245. Life after marriage
Su Xiao's problem Xia Zhi is not worried, at most it is to make some trouble for him, she thinks he can handle it. She has a lot of things to do herself, and she doesn't have time to take care of others.
The house was closed before the National Day, and after getting the keys, they immediately found a part-time worker to do a good job of hygiene, and then contacted the ordered furniture for delivery.
The respective rents have not been returned, and there are still some things that have not been fully moved over, but in those days the summer solstice has been too tired to move again. The marriage leave of the two is two weeks, and they made up three weeks in a row during the National Day holiday, and they booked a ticket to Beijing on the 7th, preparing to come back a week later and clean up the house.
In this way, the three-week vacation is actually not much, the most important thing is that people's emotions have been in a state of high spirits, weddings, travel, decorating a new house, each of which pushes the physical strength of the summer solstice to the limit, and the day before work, she just wants to sleep at home.
She lay on the bed and didn't want to move: "It's tiring to get married, and I'll never get married again." She still chose this simple wedding form, I really don't know how Xiao Yiqing's wedding that ran three places in two weeks came about.
As soon as Han Junxi heard this, he scolded her: "Chen Dajiao, do you still want to get married in the future?" β
She didn't raise her eyelids: "Didn't you say it, never tie it again." β
He pondered for a moment, and there seemed nothing wrong with it, but it sounded weird. He turned her over and hugged her into his arms: "We have to make this matter clear, even if we quarrel in the future, we can't talk about 'divorce' and 'breakup'." β
She sat on his lap, hooked his neck and nodded, "That's a good offer." β
"One more thing." He imprinted a kiss on her forehead, "Isn't it time for us to prepare a plan to create a man?" β
"What? What do you say? Xia Zhi pursed his lips and frowned, as if he really didn't understand what he said.
"You pretend, you keep pretending. It doesn't matter if you don't understand, I'll just show you. β
He picked up her clothes, she pushed his hand to hide, and the two of them made a fuss on the bed.
When he traveled, he deliberately didn't bring contraceptives, but she did. On the first night, he felt a little disappointed, but he still respected her opinion, and the two did not deliberately discuss the issue in the following days.
Xia Zhi's idea is very simple, that is, he is purely tired by this marriage, and he has no energy to have a child soon. Seeing that Xiao Yiqing was on bed rest, had morning sickness, and could barely walk with a big belly, she felt that pregnancy was really a hard work, and she had to reserve more energy.
When the marriage leave was almost over, everything was settled, and she looked back and thought that now was not a good time to have children.
The savings of the two over the years have all been thrown into the house, the current economic situation does not allow it, and the two mainly fell in love in the form of separation before, but now they live together, and there are many living habits that need to be run-in. In some cases, in fact, when I was in love, Xia Solstice already felt a little.
Eating is not a big problem. Han Junxi's cooking taste at home is strong, heavy oil, heavy salt, heavy and spicy, but after coming to Nanzhou for many years, the taste has also been trained to be lighter. Xia Zhi's daily taste is light, but the most important thing is that Han Junxi can't cook, Xia Zhi is the chef at home, and he doesn't have to be picky.
The first contradiction between the two is the different habits of placing things in the house.
Strictly speaking, it should be said that Han Junxi is not in the habit of throwing away the things he uses up at will, and then looking for them all over the house when he wants to use them.
He felt that he could always remember where something was thrown and that he could find it at once. And the summer solstice always likes to put something in a fixed place, and when you need it, you will always only look for it in one place.
And so this strange sight arises: they can't always find what the other person has used and now needs to use.
Xia Zhi was okay at home, cleaning up the misplaced items thrown by Han Junxi, TV remote control paper cutters, scissors, double-sided stickers, chargers, nail clippers and other small items, she told him again and again which things should be put where.
Every time he responded, he turned his head and forgot about it. When she couldn't find anything again and was angry at him, he aggrievedly explained that the position she put was too uncomfortable, and the position of everything was so rigidly prescribed that he couldn't remember, thinking that he wanted to follow hers, he often misplaced it, and then he couldn't even find it himself.
This contradiction is still quite easy to reconcile, it is a toss point. When she cleaned up again, she began to consult him, asking him where to put it, and then put a small storage box in the corresponding place.
It's such a small habit adjustment, which is carried out almost every day for the first week after they move into the new house, and at the same time shows good time extension.
Xia Zhi felt that it would not be strange even if it took them a few years to form new habits, after all, existing habits were formed in the past few decades. When two people enter a marriage, maybe they are looking for a person who roughly matches their edges and corners, and then polishing off the rough edges of each other.
Another difference that Xia Zhi noticed before marriage was that as long as the two were together, Han Junxi always liked to tease her from time to time.
It's okay if she's reading, but she needs time to write, and she doesn't accept any interruptions when she writes.
The solution she came up with was to separate the work room between the two. Two sets of desks, one in the small room and one in the living room, came in and locked the door when she needed to write.
The small room now only has this set of desks and the bookshelves she brought from the rented houseβthe one he installed for her, and she originally wanted to make this room a complete study, considering that the two of them may have children in two or three years at most, so she still gave up.
In addition, she customized a top-to-top bookshelf on the wall in front of the sofa in the living room, which can be regarded as making up for the regret of not having a study.
It takes about a month to customize from the design drawing to the door-to-door installation, and after sending away the door-to-door measurement personnel of the furniture store, Han Junxi hugged her from behind, and the two stared at the wall that was still blank now, as if they had seen the finished bookshelf.
Han Junxi said: "Don't worry, let's settle first, and we will definitely change to a larger three-bedroom in the future, and then you will be able to have a study." β
Xia Zhi shook his head and said: "I don't think this is a good place, this arrangement is very good, where did I dare to imagine having my own house in Nanzhou before?" β
The income of the two is just right for this house now, Xia Zhi still hopes to save as much money as possible to make a family reserve, and with a home, he can't be worry-free, who knows which one will come first, accident or tomorrow?
Han Junxi also shook his head and said, "No, I said, whatever you want, I will find a way to give it to you." Not now, it's in the future. β
She smiled and turned her head and stroked his cheek, unshaven.
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