Chapter 178: Premarital phobia
() "Willow Branch, that's a big person on weekdays, not afraid of the ground every day, much more powerful than me, this time I'm worried about this, worried about that, I guess if I make a family affair when the time comes, I'm even more afraid than Willow Branch."
Song Yulan pouted: "I don't want to be like this, if I live like this, and I am picked by my in-laws when I marry and my in-laws pick my nose and eyes, then I will not be humiliated to death." ”
"My in-laws are not necessarily picky, you see my father, isn't it very good to me?" Xie Yinan smiled and persuaded.
"That's because the second sister-in-law is a good person, you are well-behaved and hardworking, and you have the skills to make money, which is liked, even if the second sister-in-law is so good, didn't my mother make it difficult for a long time when she first came, that is, the second sister-in-law was generous and endured."
"If I'm like this, I guess I'll have to quarrel for three days, and I'll have to fight for five days, and I'll definitely have to be restless, and I'll not be at ease at all."
Song Yulan only said with a hippie smile: "So, I'm thinking, instead of being scared and angry every day, it's better to simply don't marry and accompany the second sister-in-law at home, wouldn't it be a good thing?" ”
Typical fear of marriage.
Xie Yinan was also a little helpless: "You're not afraid of staying at home as an old girl?" ”
"What's this, it's a big deal to say that I have some hidden disease or something, and others won't talk nonsense and chew the root of the tongue?" Song Yulan Road.
Xie Yinan: "......"
This is quite a lot of money.
But this kind of thing can't be blamed on Song Yulan, when she was in modern society, she was in free love for many years, and she knew each other very well, and when she faced this kind of marriage designed to three families, she still had all kinds of worries, and she had premarital phobia at every turn, not to mention that she couldn't even meet twice, and it was all about the people who heard about it?
At that time, how the husband is, how the in-laws, what is the way of life, all aspects, small things are very easy to cause very big family conflicts.
Especially in this era when daughters-in-law have become mothers-in-law for many years, husbands are wives, and women's status is low, there is almost a 99% probability that daughters-in-law will be angry.
It's no wonder that Song Liuzhi was nervous about this, and Song Yulan was so scared that she didn't want to get married.
Xie Yinan can understand, and he also feels that there is no need to persuade him in this matter.
With such a thought, the more you say you don't have to be afraid, the easier it is to be afraid, but it is better to press down and not mention it, and after a long time, it will naturally fade.
And on weekdays, she and Song Leshan have a harmonious relationship, Song Chengyou and the Cao family treat her very kindly, and Song Yulan estimates that she will not have this mind in the future.
What's more important is that when she meets someone who can make her laugh in the future, those so-called worries will have already been thrown away.
"You." Xie Yinan pursed his lips and laughed.
"What are you talking about, so happy." Song Leshan, who came to the courtyard, saw Song Yulan and Xie Yinan talking and laughing there, and asked with a smile.
"It's nothing, it's just some people......" Xie Yinan glanced at Song Yulan narrowly.
Song Yulan immediately looked nervous.
Xie Yinan is the most open-minded and can say anything, but her second brother is the most stubborn, and she doesn't know how to say anything about her.
Xie Yinan laughed even harder, only blinked his eyes and smiled: "Some people are too ugly to tie the knots, and I just laughed at them." ”
"Where have you been, you haven't seen anyone since then."
"Yes, yes, where have you been, second brother, I have been gone for most of the day, and no one has been seen." Seeing that Xie Yinan didn't say anything about herself, Song Yulan winked at her and made a gesture of thanks, while she echoed and changed the topic.
"I just went to ask the price of green bricks, and by the way, I went to see the place of the house with my father." Song Leshan replied.
"So, the place is chosen?" Xie Yinan asked.
The selection of land for building houses in the village is extremely complicated, and it is necessary to pay attention to feng shui, and the people of the clan must not cross the boundary according to their seniority, and they must also finalize the place with the patriarch and record it in the register.
Things are complicated, and you have to deal with people, Xie Yinan really has a headache and doesn't want to participate.
For her, as long as the house is clean and tidy, and it is comfortable to live in, it doesn't matter where it is.
What's more, according to Song Chengyou and Song Leshan's temperament, they will definitely choose an excellent position and handle everything properly.
"My father and I think the land over there is good, it's smooth, the feng shui is good, and it's close to the road, mainly because the land boundary is spacious, and the house is not so crowded." Song Leshan pointed in that direction to Xie Yinan, and then said, "Dad said that he would go and talk to the patriarch in the afternoon to see if it was feasible." ”
"The location is good." Xie Yinan nodded.
Seeing that Xie Yinan was also very sure, a smile appeared on the corner of Song Leshan's mouth.
"The second brother builds a new house, but he can build two more houses, especially one for me, don't forget." Song Yulan interjected.
"Then tell me, why did you keep it?" Song Leshan asked urgently.
"Needless to say." Song Yulan raised her chin: "Wait for the second sister-in-law to go back to confinement or something, I can go and serve the second sister-in-law for confinement and help take the little nephew, right?" ”
"Are you sure you are going to serve the confinement child, not to rob your second sister-in-law's confinement food?" Song Leshan's face was joking.
"Second brother!" As soon as she heard this, Song Yulan was not happy, and stomped her feet: "I'm not such a greedy person, when the second brother went hunting, the second sister-in-law's leg injury was inconvenient at that time, but I took care of it, the second brother is good, this time I will talk about me." ”
Seeing that Song Yulan was angry, Song Leshan also accepted it when he saw it: "Okay, okay, I know, I will leave you a spacious room when I go back." ”
"It's a deal." Song Yulan and Song Leshan hooked their little fingers.
"Don't worry, what I promised you, I can still break my promise." Song Leshan said with a smile: "It's done, you hurry up and pick up, go home first." ”
"Why?" Song Yulan also planned to have dinner here before leaving, but she was about to be driven away this time.
"Your second sister-in-law and I are going to go to Xiejiazhuang later, there is no one at home, and it is boring for you to stay here, let's go home first." Song Leshan explained.
The dispute between Xie Yinan and her uncle and aunt a few days ago, Song Yulan also heard about it, and the two of them were going to Xie Jiazhuang at this time, so they should be there for this matter.
"That's it, then I'll go first, and when I go back, I'll make up the rest of these things, and I'll show them to my second sister-in-law tomorrow." Song Yulan said, began to pack up her things, and then ran away with a smoke.
"Run slower, be careful of falling." Xie Yinan looked at Song Yulan's fiery appearance and shouted behind him.