The starting point of parental love
When I was 14 years old, when I woke up in the hospital, I forgot a lot, but I heard in a daze, my lonely tablemate, and hurriedly ran to report to the teacher, I may not be well, if I don't go to the hospital again.
My mother listened to me, and after the news, she and my father brought gifts and came to the door to thank them, after all, if he hadn't noticed that something was wrong with me, maybe I would have to go and report to the king of Yama now.
Sometimes, in fact, I still want to know, what hell is the situation, is there really all kinds of torture instruments on the eighteenth floor, is the screams really coming and going, and whether Meng Po is a big beauty who is hurt by a scumbag, every day with the liver of an infatuated man and a woman, boiling the only Meng Po soup in this world, so I have to drink a few bowls to forget everything in this world and leave no regrets? Won't it be hard.
When I first learned that my condition was serious, my parents even scolded each other again, but because of the facilities of the hospital, they were smashed and had to pay for it, so the two of them could only compete for this tongue of pleasure.
Only my grandmother stood up and said, you two are still arguing, arguing, arguing not fierce enough, right? You all scared the finches into the hospital, don't you think it's not enough, if you can't keep the finches this time, I'm not done with you.
What my grandmother said is exactly what I was at home before I was 14 years old, and the furniture in my home is generally not changed after a long time, and my parents' mobile phones and computers will basically die in the first half of the year.
Because if they quarrel, they will fight, and when they fight, let's fight! You have to worry about whether something is going to happen.
In fact, when my parents first fell in love, they were also soaked in a honey pot, when my father was 19, he had been selected for conscription, and he was going to serve in the military soon, and my mother was 17 years old, but she had already rented a small shop in her hometown and bought clothes, because she had learned embroidery from a teacher, so she set up a sewing machine in the store.
One day, my father also because of the need, mend the old gown, introduced by someone, came to my mother's shop, when I entered the store, my mother because of the hand, is mending a torn clothes, only looked up at my father, just in a soft voice faintly said: "You can look at the clothes, if you like it, try it, the price can also be discussed, and then continue the work at hand."
My father, it was precisely because of this electric light and flint that he fell in love with my mother, in today's words, it was love at first sight!
People in the nineties were still very simple, at that time, when they got married, they didn't have to have a house or a car, as long as they got married, they had a TV, a washing machine, and a refrigerator, and they could marry their beloved girl home.
The father handed the old gown to the mother, negotiated the price, and said that after a few days, he would come and get it, and he went home happily, but he always thought in his heart how to get close to his mother.
When my mother was young, she was not thrillingly beautiful, with a filament, just a few more points, the quiet and weak beauty of the deep boudoir, of course, once the temper came up, no one could persuade her.
This also led to many years later, and my father cut the tangled and chaotic entanglements, two people usually look harmonious and stable, once in a hurry, you must fight, if you are the first, I will not be the second, a big fuss is also a common thing.
At first, in fact, my mother didn't look down on my father, but just thought that a stunned guy was stupid, and he was just good-looking.
And it seems to me that my father at that time, if it were not for his goatee, he did not look proportional to his age, and liked to wear a lamb's hat all the year round, but he only wore it, but he rarely wore it on his head.
I heard the old man say that the white hat was made by himself, the thought of a playmate of his childhood, this playmate was the little lamb that his father grew up with when he was a child, Bai Yuan is.
Xiao Baiyuan because he was often pulled out by my father, openly and secretly, stealing radish autumn seeds, and feeding him a few white and chubby, slowly, also brought himself to the disaster of killing, my grandfather thinks, it is very good to raise, it's time to kill, subsidize the subsidy, this family's work.
At that time, although the country has slowly been on the right track, but in us, this poor small place, rice, flour and grain, is still very scarce, and even to eat a white-cut pork, you have to celebrate the New Year's Festival, in order to taste it, than usual, but also smell the fish, before the sweet potato porridge water is poured down, otherwise you will have to starve.
Although my father was a child, the family did not share in poverty, but it was also necessary to save some expenses.
And the father is the youngest son of his grandfather, and he has two older brothers and an older sister above him, but because he occupies the name of the youngest son, his grandmother is also favored, although he will not his tail to the sky, but at least he is also a king of small mountains.
When I was young, my father seemed to have practiced, and the ability to grab food to fill himself up, but now my father still hasn't changed, and he eats like gobbling up.
That's it, Fat Bai Yuan, under the condition that my father was lured away, because my father was not there, no one dared to kill it, and the father of my youngest son since he was a child, because of his temperament like a little demon king in the world, was also famous.
When his father rushed back, Bai Yuan'er only had a pair of leather jackets, and the meat had been sold, his father instantly reddened, and a tear fell from that socket, everyone thought that he would make a big fuss, but he didn't expect him to be the first time, he didn't shout, he just asked his grandfather to get the leather, clean it, and he has been grinding it for many years, and he has worn the wool hat, and he has been carrying it with him for a long time, and the white has also turned yellow with sweat.
After this time, my father's temperament was also a lot more introverted, not as noisy as before, and when he was sensible, he grew a little beard, but his stubbornness since childhood has not diminished.
But it is precisely because his mother was lukewarm in the early stage and didn't care about his father, but he felt that his mother was shy, so he didn't dare to say it clearly.
As the saying goes, it is called the Milky Way, there is a fairy, desired, the fairy does not pay attention, take the initiative, shorten the distance, and find a beautiful woman, it is only a matter of time!
It doesn't matter, buy clothes or not! From time to time, he drilled into his mother's shop and slapped him in the face, as if he was afraid that my mother would not remember him.
I too, when I was a child, I heard my mother say that there was a matchmaker who talked about my mother's blind date, and the object of this blind date was none other than my second uncle, who had done a very successful business, that is, my father's second brother.
So! Sometimes, fate really plays a joke on you.
Later, my father's friend found out about it, and it naturally penetrated into my father's ears.
Let's talk about tigers! Father is that representative, he went directly to ask the second uncle, is there such a thing, the second uncle heard it, probably because he was afraid that he would make trouble again, so he quickly denied it.
Afterwards, the second uncle went to tell his grandfather that the matchmaker should look at each other and look at each other! He didn't think it was appropriate, and just like that, a "marriage" was broken up by my father.
At that time, my mother didn't know that it had happened, such a thing, I just thought that the other party didn't fancy herself, but in that era, the blind date that had not yet met was unilaterally canceled, and it was quite normal to unilaterally cancel it, and the party that might be canceled already had someone she liked!!
Until later...