Chapter 133: Marriage
() "I also said that this Ge Jiahe is also good-looking, honest and honest, anyway, I just listen to this family is quite good, and he is definitely not guilty of marrying in the past, but this matchmaker's mouth is tightly said, your mother is worried about whether there will be anything We don't know, let me help inquire."
"I can't have a snack about my niece? Quickly asked someone to inquire. ”
Hu Shi breathed a sigh of relief, and then said with a smile: "I held the third uncle of the child's uncle, and I also found the second aunt of the child's aunt, but I heard some news. ”
"It's said that this Ge Jiahe, this person is not bad, he takes care of his own shop at home, his mouth is sweet and lively, he looks good, and his height is not low. My father and mother are also kind, and my sister is also sensible. ”
"In general, everyone must have small problems, there is nothing to say on the big picture, and the evaluation of the people around is not bad, it is a good marriage."
"It's the only one that the matchmaker said, a few years older, but I also inquired about this matter, and it was indeed what the matchmaker said, originally this Ge Jiahe was engaged to have a family affair, but at that time, his grandfather and grandmother died one after another, and he had a two-year mourning, plus those two years, his father had a serious illness, he was afraid that if his father died, it would be a three-year mourning, and he was afraid of delaying the girl, so he discussed with the girl's family to return the family affairs."
"After retiring from the family affair, when his father was not in good health, he didn't dare to engage again, this dragged on, and it dragged on to today, which can be regarded as a coincidence, the matchmaker said that he knew that we were a family, knew that Magnolia was straightforward, and not squeamish, and the family also had a foundation, just see if we can do it."
"Anyway, I'm looking, this matchmaker is good, what do you say, brother and sister?"
"Don't talk about it, as long as this is a good person, hard-working, and not so many moths, you can really be right about Yulan, but we don't pay so much attention to it."
Cao listened to what Hu said about this chase, but he had a good impression of this Ge Jiahe.
"Brother and sister, you don't have to worry, our family focuses on character, I also focused on inquiring, it's really good to be a person, honor your parents, brothers are harmonious, if Yulan really marries, she shouldn't be mistreated." Hu Shi laughed.
"Hmm." Cao smiled and nodded.
If this is really the case, this Ge family is really a very good marriage.
It's just that this Song Yulan is her treasure, no matter how good the other party is, in the end, she will not treat Song Yulan like she treats her daughter, and this Cao family is still not at ease.
Especially not sure if this Ge family is really as good as it says.
"Shanzi daughter-in-law, what do you say?" Cao asked.
She was uneasy in her heart, and she was a little undecided, so she naturally wanted to hear what Xie Yinan meant.
This daughter-in-law has an idea, and she seems to have seen the world, and she is even more organized and thoughtful, and her thoughts are right to listen to.
Xie Yinan listened to it for so long, but she understood the meaning of the Cao family who specially called her, that is, thinking of multiple people to come up with ideas.
It's just that it's not easy for her to make ideas and decisions about this kind of thing.
Marriage, which is a lifelong event, is almost a woman's second reincarnation, if you take a wrong step, it is almost a lifelong regret, and on the contrary, if you take the right step, you will also benefit for life.
But at the same time, such a matter is related to Song Yulan, and a marriage involves the two big families of the Ge family and the Song family, and there are many things in it.
If the decision is right, then it is fine, and everyone is happy, but if the proposal is wrong, then it will be a matter of complaining.
Even if the Cao family treats her like a mother and daughter at this time, Xie Yinan understands a truth of being a human being, mother and daughter can still turn against each other, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is unlikely to be as solid as a rock.
What's more, marriage is like a person who knows how warm and cold he is, and the opinions of others are not important, the most important thing is how the parties are.
Based on these considerations, Xie Yinan thought for a moment and then said: "This matter depends on the meaning of my father, I am still young, and many times I can't see people accurately, and I am not very good at talking about this matter, but it is good to listen to what the eldest aunt said." ”
"But then again, our family is just this girl to be married, my mother must be at ease everywhere, she must want to see with her own eyes, how this Ge Jiahe people are."
"Come again, you have to think about Yulan's side, although this marriage is a major event, the words of the parents' matchmaker, but you also have to see if Yulan likes it or not, whether she is willing or not, if she is willing, all this is easy to say, if she is unwilling to dislike it, even if it is a golden nest and a silver nest, I am afraid that Yulan will not feel comfortable in her heart."
"So I thought, it's better to find an opportunity, to call this Gejiahe out, to find a suitable time, to find a suitable place, and let Yulan see it, to see if Yulan is willing."
"Mother, what do you say?"
Hearing Xie Yinan say this, Cao immediately nodded: "It's such a reason, you can't marry blindly and dumbly, when the time comes, it's a good thing, and if you provoke the child for a lifetime, it won't be good." ”
"Her aunt, why don't we find a time for the two children to meet each other and see what the children mean?"
Hu Shi blinked.
This is the marriage of the parents, where is the turn to listen to the children? That is, Cao's family, who spoils children like this on weekdays, so he does this.
However, since the Cao family wants to do this, how can she, the eldest uncle, say that she is not allowed to see her, if there is anything wrong with turning back, it will be bad to blame her.
Since she has already touched this matter, she will simply do better.
"What's not to do, it's done!"
Hu Shi smiled: "Then I'll go and talk to the matchmaker, and let the matchmaker talk to the other side, and make an appointment with the Ge family to let Yulan and this Ge Jiahe meet." ”
"I guess that this Ge family also wants to be safe, thinking about seeing it, and if they marry a daughter-in-law, they will live a lifetime, and they all want to be cautious, and they should also agree with this matter."
"This is the place, I wonder if I can't get to my family, bow my head to marry a daughter-in-law, raise my head to marry a daughter-in-law, we can't go to them, it seems that we have no face, so that when we reach our territory, we can also take a closer look at the appearance of Gejiahe and how to treat people."
"When the time comes, you can lead Yulan over, you can be a little more casual and look carefully, brother and sister, you can do it this way."
"My sister-in-law thinks about it more carefully than I do, and there is nothing more thoughtful than this." Cao Shi only smiled and thanked: "Yulan's marriage really made my sister-in-law make a lot of efforts, and when Yulan gets married, I will give my sister-in-law a big red envelope." ”