Chapter 234: Problem Solving (1)

After a busy morning, Xin Siyu still remembered the matter of the maid Xiaolin.

She is really a little overwhelmed, after all, in her life experience, she has not really come into contact with the way of getting along with wealthy families.

While she was eating lunch at noon, she called Xie Jilin.

Xie Jilin picked it up quickly.

"Hey, Si Yu." His gentle voice came.

Xin Siyu coughed lightly and said, "Well, I thought about it for a while, why don't I get off work early today and buy some nutritional products or something like that to go and see Xiaolin, what do you think?" ”

She thought about it, this matter is no longer the time to argue about who is right and who is wrong, and now that she is at a disadvantage, it is better to simply admit her bad luck and take the initiative to make a compensation, so as to save some of her image.

Xie Jilin on the other end of the phone was silent for a few seconds and asked, "Don't you feel wronged?" ”

Xin Siyu sighed lightly, "There's no other way, who made me inexperienced, I mainly don't want to affect my work all the time because of this matter, as for those who are wronged or not, don't worry so much." ”

Her tone was full of helplessness, and after Xie Jilin listened, he thought about it carefully before replying, "Don't worry, I'm not busy today, and I'll be fine after the meeting in the afternoon, so I'll pick you up in advance, and I'll make a decision after we meet." ”

"That'll do fine." Xin Siyu answered.

"Okay, don't think about it, eat well, don't be hungry." Xie Jilin admonished again.

"Yes!" Xin Siyu replied loudly.

On the other end, after Xie Jilin ended the call, he thought for a moment, and immediately picked up his mobile phone and dialed another number.

A few seconds later, the phone was connected, and Tang Ziqing's voice came, "Yo, a married person actually called me, it's really rare, have you applied with your wife?" This call can't be recorded, right?! ”

When Xie Jilin and Xin Siyu received the certificate, Tang Ziqing was not in China, and he was in line with the principle of keeping a low profile and not making a statement, so Xie Jilin did not tell Tang Ziqing as soon as possible.

I thought I would tell her when she returned to China, but I didn't expect that Wu Yi, who had a big mouth, said it first. Wu Yi originally wanted to be courteous in front of her former crush, but Tang Ziqing became angry directly after hearing it, she thought that the friendship between the three of them was an iron triangle, but Wu Yi knew the news of Xie Jilin's marriage before her!

It's okay now, Tang Ziqing has remembered Xie Jilin in his heart, and since this period of time, he has not given Xie Jilin a good look, but Wu Yi has always been in a lively posture, so he almost shouted 'fight, fight' on the side.

"Sister! Sister Qing! When will you be able to dissipate your anger," Xie Jilin said speechlessly, "I have explained it to you, I don't plan to hide it from you, I just want to tell you in person when you come back!" ”

Tang Ziqing sighed ruthlessly, but unfortunately she couldn't beat Xie Jilin over the phone, so she had to ask angrily, "Say, what's the matter with me." ”

Xie Jilin didn't ink either, and briefly described what happened this morning in a few words.

He felt that he could only consult Tang Ziqing about this matter, after all, among the three of them, the only person who could really be regarded as a wealthy family for generations was Tang Ziqing.

Tang Ziqing's great-grandfather was one of the founding generals, and her grandfather also followed his father, joined the military camp, diligently self-examined his life, and did not insult his father's exploits at all.

And living in such a wealthy and populous family environment, Tang Ziqing has seen and experienced all kinds of competition in people's hearts since he was a child, as well as the routine of yang and yin, Xin Siyu felt that it was a very difficult problem, and when it came to her, it was simply a piece of cake.

After listening to Xie Jilin's description, Tang Ziqing didn't rush to come up with an idea, but just asked unhurriedly, "Then do you have any plans?" ”

"Xin Siyu means to buy a nutritional supplement or something to visit, and she takes the initiative to make peace with the maid." Xie Jilin replied truthfully.

"That's naΓ―ve!" Tang Ziqing commented mercilessly.

Xie Jilin frowned, "What do you mean?" ”

"Xie Jilin, don't forget, you are now in the Fu family's manor, not in your previous community apartment, and the people you are facing are not harmonious, just asking for neighbors who don't owe each other and don't disturb each other, and occasionally help each other, do you understand?" Tang Ziqing said.

"If I could understand, I wouldn't have to call you," Xie Jilin replied into the microphone, "Then according to what you mean, what should we do?" ”

Tang Ziqing ignored Xie Jilin's appeal, "Don't be in a hurry to ask how to do it, you can listen to me." ”

"There is one thing you have to recognize, that is, in a big family, the most important thing is to distinguish between respect and inferiority. Whoever can bring benefits to the family has a heavier right to speak, which is a rule among family members. Then there are the servants below, although no matter what the ability of the family members is, they are the master's family in front of the servants, but the vast majority of the servants are also very powerful, they (she) are very discerning, and they are very good at watching people put dishes. ”

"You also said that this incident you encountered is very likely to be your stepmother's disadvantage for you, but you still ignore one point, that is, this incident is also a temptation for the servants to test you, and they are testing your temper and bottom line."

"The solution proposed by your wife, if it is placed on the company or ordinary people, it is absolutely no problem, and you can even get the reputation of high emotional intelligence and generosity, but if it is placed within the big family, it will become weak and bullying, and the servants will look down on you in their hearts and will no longer respect you."

Tang Ziqing said so much in one breath, and Xie Jilin nodded again and again when he heard it.

is worthy of being the eldest lady who has been exposed to her since she was a child, and in front of him and Xin Siyu, she is simply an absolute teacher.

After analyzing the relationship, Tang Ziqing then also gave suggestions for solving it, "If you want to talk about how to deal with this matter, my personal suggestion is that you don't have to worry about it anymore." The image you care about, the word of mouth, these have been stereotyped as early as when the housekeeper added oil and vinegar to the description, although the remedy is feasible, but it is completely unnecessary. It's just one or two servants, and they can still turn the other way around, if they are really broken, they will find an opportunity to find a mistake and fire them, just so that others can take a good look at who is the master's family. ”