My dad is Qiao Yadong

The love of that era was so unpretentious, but white and flawless, and the outbreak of free love, although there was no helplessness of blind marriage and dumb marriage in ancient times, but there was no 21st century, the pursuit of materialism. To be honest, nowadays, when I just went to college, I am still very envious, although my parents, although they always like to quarrel and fight seriously, but they only scold each other for divorce, and they have never practiced it.

Not long after, my father was going to be recruited into the army, and because he had to shave the board as a soldier, my father wanted to go to the old artist master in the village, and cut it there, just enough to shave his beard.

However, my mother said, don't spend the money wrongly, she just help my dad get it.

Hum! Not wanting to waste money is secondary, making a fool of your father is the real purpose! But that's just my thoughts! After all, I'm not in love now, and the little ninety-nine between lovers can't understand, I don't understand.

Eventually, under the watchful eye of my mother, my father set off by train and went to the most sacred place in my heart.

At the beginning, my father was not very adaptable, and the life in the army even caused a low-grade fever because of the lack of adaptation.

However, the accompanying medical officers and instructors, after all, are also very experienced, and they used some methods and medicines unhurriedly, and my father slowly got better.

And my father's unit is a branch of the infantry system, because of the age, and after my father was discharged from the army, he rarely talked to us about the things of those years, and I only learned some from the photos and certificates, not much, just a few words.

However, I can remember the things more clearly, that time, a big competition in my father's team, it seems to be a 5-kilometer hike, and I have to carry sandbags and equipment on my back, my father, because he is good at long-distance running, finally ran to the finish line in third place, after the instructor finished the roll call, like other people who finished first, my father ran back and helped his comrades carry sandbags, under the influence of everyone's outbreak of comradeship, everyone completed it at the specified time, and my father also won the certificate of third place, I am really happy for him!

And that photo has always been quietly treasured by my father, most likely because I was too naughty when I was a child, and often took out my father's souvenirs when he came back from the army, such as, kettles, backpacks, medals, and other things, and shared them with my friends.

When my father found out about this matter, he immediately scolded my mother, saying that she didn't put things away, and I was so short, if it wasn't easy to handle, how could I get it. (Qiao Mu's inner OS: Dad, are you sure you are saying that my mother didn't put it well, or obviously dislike your daughter for being too short!) I'll go, it's too unbalanced, boom! )

In fact, my father still doted on me and my sister, although I grew up in the quarrel between him and my mother when I was young, but he never beat me and my sister, but he was more strict with my uncles' sons, and the brothers I wanted to hunt down and kill in those years, but although I didn't have a biological brother, but because these brothers were there, I was also spoiled and grew up.

When I was 9 years old, I was fostered at my grandfather's house, and my grandparents were typical patriarchal thinkers, so since I was a child, they didn't care for me and never cared about me.

And part of the reason is because when I was a child, when I lived alone at my grandfather's house, because I had a disease, but my grandparents ignored me and didn't think about sending me to the hospital, and because I couldn't eat enough for a long time, it led to severe malnutrition and low blood sugar.

My father resolutely closed the clothing business in S-state, and returned to me with my mother and grandmother.

At that time, it was the summer vacation, my brothers heard the news, and also came to my house to see me, I was very thin, very short, yellow-skinned, and looked like a bold, Brother Cheng and Brother Xi, when they saw me, they were startled, they were so lively and cheerful little sister, this is just half a year, how did it become this yellow and sick, sick appearance, almost about to take the guy, to greet and greet, my grandparents, although I was stopped by my mother, but I was even more indignant in my heart, so I suggested, don't live in the old house anymore.

Lay the foundation when your parents got married, paint the house simply, repair it and move out!

If the province and the grandparents quarrel again, even if they don't suffer a loss, they will be spread by the grandmother's mouth and City A, which is not a good thing for our family.

My father also felt that this matter had to be carried out, but now it was imperative to cure my illness first, and not to leave any fatal sequelae! Everyone nodded, thinking that this was the best way to do it right now.

Back then, when I saw that my parents came back specifically for me, I was the first to rush up and hug me, but it was my grandmother, who took care of me since I was born.

I am a premature baby, when I was born, my mother's milk was insufficient, I could only drink milk powder all the time, and my weight was not light, 6 pounds and 6 taels!

However, fortunately, back then, my mother did not choose Sanlu milk powder in the milk powder for me, although since childhood, they were weak and sickly, but they also avoided it and became a big-headed doll.

Thinking about it this way, although my life is not considered vigorous, but at least, it is smooth!

My mother, when she was pregnant with me, the hospital's gender screening system was not perfect, so the hospital could not detect boys and girls.

So my grandmother, although she has some opinions about my mother, is probably thinking about it in her heart and is pregnant, so she is not as mean and chattering to her mother as before.

But because I was a girl when I was born, my grandfather never even went to the hospital to see my mother and me, and although my grandmother went to see it, it was only a glance, so she hurried back home, and threw the weak mother who gave birth to the baby and threw it to my grandmother to take care of.

So when I was born, I was surrounded by my grandmother, when I was a child, the person who held me, carried me, and held hands has always been grandma, when I learned to speak, the first person I called, is also grandma, when there is danger, grandma has always been protecting me, grandma is also the most important family that has witnessed my 20 years of life!

Of course, when I was a child, I went to the house to uncover the tiles, poke the bird's nest, climb the tree, and my grandmother scolded me the most, after all, I was the king of the mountain among the children, and when I played the game of the police catching the thief, whether it was the police or the thief, I was in the group of people who overturned the other party, hehe!

When I was a child, heroic deeds, it seemed a bit doha!

And my mother, after I cried with my grandmother, took me by the hand, and when she saw my miserable situation, she hugged me directly, and cried, my father did not stop me, but always beside us, looking at our mother and daughter, gently touching my back with his hand, for a while, I was tired of crying, and fell asleep.

Everyone didn't waste time, took a taxi directly, and sent me to, the hospital in the city, the doctor said, the disease is not big, but it needs to be recuperated, and now the severe malnutrition has caused the child to suffer from stomach problems.

"You parents are too inattentive to their children, you see, this child has been tortured like this, since he was born, he has the obligation to supervise, so how can he treat the child like this? I didn't say it! You guys! It's really the parent I've ever encountered since I started in the industry, and I don't know how to take care of my children, so I have to review and review myself! ”

The father finally let out a sigh of relief when he heard this, and the big stone in his heart was also put down, the child was fine, and it would be fine if he raised the child for a while.

The mother didn't say anything, just said thank you to the doctor and bowed.

Later, under the care of my grandmother, the illness was also cured, but the stomach disease finally fell to the root of the disease, can not eat spicy food and irritating things, otherwise it is not vomiting and diarrhea, or the whole body has a red rash, until now I can't, eat a lot of ice cream, so in my house, I buy the kind, very small, very small, a small cylinder that can be eaten in one bite After all, ice cream, a more famous brand, is a brand of love or cute.

The old people all say that when they were young, there were more tribulations, which means that when they grow up, there will be fewer tribulations, cause and effect, and if there is no cause, there will be no effect, so you have to have confidence in yourself.