Getting off work will always make people happy, Wang Yan once thought that only she was like this, but when she saw Sister Hu's attitude, she understood that there was a type of person with such an attitude.

Familiarity brings people closer together, and everyone has their own way of expressing their familiarity. Wang Yan guessed that Sister Hu's expression was to chat. When a topic is thrown out, and before it lands, a series of words have come out and reached your ears, making you dizzy. In order to maintain relationships, you also need to deal with it carefully, it takes a long time to build a good impression with someone, but it only takes a moment to destroy that impression.

"When you were a child, did your parents take you directly, or did they hand you over to the elderly?"

Hu Guyue threw out the question without any suspense, regardless of whether the other party was taboo about this question or not.

After Wang Yan heard this question, he was stunned by the punch of this enhanced version of the familiar ball, and it was natural to look at the expression of the initiator who was driving. The dizziness had dissipated, and I began to carefully type out the manuscript in my heart, sorting out the words in response. "When my mom was a kid, my grandparents died, and my grandpa and grandma passed away when I don't have much memory."

My grandfather and grandmother only live in memory, and my mother and uncle describe it beautifully, in their gentle words, with regrets, and tell myself and Piggy from time to time that if they were still alive and learned of your existence, they would love and cherish you very much. This fantasy, constructed by his mother and uncle, supports his fantasy about that generation. Fantasy exudes a temperature that can dispel the cold left by grandpa and grandma. Memories of what happened when they were four years old are still alive today, and eavesdropping on grandparents' conversations becomes a nightmare with their labels.

"Now it's family planning, and the strong son is a city hukou, so you can't have a second child. Birth without indicators, fines, demotion in the unit. Serious ones are likely to be expelled. ”

"Isn't the daughter-in-law's family rich? It's good if this child is dead, if he dies, he will be a grandson, an old man, and I'll find someone to figure it out. ”

"It's a crime to kill on your own initiative."

"It's normal for children to run around on the side of the mountain and have accidents."

"Then I'll see, this has to be summed up."

Because of the long distance, I can't remember how I walked back to my mother, but I remember that I hugged my mother and cried, and then I had a high fever, so that my parents had to leave their hometown early and return home. Externally, it is something in the mountains that affects the child, and the child is too young to bear it. This statement is somewhat feudal and superstitious, but the older generation is obsessed with this kind of thing.

Hu Guyue showed an emotional expression. "Your parents must have brought it themselves, it must be very hard."

Laborious. The word touches a string of nerves. After the word parent, it is very certain to reward a question mark. Piggy and I were raised by my uncle, aunt and mother. Piglets are grown up with their parents by their side. I am always accompanied by my mother, even if I have something to go to the field, I will always be concerned, telephone, Internet and other contact methods that can transmit messages are worried about you, and my father needs to go out to work and earn money to support the family. My father told me this statement all along, but it was never affirmed by my mother, and the reason for this was included in the family's unsolved mysteries. "I don't know, they should know in their hearts."

It's not something that you have experienced, and it's not good to answer your feelings for the people around you. Looking at Sister Hu's smile, I understood that the answer I gave did not destroy the relationship between us.

"I'll pick up the kids in a moment and drop you off."

"I'm just hitchhiking, it's all about you. You are busy with yours, you don't have to go to my house, you can drop me off near my house, and I will go home by myself. "People are dominant, you don't have a say, it won't take too long to delay, and taking a bus will at least save more time than doing a bus.

"The place where my son is studying is near your house, and I am on the way. Boys are not obedient at all, and even more so in adolescence, they always work with each other, quarrel with you, you are strict and controlling, and others have backers. Take out the backer, you haven't hit it yet, and start the unique theory of the older generation again. Such a theory makes your brain hurt. ”

That kind of theory is generally that I am your Laozi, you have to listen to me, what I say is right, that is, the truth. Like a grandfather to a father, aunt and other children. Wanting to pass the time of the mood diffraction a question. "What's the theory?"

"I will raise you and show you the children, and the hard work is high. You should respect me, you shouldn't abuse children. You raised your son, and you want to use the kindness of parenting as a bargaining chip, and you tell your son to go. You tell me what is it. Your son is the shopkeeper, and after the child is born, he just puts on a name, and his daily life has hardly changed much. As for me, life before and after giving birth is two extremes, you see my figure, it is caused by giving birth, and the doctor said that it is a miracle that I did not have diabetes. I have never understood my in-laws, the children I gave birth to myself, and taught the children to be good people, what is wrong, why they are pointing fingers there. From the birth of the child to the present, I don't know how many times I have quarreled with the old people's home on the issue of educating children, you know that people say that I am a stepmother, so I will strictly educate my children. I am my own mother to educate my children, thinking that if I give birth, I must educate them well. The boy is too naughty, not strict, it doesn't work, he doesn't understand your hard work at all. Let's not talk about how much I can achieve, at least I should teach the child how to behave, even if he can't do it, I will give birth to him and raise him to do something. It's better to have an abortion when you learn that you are pregnant. ”

What can you say about other people's housework. "In this regard, you should communicate well with your brother-in-law."

"That person, in this respect, is an ornament. I want a family of three to move out, although this house can be left for the elderly with our own money. We buy again, we have CPF and can take out a loan. As a result, people disagreed. Say what parents are older, so it is easy to take care of. I also take care of it, what did he do, he was a sweet-mouthed and good-natured uncle. I'm not embarrassed to say anything at all, my in-laws have been picking up and dropping off the children, and my parents have never taken care of it. ”

Every family has a book of chanting scriptures. What can you say when you hear something like this. "Let's talk. People are reasonable. A solution will definitely be found. You can buy a house in a real estate area. ”

"I'll take another look. Do you know. Love is always sweet, and marriage is always oil, salt, sauce and vinegar and parents are short. People who have been tempered in marriage can no longer find the sweetness of the past around them, only the memories they once had. ”

The words here triggered people's thinking, and the young Wang Yan only answered one word. "Oh."

Author's note: Dreams and salted fish are relative, and the bread next to them cannot be missing.

I was pleasantly surprised to see someone leave a message today, and someone was still reading what I wrote.

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