Someone, the child is a way for the continuation of the parents' lives, another form of the parents' stay in this world. What do parents do with their children, is it their shadow?

Wang Yan has never been able to figure out this question, and when she asked the people around her this question, she didn't get the answer she wanted. In order to satisfy the curiosity in my heart, I can only find the answer to this question in the way of empathy, and finally come to such a result. Parents also don't know what they are doing with their children, or whether they are their shadows. This is not like an answer, but it can reflect the anxiety of feeling the stones to cross the river in people's hearts. I want to get the best things for my children, I want my children to be happy, Jackie Chan and Phoenix, the final result, what kind of individual to raise is a box full of unknown elements, only guess about the box, but I don't know what exactly is inside, only understand a rough idea, at the moment when the box is opened, there is a disappointment of psychological preparation. It won't fit exactly with the idea in my heart, and I can't get rid of that idea without it.

These are some of the ideas for parenthood.

Hu Guyue is a mother, a mother who is eager to find a suitable path for her child. Hearing Wang Yan's answer, my first impression was perfunctory, thinking about how to break this perfunctory.

Hu Yizhou's focus is on the way children are educated, and if his family can be admitted to a prestigious university like Wang Yan, then his family's ancestral grave must be smoking. You should ask more, everything starts with the baby. "Have you been studying since then? How long did you study in total? Do you feel like learning those things useful? ”

"I've been studying for a total of ten years, it seems like a little more, and I've been learning until I have half a year to take the high school entrance examination. I was enlightened by my mother and uncle. My mother taught calligraphy, and my uncle taught sketching. At that time, I studied with my uncle and son, mainly as a foil, to be a companion to my cousin. After going to school, it is a special place to study. I've learned almost everything, but I don't know much about it, and the most important thing is that I've never thought about making art, so I've never learned it well. Now it's useful to look at and learn anything. It's not just a skill, it gives you a way, a way to see the world. Cultivate the mind and calm the mind. ”

It's a long paragraph, listening to Hu Yizhou in the clouds, but there is one point that understands that learning is beneficial. "Then I must let my family Gege study hard, Gege likes to draw very much. The teacher also gave her a gift. ”

Wang Yan listened to the fat secretary looking at her daughter with a happy face, and wondered if her father had praised himself like this in front of Wairao. Recently, I have had a feeling that my father doesn't seem to like me, but I hope it's a delusion.

Hu Guyue opened her mouth and said: "If the child likes it, then you can cultivate it well." I don't want my child to be high or low, and I don't know what he can do. ”

Hu Yizhou said in a questioning tone; "I remember, your child is a boy. Now in junior high school, I am only in my teens. ”

"Yes. Only fifteen years old. Teachers are always looking for parents, disobedient, and it is a headache for people. At the end of the performance crane, I pondered letting him learn a specialty and be admitted to university as a specialty student. When I was learning to draw, I had the idea of letting him excel in art. But the child doesn't like it. I don't know what to do yet. ”

"What else can I do, I can only be reasonable. Just like my family, although she hasn't gone to school yet, she understands the reasoning she says, and she is very obedient and well-behaved. ”

"Listen to the girls, my family, stinky man, everything will be given to you anyway, you are east, he is west."

"Then you are west, then he is not east." Lin Mu interjected.

After Hu Guyue heard this, she agreed very much; "That makes sense, I'll give it a try."

Looking at Hu Guyue's attitude, Hu Yizhou thought of joking. "Sister Hu, you are still very young now, you can give birth to a second child, give birth to a daughter, and raise a caring padded jacket."

After hearing it, he smiled bitterly; "The four old people are all on the two of us, one child is enough, and another one really can't afford to raise it. No money, no energy. The burden is heavy enough, so I don't want to press it anymore. You have this idea to want. ”

Regarding the issue of the second child, Hu Yizhou is very calm. "The problem of having a second child is not on me, but on my daughter-in-law, after all, she pays and sacrifices the most when she is pregnant and has a child, I can help her take care of the child, but it is not proportional to what he pays. There is also our second salary, which is pitiful. Raising this child depends on both parents, and it is estimated that there is not much savings for another parent. If so, what if you get seriously ill? This is a very real problem. ”

After hearing the words of the fat secretary, Wang Yan felt that this person was quite humane, and there were rumors in the early years that this person was able to gain a foothold here by relying on his father-in-law. But as a person who thinks about his wife and bears the responsibilities of a father, he is also a good person. Thinking of this, I suddenly found that this world is a bit harsh on women.

"It's a real problem. In real life, this is like this, and there is joy in the bitterness of rice, oil and salt. Whoever lives has his own sweetness and his own bitterness. Hu Guyue fell into the perception of life

The street lights outside the window are on, and I hope to reach them. When the four of them came to the duty room, the lights in the distribution cabinet were not on. It turned out to be an empty joy.

Hu Yizhou said; "It's 22 o'clock now, it should be soon. When the power went out, I called the brigade, and they could call around 23 o'clock. This is the time told by the special maintenance personnel in the factory, which should be more accurate. ”

Waiting is indeed a difficult endurance, and a question that has plagued Wang Yan since the power outage was raised here. "Secretary, why are we going to have a power outage here today?"

Hearing this question, the other party laughed out loud. "The wind is blowing."

Looking at each other's expressions, the face says 'You're so stupid, are you an idiot?' In this case, he said to himself, "Does the wind have any great power?" When I was done, I kept my mouth shut at the thought of natural disasters such as tornadoes.

Hu Guyue said in a deep voice; "You are here, you have to get used to it, such things, only more, not less."

"No, it won't." After Wang Yan shouted excitedly, he noticed that he was out of shape, so he spoke in a gentle tone; "No, it won't."

Hu Yizhou took over with a smile; "The electricity on such a station is generally followed by a cable from the kowtow machine, such a wiring method is simple and saves materials, but there is a defect, it is easy to break when it is windy and rainy. Every year, the spring breeze is big, so such a situation will become frequent. ”

Hearing such an answer, Wang Yan's whole person was not good. What you can do is pray that the power will not go out while you go to work.