Xiao Yiqing continued to express her worries: "No one knows about the policy, it may be fully opened in a year, or it may be ten years later. Summer solstice, I'm thirty years old, what they mean now is not to let me wait for the policy, and I may not be able to afford to wait, they want me to play a side game.

"It's a risky thing. Their first method, data falsification, in case it is reported, I will lose my job. The second method, fake marriage, if the person who registered my marriage refuses to divorce and threatens me with money, what should I do? ”

"I understand, I don't recommend you to do this, the risk is basically all yours." Xia Zhi shook her hand and said.

"Take 10,000 steps back, even if I compromise, I give him a life, whether it is a side ball or waiting for the full opening. What if the second one is still a girl? Will they ask me to have a third one? Or just when I was pregnant with my second child, they forced me to go for a check-up, and the boy stayed, and the girl was killed? ”

Although Xiao Yiqing's voice was very low, the faster she spoke, Xia Zhi tried to let her slow down: "No, this didn't happen, you can't deduct it from them!" You are cranky, you know? ”

"Summer solstice, you just tell me, do you think this is possible? When I was pregnant with Beibei, my mother-in-law already wanted me to go for a check-up, you don't know. ”

Xia Zhi thought for a moment and said, "But at that time, didn't Cheng You also stand on your side?" I didn't listen to *** either. ”

"That's because my tires are unstable and I can't take a long bus, so it's hard to say if I have another one. It doesn't mean he hasn't thought about it. Xiao Yiqing sat cross-legged on the bed and propped her hands on her knees, as if that was the case.

Xia Zhi rubbed his head and exhaled: "Then what do you want to do now?" What do you think is the right thing to do? ”

"I ......" Xiao Yiqing paused for a moment, realizing that he actually had no clue, "I don't know." ”

"You're here to give me advice, aren't you?"

Xiao Yiqing nodded vigorously, and Xia Zhi continued: "Then I still say that, don't think about it by yourself behind closed doors." What do you think, talk to Cheng You calmly, and the two of them try to reach a consensus. If you want a second child, don't say it too absolutely, we will never play the edge ball, but even if you give him a thought, it's good to drag it out. ”

"There's one more problem." Xiao Yiqing raised her head towards the door, "My mother-in-law." I think she's just a-stirring stick, she's been here all day, and she's been thinking about it all day, where has my husband ever said such a thing before? It's all instilled by her. ”

Xia Zhi's heart moved, and she remembered Yuan Jiayi. Xia Zhi had never told Xiao Yiqing about Yuan Jiayi, and at this time, she still didn't want to say it, she didn't want to cause a gap between Xiao Yiqing and Cheng You because of one of her words.

However, she also wanted to remind Xiao Yiqing from the side, so she said: "Cheng You is an adult, how can it be so easy to be instilled by an old lady in a day or two." He had an idea, maybe not a day or two. I think you have to communicate with him and let him know that you have absolute autonomy in the matter of childbearing, and he should respect you. ”

When the two of them said this, they heard the sound of the security door opening and closing outside, it should be Cheng You coming back.

After a while, Cheng You knocked on the door: "The summer solstice is coming, it's time to eat, let's come out." ”

He walked into the room, stood still in front of the crib, looked at Bei Bei with a smile on his face for a while, looked up and said to Xiao Yiqing: "Before Bei Bei wakes up, hurry up and eat." ”

After saying that, he went out first. Xia Zhi smiled at Xiao Yiqing: "Look, he still loves you very much." Take it easy. ”

Xiao Yiqing sighed lightly and nodded.

When he returned home in the evening, Xia Zhi talked to Han Junxi about Xiao Yiqing's confusion and asked Han Junxi what he thought about it.

"What do you want to ask?" Han Junxi pulled her into his arms, "If you ask me if I think she should have a second child, I think, this is a matter for the husband and wife, and reproductive rights are not only for women, but also for men, right?" She doesn't want to give birth herself, so she will extinguish a man's right to want to be a father, shouldn't it? ”

Xia Zhi pushed his hand, leaving a little distance between the two to stare at his face: "She has already made him a father!" Do you know how much she suffered in order to give birth to this child? If you have another one, you may have to suffer again. ”

"Who doesn't suffer when this woman gives birth to a child? Isn't that how they all come over? Han Junxi saw Xia Zhi's face sank, and hurriedly added, "No, of course I know that giving birth to a child is hard, I mean that giving birth to a child must be hard, and if you make such a decision, you must be mentally prepared for this......"

"Okay, needless to say, it can't be washed." Xia Zhi looked at him sideways, "Isn't it a bit ridiculous for you to talk to me about equal rights in this matter?" Fertility is absolutely female-dominated, you say I'm extreme, I also think so, who suffers from those ten months of hardship, who decides whether to have children or not, men can only give their opinions in this regard, and have no right to decide. ”

"Yes, yes, you're right, how dare I object?" He grinned and flattered.

"Also, what do you think she should do if her in-laws insist that she give birth to a boy?" When Xia Zhi asked this, he was actually thinking about his future, and if he couldn't guarantee that this question would fall on him.

"Does their family have a throne waiting to be inherited? If the ratio of men and women is out of balance like this, aren't you afraid that your son will be beaten as a bachelor in the future? Han Junxi said it very openly, but Xia Zhi didn't forget that Cheng You was also very open-minded before.

Xia Zhi shrugged his shoulders and said: "There is no throne, but it seems that the clan concept in their hometown is very heavy, what kind of man can enter the ancestral hall, worship the mountain and divide the pork and the like, I heard that there is also a homestead division before, but now I don't know." ”

"Oh, that's right, if it's a land division, it's different, forget if you don't have it."

Xia Zhi couldn't help but laugh: "Even if you really divide the land, you can't break your body and chase a boy, right?" If you have money, you have to have a life to enjoy. ”

"Ugh." Han Junxi suddenly sighed, "Do you really not understand or fake you don't understand." The society is progressing and the economy is developed, but in some places, the concept is that women are inferior to men. If you give birth to a boy, you are the light of the family, who cares about your body? If you ask me for my opinion, I don't say politely, Yiqing should investigate the other party's family's views on this aspect before marriage, and if you can't accept it, you shouldn't get married. ”

Daily running news, similar stories, Han Junxi has heard a lot.

"How do you know she doesn't?" Xia Zhi said. According to Xiao Yiqing, before marriage, her parents talked to Cheng You's parents about this issue, but Han Junxi didn't mention it, and she didn't think about it.

She sighed silently, there are some things that are really unfounded, and they should be written down in black and white.

"Okay, okay. My last piece of advice is, no matter how good your friends are, it's someone's housework, so don't meddle too much. He suddenly jumped up and hugged her, crushing her down on the bed, "What you should worry about is, should we have a baby too?" ”

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