Chapter 218: Change
"Okay, okay, we got it, don't worry!"
"What are you talking about? Why didn't I get it? Is there something else wrong with what you are saying? But my understanding is not in place, you can explain this matter to me clearly, otherwise, I may not really make a mistake for you, if you are wrong, don't trouble me, I can't afford this trouble, after all, we are all small people, oops, you big man is energetic! ”
"It's okay to be helpless, he looks at them like this, and he is also very embarrassed in these hearts,"
"Tell me, what conditions do you have? Why is this the posture now? You weren't like this just now, just now I vaguely saw that you were so well-behaved, at the beginning we all said, we want to be together, we want to walk together, we want to walk together, we want to retreat together, then you said that you will disperse,
"What's that? How did I not figure it out? I feel that what you are saying now is repeatedly emphasizing a problem, as if I arrested you first, and did not let you get what you deserve, and this resentment and this kind of independence is completely due to me alone, so if you say so, I am very unhappy, because I have been thinking about you from the beginning, and I think that we will definitely have a good future together, and it is you who will retreat one by one, and leave me one by one. And now you are going to say that I forced it, then I feel that I can't carry this pot, besides, if you can think of such words, it must be in your hearts,"
"There must be some factors in your hearts, you are playing ghosts, then if money is what you are doing, then there is nothing to say more, anyway, it's all such a problem, so since that's the case, then let's go our separate ways, each for its own master, each seeking its own thing, and it has nothing to do with each other in the future, if our position is-for-tat in the future, then I also advise you, you must be positive, don't have some self-interest in the whole text, our brotherhood is here, don't worry about these in the future, There is a little bit of brotherhood, after all, our brotherhood is worth so little, anyway, if it is-for-tat in the future, if it is divorced, if it is the enemy army, then we are counting strictly by ability, don't say how you and me, why have we always been two people? ”
"Tom was suddenly full of confidence, I don't know what's going on, looking at Buck in front of him, looking at the show orange, looking at these members behind him, and his heart is also tugging, distressed,"
"Gee, what the hell are you doing? Think about whether you used to be a brother or friend, right? Why don't you know this feeling now? Do you think there's anything wrong with me? Nothing, something? Some things are good, some things can't be seen, and they have been struggling to find answers, so they may definitely be able to sleep, and they haven't turned around much in a lifetime, so we've been together for a long time, I used to be with a high-tech gas, and I don't know if people are robots or what, anyway, I lost weight with people for four months, and then I didn't find any abnormalities in others, but then I slowly discovered these very small details of people after they confessed to the live broadcast, It's all slowly embodied in life, not to say it by mouth, such brotherhood, if it's really so hypocritical, I don't think it's okay,"
"If you treat a person sincerely, you want to treat her as if you were good to her, then you have to spare no effort to treat her, and you must treat her well, if you don't need to reciprocate, then it is better, but if you want to be good to her, you must not say, you see how I treat you well? How is it good for you? Say whatever you say, but there will always be a solution and a solution to these things, so you'd better not talk about it, keep saying that I'm good to you, how can I feel like you say that? It's going to make her feel a little bored with you, so give yourself some room to give each other,"
"Let each other have some sense of security, have some little secrets, in this way, two or three people, four people are a group of people together will be particularly relaxed, not just deliberately show who I am good to, I am good to you, I am good to her, no, everyone, it's not this kind of heroism, or everyone gets along together, live cleanly and clearly, often brighten this kind of life, this kind of communication relationship is the best, so you must first think about the original intention of treating each other, What is it? It's not blind obedience, it's not blindly wanting to get something out of the other person,"
"Oh, you are such a villain, these big truths seem to be something we don't understand, and we can understand these big truths in the end, and we can touch them, but now you say this, how can we feel embarrassed? We have recognized these things from the beginning, but we can't get her back, we just feel that it's all the other party's fault, that is, we all feel that the other party doesn't take into account some of our interests, or our emotions, maybe we take it too seriously and too important, we need our frame to win our honesty again, only by being honest with each other, we can live better together, Li Jing has a kind of,"
"If you say that it is good for the other party, it must rely on that kind of attitude, not to say just to say it, and not to do practical things, if it is to do practical things, and not to say it, then it will not work, so both must be taken into account, but in order to achieve better results, if you can't achieve better results, it must be that you use the wrong method, if you use the correct method, you will definitely do this thing well, this matter can not just be that we think about this matter to each other, In fact, these things are the most needed in our hearts, the most sincere love, these things are in our arms from the beginning, in our hearts, in our actions, in our love, so they can be solved at the beginning, but I don't believe it"
"It's just that we never want to believe, we don't want to believe that we can do it, and these things have a beginning and a regret, a cause and an effect, so if you find something irreversible and irreversible, it must be that you didn't do it with your heart.
"Some things are never something that we can change, she has some things that we can actually master, we can change things, but we don't have the certainty of it, but if we are good these things can be solved, but it takes some time, we need some patience, we can give each other some space, let each other fall asleep, take a look at their own behavior, or understand each other's news, and we can achieve a more satisfactory effect in time. It's just that we don't want to accept these, but these things have appeared in our lives from the beginning, so we must look at everything with a grateful heart, to treat everyone, so that we can achieve something we want to play with, like we said that we rejected the existence of this relationship from the beginning, and were unwilling to express our feelings from the beginning, so that the other party would let the other party have you in their hearts, and they would definitely go to your side to do it. But you don't let the other person feel that you are here, he is important in your heart, so he will never show any heart to you, so if you want to get something, you have to do it first, first have a beginning, let the other party understand you and slowly recognize you, so that you can achieve the effect of those instruments, and in this way, you can be more honest with each other and accept each other's shortcomings,"
"So only when we accept each other's shortcomings, and see his advantages clearly, and slowly accept his shortcomings, and then transform his advantages into the kind of advantages and disadvantages that you betray him, and let his advantages be regarded as objects that you can emulate and break through, so that you can more completely accept your good friend, and this relationship is quite normal from the beginning, and there is this kind of thing in any of your relationships, but you need to take care of each other's emotions in time. Otherwise, you are very likely to be swallowed by the other person's emotions, if you are swayed by the other person's emotions! ”
"So from the beginning of this relationship, you need to maintain a neutral point of your own, if you break through this bottom line, you can't let him break through again, you have to maintain a bottom line of your own, if I can be in a foreign company, you are going to be someone else, and wronged yourself, then this relationship is never right, you never realize what your role is, but that you are completely dependent on others and dependent on others from the beginning, this feeling is extreme, wrong, So I always feel that as long as you feel this way, you will immediately go and fear him to death,"
"If you keep letting this feeling continue, then the relationship is unbalanced and unequal from the beginning, so in order to make your own life more exciting, you need not only some self-space, but also need to put your own hard work attitude, if others touch your bottom line, you need to fight back, not that you will continue to lower your bottom line, this kind of relationship is the most pessimistic, and the most comfortable mode of getting along is that I am afraid that you will have opinions about me, And I need to do what you're happy with, but it's not that I'm willing to change for you, not that I'm afraid of you."