Since a few years ago, the blind date programs on TV have been broadcast at endless levels, occupying the market for variety shows with the mode of bombardment, and the emotional life of this generation of young people born after the reform and opening up has been used as a talking point and spread through the media, a channel accepted by the world, and the concept of marriage and love has been hotly discussed for a long time in the friction between the two generations. has become a breaking point in the eyes of the media, and launched different kinds of variety shows for those gratifying ratings. Driven by the essence of Chinese people eating melons, many stories occupy public resources with unique perspectives. Chinese people are not in the mood to distinguish the truth from the falsehood of the story, just to watch the excitement and adjust their lives.

should have been born in different eras, different social environments, different problems, and different difficulties in survival, but they were required to be the same by the previous generation in terms of marriage and love. The ancient traditional Chinese culture has been perfectly inherited from the parents born in the fifties and sixties, who tried to force their views on their children. The children tried to resist, but not many succeeded. Under the problems of high housing prices, high cost of living, low income, cruelty of the market, and job changes, young people are struggling in order to survive in society, constantly struggling, and they are afraid that giving up a certain moment may be equivalent to giving up a big step. The temptation of the parents' wallets leads young people to the best life in the hearts of their parents. Few people will resist this temptation, and money can solve most of the problems in a world where money can solve most of the problems. Some people sink, after all, they have short hands and short mouths. Do it first, and if there is a problem in the future, we will talk about it later.

The temptation of the wallet did not achieve its effect, and the word filial piety came into play. The number of elderly people in our country has increased, the preferential treatment policy has been rising, and the parents have grown up with the care of the red flag, and they have educated their children and grandchildren with the country's preferential treatment. If the country wants to develop, it needs a young labor force, and young people need to survive and work. Work brings most of the time and experience of the working population. The little time and energy left has to repay the grace of birth and nourishment. Some only children want to give full play to the willfulness given to them by the times, and the tenderness of family affection shatters their only remaining lawlessness and wantonness.

In the world, women are dominated by male power, and the status of women in East Asia is not high. Bread is not guaranteed, who will think about family issues. If you want to think about the family, you must know the relevant laws of the country. The superficial marriage inheritance law is essentially a time and property distribution system, which brings the Chinese people not the happiness of marriage, but the panic of marriage.

The birth rate in Japan and South Korea has hit a new low every year, and the problem has blown up the Internet, and the hearts of old parents are constantly nagging their children to marry wives and have children, and they are pressing young people with the hat of the state and society. Some parks in major cities have become blind date parks, and major shopping malls have held blind date activities to attract visitors.

In this oil-dominated city in the northeast, not only the traditional culture and the mainstream ideology of the country are perfectly inherited, but also the trust of the older generation in oil and the work within the system. Retired uncles and aunts are the generation that has enjoyed the dividends brought by oil and old industrial enterprises the most, and the generation that has benefited from it hopes that their convicted ideas and culture will be passed on to the next generation, and matchmaking will become their favorite hobby. Over-age matchmakers have become a new profession that does not need to be paid. They say that matchmaking is a good deed to live a long life, and that single men and women in oil companies and the civil service have become the ginseng fruit that can live a long life in their eyes.

Qixi Festival, a traditional Chinese festival based on the story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, is nicknamed Chinese Valentine's Day. Merchants don't pass up this opportunity to boost sales. The city's single men and women are nagged by their elders to come here for a range of activities with different purposes.

The first time she came to a blind date event, Wang Yan looked very fresh everywhere. When I was in college, I once saw the madness of uncles and aunts when I was visiting the park. It's a different sight when you come here, it's a gathering place for young people, and the older ones are like the green leaves among the flowers.

The purpose of the young people coming here is somewhat unclear. Whether they're there to talk to, or to make gifts for games, or both.

"Little Swallow." The sound and the heavy blow on the shoulder let Wang Yan know that this was a flower. Flowers, how could she be here. The doubts in my heart were answered without asking. Colleagues working in several units appeared around her, this is a sisterhood party? Flowers have good social skills, and they break into the crowd of units so quickly. A fact came to Wang Yan's mind. Flowers are the university that attended the city.

The millennial buyout boom shattered the city's inherent perception of the iron rice bowl. Some people get rich because of the buyout and realize their life's pursuit, and everyone passes on its legend by mouth. But such people are a minority after all, and most of those who leave the system live a life of poverty and frugality. Out of the big pot of rice, into the piecework and according to the distribution of work system is not suitable to promote the growth of people, enterprises in order to develop every year will accept undergraduate graduates. Many oilfield employees have a strong sense of identity with the company they are working for, and they will pay attention to the conditions for the oilfield to accept new employees every year, and force their children to go to which universities and which majors to study according to this condition, regardless of whether the children like it, whether they are willing to learn, and whether they are suitable for this major. They have a purpose, that is, after graduating from college, they will have the opportunity to come back and work here. This opportunity is what they call an iron rice bowl. Flowers are the creations of their parents based on the pop culture here. The school and major that Hua Hua studied will allow her to find many brothers, sisters and alumni in the oil field. Problems such as teachers and school facilities will give her a key to open the door of strangers. She was able to integrate into the business faster than she could.

"Little Swallow, after you saw me, were you stupid? Isn't it particularly pleased. Flower asked. The series of spins in Wang Yan's mind just now became the foolishness in the eyes of the flowers. Wang Yan, who was in a restored state, said to the flowers; "I am very happy to suddenly see so many colleagues in the unit, and I am a little uncomfortable with it."

The flowers continue to open; "This is a blind date for singles, you are a person who has a boyfriend and occasionally shows affection, and you come here to occupy resources. Don't you feel ashamed? ”。

"I don't feel it, I'm passing by, there is no sign here, and women who tell people who have boyfriends are not allowed to come. You point out the position of the sign, and I'll consider whether it's shameful. Hearing Wang Yan's serious words, the flower's face turned green.