li Man loves his grandson too much. Xia Yu is also happy to be idle.

When Zhang Shan and Xia Yu watched TV together in the evening, Zhang Shan said: "You see that every time I come over, I have to go through two security doors, how inconvenient." Otherwise, we will open up the balcony, so that we can be much more convenient, and it will be convenient for Xiao Yuan and Xiao Ming. ”

Originally, Xia Yu wanted to have his own independent space, and he didn't want to live under the same roof with Zhang Shan's parents, which was easy to cause trouble.

Xia Yu had no choice but to postpone: "It's okay, it's so close anyway, there's no problem." You just take a fingerprint of your parents so they can come in. ”

More than three months after Xia Yu gave birth to Xiao Ming, she was ready to do postpartum repair, and she tightened her hips and abdomen. Unexpectedly, when he was eating at Zhang Shan's house, Li Man suddenly objected: "You'd better not go, my grandson is obviously eating breast milk now, and exercising like this will make the milk sour, and the milk will not be nutritious at all after it becomes sour, and it is not conducive to Xiao Mingchang's body at all." ”

Xia Yu, who was already depressed, stayed at home with his two children and was a little haggard, and because the children were forced to accept living under the same roof with them. Xia Yu was depressed and suffocated.

I finally wanted to go out to breathe and repair my body in the name of postpartum repair. Li Man, like in his previous life, thought that he knew everything and had to take care of everything, and the broken virtue of "understanding the king".

Xia Yu's face was unhappy, and he said: "Have I never taken a child, I went to do postpartum repair when Xiaoyuan was more than three months old, I don't know what to do?" Isn't Xiaoyuan very good now? Zhang Shan, you said, you are a doctor, is there any scientific basis for you, your mother's words? ”

After listening to Xia Yu's words, Li Man was dissatisfied: "What your mother? What is your attitude? ”

Zhang Shan saw that Xia Yu, who was already a little depressed after giving birth, was about to have a conflict with his mother, and immediately said: "Mom, I am a professional doctor, and your rhetoric is not right." It's good for Xia Yu to go for postpartum repair, which is conducive to the recovery of her body.

Experts say that "strenuous exercise" may lead to a temporary accumulation of lactic acid in breast milk, which can indeed lead to milk and juice stasis for a long time, thus changing the taste of breast milk and milk and becoming sour. Mother, milk turned sour, Xiao Ming really doesn't like to eat. However, postpartum recovery is of medium and low intensity, not strenuous exercise, and even if the mother and milk become acidic, it is temporary. Moderate recovery exercise not only does not affect the quality of breast and milk, but also benefits the health of the mother, and there is no need to worry about yogurt after exercise. ”

After Zhang Shan explained the facts, Li Man, who was slapped in the face, was very angry in his heart, since Li Man's surgery a few years ago, Zhang Shan felt very sorry for his mother, so he had to turn his head to Xia Yu and said: "I am very supportive of you to go to postpartum repair and fitness, that is, you can resume exercising, and you can communicate more, but you need to pay attention to it." First, you need to choose and wear sports bras of the right size as much as possible, which has both support and not too much pressure on the chest, try to avoid excessive upper limb exercise, replenish enough water before and after exercise, and avoid thick milk due to perspiration. Do you understand? ”

Xia Yu nodded: "Understood, I'm full, I'll go first." Then he took Xiao Ming and left.

After Xia Yu returned to his home, he was in a very bad mood, Li Man was so self-righteous that he was relying on the old and selling the old, he really regarded himself as a high-ranking mother-in-law, he hadn't entered the door yet, don't think that if he lives with his son, he wants to take care of himself like in his previous life, let himself see her face, there are no doors, no windows, and no patio.

Xia Yu breastfed Xiao Ming, and he was even more determined that he would never be under the same roof with Zhang Shan's parents without any bird anger, and he didn't want to see their faces, so he resolutely wouldn't open the balcony. I want to live my own life of freedom and quietness and freedom from mental oppression.

After Xia Yu hugged Xiao Ming and left, Li Man was angry with her husband and son: "Look at it, you completely go your own way, and you can't listen to a word at all." ”

Zhang Shan was caught in the middle and couldn't speak, Li Man lost his temper at his husband Zhang Gui: "What you eat, you know the rice bucket you eat." ”

Originally, Li Man's temper was strong and bad, since Li Man had surgery, he treated himself as the Queen Mother Lafayette, yelling at himself every day, Zhang Yan and Zhang Shan sometimes inadvertently said a word to make Li Man unhappy, and Li Man would be angry for several days and use himself as a punching bag.

Zhang Gui threw his chopsticks hard: "Are you getting more and more feathered?" Don't think that you are sick, everyone else depends on you for everything. Talk less and do more, and go back if you don't want to do things. ”

After Zhang Gui finished speaking, he continued to eat, Li Man was even more uncomfortable by her husband's anger, and she didn't dare to say bad things about Xia Yu in front of her son and Xiaoyuan, so she had to stand up and slam the door directly.

Zhang Shan looked at his mother like this, he was used to continuing to eat, but Xiaoyuan suddenly jumped up: "It's really menopause, inexplicable." ”

Zhang Shan corrected: "Your grandmother's menopause has long passed, it's just that your grandma and your mother don't agree, we have to look at our nose and nose and care, try not to mix and not spread to be a rational and fair person, you know?" ”

Xiao Yuan looked old and said at a young age: "Isn't it just to hang your two heads high and not offend." ”

Zhang Shan touched his son's little head and said with a smile: "Well, that's it, we must be big-minded as men, don't go to them as women, do you understand?" ”

Xiao Yuan nodded a little ignorantly.

Xia Yu insisted on going to postpartum fitness, so he was ready to hire a nanny to follow him, so that he could not only exercise but also take care of the child.

Zhang Shan came over in the evening, kept silent about today's events, and heard that Xia Yu was going to hire a nanny and take the child to accompany Xia Yu to the gym, Zhang Shan said: "My mother has agreed, you go, I have already convinced my mother." ”

"Hmm." Xia Yu knew that Zhang Shan cared about Li Man very much in his heart, so he didn't talk much and did his own thing, Xia Yu recently felt that after Li Man and his wife moved over, it disturbed his peaceful life a little, Xia Yu thought about buying another house in the community and renting out his own house.

Zhang Shan disagreed: "You are still renting out the house in your parents' community, so there is no need to be so troublesome." I'm already going to buy them a house in another building in the neighborhood where we live now.

In this way, we live in the same community, there is a tea distance, but it is also convenient to take care of the children and pick up Xiaoyuan. ”

Xia Yu nodded: "Okay." ”

Xia Yu put Xiao Ming here and went out to exercise by himself, but Xia Yu is also measured, each workout does not exceed two hours, and Xia Yu, who has free time, takes Xiao Ming to the company when he is free, and he is also comfortable.

After getting off work, Xia Yu agreed to Zhang Shan's invitation and went to Zhang Shan's house for dinner. As soon as Xia Yu entered the door, he found that Zhang Shan had not come back, and at this time Zhang Shan called: "I have a party tonight, so I won't come back for dinner, you can eat with my parents Xiaoyuan." ”

Xia Yu nodded, but he didn't know if it was Xia Yu's illusion, he always felt that Li Man and his wife had a cold attitude, Xia Yu thought that their son Zhang Shan was not here, and they didn't have to make a show to greet themselves.

When Xia Yu was eating very uncomfortably, Zhang Gui suddenly said: "When I picked up Xiaoyuan today, Xiaoyuan actually said that you didn't let him play with us?" ”

Xia Yu was surprised: "How come?" It must be that Xiaoyuan, this kid is a little stingy and deliberately talks empty words. ”

Li Man said with a straight face: "I listened to the old ladies in the community, and they asked Xiaoyuan, 'Do you love grandma or grandma'?"

Xiaoyuan actually replied: "I love grandma." ’”

Xia Yu can be considered to understand now, this Li Man and his wife have been holding back their words in their hearts, dissatisfied with themselves, taking advantage of their son's absence, they don't have to show a virtuous appearance in front of Zhang Shan, and they began to settle accounts after revealing their original form. In the past and present lives, Xia Yu has experienced the duplicity of this couple, and Xia Yu especially hates this kind of style.

Xia Yu asked: "You are old people, you should at least have a brain that can think, instead of following the clouds."