Chapter 272: Intent
Jiang Yimin sighed heavily after taking the cup of tea that Lin Qingrou had made for him. Before he came, he must have known that if he wanted to persuade Song Miao not to divorce Jiang He, he would definitely run into a wall. Although he has not been with this daughter-in-law for a long time, he also knows that she is stubborn, and he will not choose to forbear and compromise when he encounters such emotional damage.
What's more, no matter from what standpoint, Jiang He's derailment made him unable to refute. As a father, Jiang Yimin's heart feels tormented, what he values most about his family is loyalty and duty, and Jiang He has trampled on the bottom line of these two principles that he has practiced all his life.
Now their Jiang family is morally and ethically sorry for Song Miao, so Jiang Yimin has no confidence and reason to convince Song Miao, but he has to come again today. As an elder, after learning about this incident, he must stand up and express his attitude and position.
After apologizing sincerely, Jiang Yimin pinned his hopes on Song Miao for the sake of the young children, and could be patient for a while, and never make an important decision that is enough to change a family because of impulsiveness.
Jiang Yimin knows that the most important thing now is to try his best to maintain this small family that has just been formed, after the birth of the Jiang family's child, this family of three has not yet withstood the test of wind and rain, and now is a severe crisis that must be overcome.
In Jiang Yimin's heart, what his son Jiang He has done has far exceeded the bottom line that he can accept, which is an unforgivable mistake. But as a father, he has to think about Jiang He, he is still young now, and he should always be given a chance to redeem himself if he takes the wrong path.
I believe that this is the truest inner thoughts of every pair of parents in the world after their children make mistakes. If you make a mistake, then try to face it squarely and try to correct it, which is an indispensable lesson in life.
But here with Song Miao, Jiang Yimin can't show tolerance and forgiveness to Jiang He in such a grand manner, because it is really unfair to Song Miao to do so. If her son makes a mistake and can be forgiven as a matter of course, then Song Miao will only feel that this family has lost its meaning to her.
"From my point of view, it seems a bit inappropriate to say that. But please think about it for your children, after all, the children are still young, if you choose to divorce so hastily, this will undoubtedly be a great harm to the children. Jiang Yimin had no other choice but to move the child out, hoping to impress Song Miao.
Song Miao had been waiting for Jiang Yimin to move out of the child so that she could come into line, but now she has thought very clearly, even if she is a single mother, it doesn't matter. When the time comes, she will take care of it herself, and life will always be passable.
"Since Jiang He didn't take this family and children to heart, why should I be bored, he now has his own new love, and I should also go and live my own life." Song Miao didn't give Jiang Yimin any face, because she didn't want to be a coward in this matter.
The expression on Jiang Yimin's face stiffened a little, it was the first time he had received such a resolute response from Song Miao. In Song Miao's heart, there is no room for negotiation in this matter, why did Jiang He do something wrong and want her to show tolerance and compromise?
When Song Miao thought of this, she felt aggrieved that she was scorned by the Jiang family, and she continued: "Do you know how I spent my time when Jiang He was with that woman? I struggled to live alone, went for a prenatal check-up alone, and struggled through pregnancy alone. ”
"I have to cook what I want to eat every day, and when I'm in a bad mood, I have to adjust it myself, for fear of affecting my children. Why is it that while other people's husbands are with them, my husband is far away in another city? ”
"Now when I think of the pain and bitterness I have paid, in exchange for his naked betrayal, now I have no way to look at him peacefully, and I have no way to trust him in the future, what is the point of continuing such a marriage."
Song Miao's emotions became excited, and Jiang Yimin was also affected by her reaction, and he didn't know what words to use to respond for a while. He felt guilty, and even his stiff cheeks flushed slightly.
Jiang Yimin raised his teacup and took a few sips of tea, wanting to alleviate the somewhat embarrassing situation at this time. He was shaken by Song Miao's compelling gaze, and he almost gave up what he wanted to achieve this time.
But if Song Miao and Jiang He divorce, it will lead to another thing that he is very reluctant to face, that is, the custody of the child at that time. Because Jiang He is at a loss in this matter, even if there is a divorce lawsuit at that time, it is unlikely that the custody of the child will be given to Jiang He.
For Jiang Yimin, this is the most serious problem. Their Jiang family's blood and flesh, if they follow Song Miao to live in the future, then wouldn't they have cut off contact with the Jiang family, which Jiang Yimin couldn't accept no matter what.
This thought will be considered by the elders first, and Song Miao is naturally very clear in his heart at this time Jiang Yimin's intention today. Even if his father-in-law is still hesitating how to reason with her, he is afraid that this thought will not be dispelled in his heart.
Jiang Yimin seemed to have made up his mind, and finally spoke; "I don't have to force you to do anything, I just hope that you will give Jiang He some more time, and I will go to him to talk to him and ask him to give you an explanation of the person in charge as soon as possible. As for the divorce, as an elder, I hope you will think about it more, anyway, Jiang He resolutely does not want to leave. ”
I believe that Jiang Yimin has carefully considered these words before saying them, and he has tried to ease his tone, and even said that he may have made some concessions. Lin Qingrou listened quietly on the side and didn't dare to make a sound, the atmosphere at this time was not suitable for her to interject.
Song Miao's tone softened a little, and said calmly: "I understand, but I really don't have time to deal with this matter during this time. So I can say yes to your request. When the tea room is opened, I will officially file for divorce, and I don't think it will change anything even if it is put on hold for a long time. ”
This is already the most gentle attitude that Song Miao can express, because the work in the tea room will indeed be busy at the moment, and everything will be difficult at the beginning. Song Miao will concentrate on running the tea room during this time, so she needs to wait until this busiest time before she has time to deal with her divorce.
So even if she agreed to Jiang Yimin's request, it didn't matter if she gave Jiang He some more time, and she believed that this extra time would not change this matter. At this point, Jiang Yimin seems to have no reason to continue talking.
He slowly stood up and said very sincerely to Song Miao: "Jiang He, I will be responsible for it to the end, and I will definitely let him give you an explanation." ”
Song Miao didn't speak again, nodded in response. This man, who was already a little rickety, looked so affectionate and gloomy at this time, Lin Qingrou couldn't help but feel a little sympathetic, after all, Jiang Yimin was a conscientious doctor and a very upright person, but sometimes his temper seemed too stubborn.
After Jiang Yimin left, Song Miao's mood was also greatly affected for a while. After the takeaway they ordered was delivered, Lin Qingrou and Song Miao ate in silence with each other.
Lin Qingrou wanted to give Song Miao some time to adjust, even if she spared no effort to persuade her at this time, it was far less effective than letting her digest it herself. In fact, Song Miao had been out of emotional distress for some time, but this time Jiang Yimin's sudden visit made her have to face this problem again.
Lin Qingrou felt that at this time, she should also tell Song Miao the hidden things that Jiang He told her before. The reason why she didn't mention it before was because she hoped that Jiang He would take the initiative to explain to Song Miao.
It's just that I didn't expect that Jiang He, who was waiting left and right, still didn't have any signs of taking the initiative. This made Lin Qingrou feel helpless, although Jiang He himself always claimed that he didn't want to divorce Song Miao, but he didn't take action because of this.
Now Jiang He was grabbed by Xu Lu fiercely, and it was inevitable that he would throw a mouse bogey. Lin Qingrou thought about it again and again, but still felt that she had been hiding it for a long enough time, and it would be too inappropriate if she continued to hide it from Song Miao.
Song Miao has the right to know these inside information, as for what she plans to do after knowing these things, it depends on how she decides. Lin Qingrou no longer has positive hopes for Jiang He now, so she wants to do her last thing.
After the two of them had finished their lunch, Song Miao continued to get busy with a dull face. Lin Qingrou deliberately walked to Song Miao's side, intending to tell Song Miao what she knew. She quietly gathered her thoughts, thinking about what kind of words would be more appropriate.
"Actually, I have something to tell you." Lin Qingrou made up her mind in her heart and said to Song Miao.
Song Miao snorted, thinking it was something about the tea room, so she didn't show a very concerned look.
"It's about Jiang He, he came to my house not long ago to look for me." Lin Qingrou added.
Song Miao raised her head at this time, looking a little incomprehensible. She didn't know why Jiang He went to Lin Qingrou, the only thing she could think of was that Jiang He wanted to ask Lin Qingrou for help and say some good things for him, but Lin Qingrou didn't do it either.
It seemed that Lin Qingrou knew something she didn't know, so Song Miao felt a little strange and had some curiosity. And Lin Qingrou became a little interested when she saw Song Miao, so she was more determined to say it. I want to talk about "Good Husband and Late Bloomer" with more like-minded people, pay attention to "excellent reading literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants~