Chapter 43: Hello
The re-election is coming as scheduled.
The small secretary of Ruan Jie became the deputy department of Ruan Jie, and the small officer Zhou Li also became the deputy department of Zhou Li.
In a year, the younger students have become seniors, and the university is quietly promoting the growth of teenagers.
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In her sophomore year, she added several public courses to her curriculum, and one public course was mixed with students from four colleges and four majors.
In order to facilitate contact, the teacher set up a WeChat group.
It was precisely because of this group that Ruan Jie met a boy she had fantasized about with his future.
Someday.
A friend application popped up on WeChat, Ruan Jie looked at it, didn't know it, and didn't want to add.
Then, seeing that she was added from that public class group, she wondered if there was something wrong.
I clicked and agreed.
Ruan Jie judged that this person should be a boy based on this person's profile picture, nickname, and the style of the circle of friends.
In fact, it is indeed a boy.
After Ruan Jie agreed, he sent a? Past.
He replied: Hello.
Later, when Ruan Jie talked about this with others, he would always smile and say that my story with him should have started with a "hello".
Others ask why.
Ruan Jie said: "The first impression is that this person is quite polite, so you don't need to delete it." ”
Faced with a "hello", Ruan Jie was a little confused about what he wanted to do.
After thinking for a few seconds, I replied: Something?
The other end replied: It's okay, I want to make a friend.
Ruan Jie: I don't know you.
The other side: I know you, and I sit behind you in class.
Ruan Jie: How do you know that this WeChat is mine?
That end: When the teacher called the name, I heard your answer, and there was a note in the group.
Ruan Jie immediately exited the dialog box and went to the group to read his notes.
Well, only the student number and the major.
Ruan Jie: What's your name?
Over there: Yu Ming.
Ruan Jie: Real name?
Yu Ming: If it is fake, it will pay ten for the fake.
Ruan Jie looked at this sentence and felt that this person was quite funny.
I chatted casually with Yu Ming for a while.
As expected, Yu Ming sent a message over: Ruan Jie, you are so cold.
Ruan Jie smiled and replied: I'm not familiar with you, and I am not interested in your behavior of hooking up with girls.
Yu Ming replied quickly: It's not called hookup, it's called making friends, it's good that people in a public class can usually help each other.
There is some truth in what he said, and Ruan Jie is very useful.
Ruan Jie thought of the recent MOOC exercises, and she asked: Do you have the answer to the MOOC?
Yu Ming: Yes, I bought it, on the computer, and I'll send it to you later.
Ruan Jie: Thank you.
If asked, since when did it start to cook, Ruan Jie would definitely answer without hesitation, from the time he sent me the answers to the exercises.
Yu Ming didn't break his promise, and in the evening, he sent Ruan Jie a whole set of exercises and answers.
Nguyen Jie succeeded in benefiting the dormitory.
It was also from that day that Ruan Jie chatted with him more and more times, and the content of the conversation became more and more.
Because he hadn't seen him, Ruan Jie was still very relaxed, complaining and complaining about some things with him, chatting with him about classmates, and dissing one of his classmates or roommates with him behind his back.
For example, he knew that some girls in Ruan Jie's class were very unreasonable, and she knew that Yu Ming had a roommate who didn't like to take a bath.
In just one week, the two are like good friends who don't talk about anything.
Ruan Jie has always known in his heart that no one will want to make friends with you for no reason, they usually come with a purpose, and Yu Ming should have added her with the idea of chasing her.
For the first time, when Ruan Jie noticed that others had thoughts about him, he didn't immediately cut off the relationship, but wanted to know more about him.
He was the first to talk, but it was Ruan Jie who was serious first.
Ruan Jie's seriousness does not mean that she thinks you are very good and can be together immediately, but that she thinks you are very good, so first be good friends and get to know each other a little more, so that it will be convenient to have a future.
In fact, the relationship between the two of them, from Ruan Jie's point of view, is a bit like online dating, they can talk about everything, like spiritual partners. But if you think about it carefully, it's just Ruan Jie's unilateral online dating, after all, Yu Ming has always known who Ruan Jie is, and there is a feeling that the enemy is in the dark.
However, Yu Ming didn't calm down after all, he asked Ruan Jie to drink milk tea.
After many years of conditioned reflex, Ruan Jie's first reaction was to refuse, but reason came faster than hand speed.
She felt that she couldn't do this, since she had a good impression of him, she should agree to meet, and she couldn't hang it out of thin air.
So, the two had their first face-to-head contact.
Ruan Jie has an impression of him, but this person is extremely lucky, he has not been named, and Ruan Jie doesn't know who his surname is.
When I saw him today, it turned out that he was Yu Ming.
Yu Ming is a northerner, with a hearty personality, and he usually chats with humor, focusing on high emotional intelligence and knowing how to do what he likes in chatting.
He is more than 1.8 meters tall, and should have the habit of exercising, with obvious muscle texture. The hairstyle is neat and neat, short, piercing the hands when you look at it, the facial features are upright, and the eyebrows reveal a heroic spirit.
The most important thing is that the whole person is very down-to-earth, he is not particularly handsome, but very ma
, The first impression is comfortable, and when he speaks, he is a little naïve, with his body shape, he has a naïve taste.
Ruan Jie felt that Yu Ming liked her very much.
Yu Ming went to the milk tea shop first, and he asked Ruan Jie on WeChat in advance whether he wanted it warm or iced.
Ruan Jie thought this question was a bit funny at first, because Q City was really hot, but when he saw the second message he sent, Ruan Jie felt that this boy was really careful.
Yu Ming: I don't know if you came to that one, but if you did, you should drink it warm.
Ruan Jie: Oh, just ice, I didn't come.
In a bubble tea shop.
Yu Ming and Ruan Jie sat face to face, and Ruan Jie was still a little uncomfortable.
Fortunately, Yu Ming was very good at finding topics, and after a while, the two of them chatted.
Ruan Jie only then knew that Yu Ming had an ex-girlfriend, and basically all his chat habits and chat styles were practiced with his ex-girlfriend, and his intimacy was also slowly changed under the complaints and complaints of his ex-girlfriend, but he changed, and she also changed.
Ruan Jie remembered a sentence he had read before, all the good things you see in a man now may be a habit that another woman took a few years to develop.
She made him grow, and he lost her.
Seeing that Yu Ming still looked nostalgic when he talked about his ex-girlfriend, Ruan Jie suddenly didn't want to continue with him so much, his words were put down, and his eyes still loved her.
When Ruan Jie faces other people's love, he will always unconsciously be emotional, just like now, when listening to Yu Ming talk about his ex-girlfriend, she inexplicably has a sour nose.
I don't know if I feel sorry for his ex-girlfriend, or if I am moved by the appearance he can't forget now.
However, belated affection is not necessary.
Ruan Jie didn't stay too long, she was afraid that she would cry.
Yu Ming sent a message a few days later: I like you a lot, can we have a relationship?
Ruan did not reply.
She couldn't figure out what Yu Ming was thinking now, and she was obviously showing an unforgettable look for her ex-girlfriend, but she wanted to date her.
Moreover, it was only such a short time, and it was completely impossible to meet the preparation deadline for Ruan Jie to be willing to associate with him.
Ruan Jie has her own love model, although she doesn't think this practice is advisable, but she just has this model.
In her case, if a guy meets her external standards, she will spend a long time chatting and getting along with him, which may be half a year or a year, until she is sure that this person really wants to be seriously in a relationship with her.
Ruan Jie didn't have a good impression of anyone, but they all left after she deliberately kept a certain distance. This made Ruan Jie feel that he had not been firmly chosen by them, they were just on a whim, and when they saw that they couldn't do it, they immediately withdrew and left.
Ruan Jie calmed down for a few days and gradually forgot the news.
However, it was strange that she felt that since she met Yu Ming, she could always meet him at school.
Sometimes in the teaching building, sometimes in the bubble tea shop, even in the cafeteria to pick a window to buy food, and what is even more strange is that she goes out to solicit sponsorship outside the school, and she can also meet him coming back from outside the school.
It's really magical, some people only need to meet once, and the number of encounters will increase. When I didn't know each other before, even if I deliberately walked the same path and went to the same store, I might not be able to meet them.
Once or twice can be said to be a coincidence, and three or four times Ruan Jie has to believe in fate.
In fact, Ruan Jie should think about it from a different angle, if she didn't know that person, even if he stood in front of her, she wouldn't pay attention to him at all, and now that she knew him, she would naturally be surprised to see him appear, and then felt that she had met more often.
If she can keep an eye on a random person on the road and try to remember him, maybe for a while in the future, she will also feel that this person is related to her.
In fact, where is fate, just deliberately paying attention to it, it seems that he is pleasantly surprised every time he appears.
Ruan Jie still replied to the message: It's too fast, we don't know each other very well, I don't want to be so casual.
Yu Ming gave a very understanding answer: Well, it doesn't matter, we can have more contact.
Ruan Jie: Well, let's be friends first.
In the first half of his sophomore year, Ruan Jie basically chatted with Yu Ming most of the chats with boys.
Yu Ming is also the only person who can talk to her for three or four months, and there are always many topics to talk about.
That year, Yu Ming would stay up late with her on Chinese New Year's Eve, and would send her blessings on time.
Ruan Jie thought to herself, as long as he confessed again, she would definitely promise him.
However, Yu Ming would still chat with her and make her happy, but he never mentioned dating her again.
Ruan Jie guessed that Yu Ming should not dare to confess rashly, for fear of arousing her disgust.
Thinking like this, Ruan Jie's favor for him increased a few points.
Ruan Jie was happy with himself while maintaining a friend's chat with him.
Isn't it happy, it's been nineteen years, and Yu Ming is the first boy she really wants to be with him.
Yu Ming has all the characteristics of the tree she said - steadfast, self-motivated, tall and good-looking, and perseverance for more than half a year.
Yu Ming is really motivated, as far as Ruan Jie knows, he will go out to work part-time, will be a tutor, and his grades in the class are also the kind that can get scholarships, and he will also participate in competitions at the school level and at the municipal and provincial levels from time to time.
In short, the side he showed to Ruan Jie was very positive.
So much so that Ruan Jie was convinced of him.
……
The second half of the sophomore year.
A senior sister in Ruan Jie's department asked her, "Senior sister, a friend is chasing me, do you think I should try it with him?" ”
"Do you like him?" Ruan Jie didn't answer that question, but asked her.
"I have a good feeling, but I don't particularly like it."
Ruan Jie looked at her and said seriously: "I think you have to try to see if you will like him first, and then go to the relationship, and you shouldn't think about it, try to like him in the relationship." ”
Ruan Jie added word by word, "Otherwise, it won't be fair to him." ”
Maybe the younger sister listened, she wasn't with that friend.
Ruan Jie asked her why, if she really couldn't like it.
"If it's good enough to be friends, why consider another risky relationship," she said. ”
Ruan Jie asked, "What about him?" What do you think, willing to be only friends? ”
The younger sister said: "Maybe, anyway, I don't like it very much yet, wouldn't it be good to stop the loss in time?" ”
It turns out that one person's love is only "loss" in another.