Chapter 282: Sensibility is greater than reason

"Damn stinky man!" She pouted a little sullenly.

Isn't it just a trifle? Do you need to make such a big deal to play with her here? Still reasoning with her, why didn't he reason with his mother?

The camera turned, inside the Xu family's mansion.

"How do you have time to come back? Didn't I read the news and say that the company has been quite busy lately? Although Mother Xu said this, she still moved her hands to prepare snacks for him.

The man sat down on the sofa next to him with a little irritability, his long slender and straight legs overlapped with each other, his back leaned back, and the whole person nested in the sofa without any image.

"I'm almost busy, just waiting for tomorrow's press release to announce the time for the fragrance innovation to be launched." He stretched out his hand and pinched the center of his eyebrows, and finished speaking of the tiredness and irritability in his heart.

Mother Xu walked over to him with two plates of snacks, "If you have time, you won't go to the hospital to see your daughter-in-law, what are you doing running home?" ”

She still likes Min Suqi, the daughter-in-law, very much, so when her body is not very convenient, he often asks Xu Shengyang to accompany her more.

Besides, I didn't need him to say that he also went to the hospital when he was free, and I never had this situation of going home directly when I was free.

No, there must be a problem with this.

Her expression became slightly serious, "Why don't you speak?" I asked you a question just now, and you quickly answer me. ”

"What else do I have to answer? I'm your son, so shouldn't I come home after work? Why are you here to ask me questions like an outsider? Shouldn't I go back to this home? Isn't this home my home? ”

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Usually Xu Shengyang's words are very few, even if he wants to speak, it is a very short sentence, like now, there is basically no situation where he has said a large series of questions in a row, and there are often such times, that is, when he is angry.

As his mother, Xu's mother can understand what kind of emotions her son is now with just one glance and one sentence.

She put down the snack in her hand and sat down opposite Xu Shengyang, "Are you having a conflict with Su Qi?" ”

"Nope."

What's not...... This angry look looks like a ......

"You tell your mother what happened, and your mother will help you analyze it." She still treats Xu Shengyang as a child as before, and likes to coax him in everything.

But Xu Shengyang didn't want to talk about this matter anymore, and he didn't want his mother to worry about the matter between them, so he said: "It's really nothing, it's just that Qiqi is pregnant, and her mood may be a little unstable, so we have a few words between the two of us, and it will be fine after a while." ”

"It can make you angry like this, it seems that you are also very unconvinced." Xu Mule laughed, and the wrinkles at the corners of her eyes deepened.

She reached out and took a piece of dim sum and handed it to Xu Shengyang, "Su Qi's temper is already very good, she is a very well-behaved, very sensible girl, and her personality is also very gentle. Compared to me when I was younger, she was really gentle. ”

This sentence is true, Mother Xu was really fierce when she was young, it can be said that Father Xu was treated to death, and he was in charge of the family, and there was basically no time for Father Xu to speak.

And Xu Shengyang also inherited his mother's character, since he was a child, he has been quite cold, no matter what he does, he is more mature than his peers, and he will also have his own unique opinions, which will also be the best solution.

It can be said that his intelligence is inherited from his father, and his cold temperament and some fierce temper are inherited from his mother.

Originally, the two of them were still a little worried that Xu Shengyang would become such a vicious person in the future, after all, he was a person with a combination of brain and bad temper.

However, after a few years of observation, they found that it was still possible.

Although Xu Shengyang inherited her bad temper, he knows how to control his temper better than him, ensuring that he is angry when he should be angry and patient when he should not be angry.

This is also the reason why they were very relieved to hand over the company to him.

"Mom, sometimes I can't understand what Kiki says." After a moment of silence, he finally opened his mouth and decided to tell his mother about what had happened while he was in the hospital.

"Oh? How so? Mother Xu listened attentively and encouraged him to continue.

After sighing, Xu Shengyang said: "Sometimes she speaks very irrationally, and what she says is something that makes people sound funny, very immature, but very naΓ―ve. ”

"As her husband, I have to correct her thoughts and words in a timely manner, and reason with her seriously, but at this time, she often does more excessively, and is more willful than before."

After listening to the passionate explanations of these sons, Xu's mother almost understood why he and Min Suqi had an awkward quarrel, but she also felt a little funny and laughed a few times, and patted her son's shoulder very helplessly.

"Xiaoyang, you know what? Women are not rational animals in the first place, and their sensibility is far greater than rationality. ”

"Often in many cases, if you reason with them, they won't hear it at all, so it's better to praise them and coax them to have a good effect."

"I agree with that."

An old man with a slightly staggering gait, walking towards them with her hands behind her back, the smile on her face completely covered her originally somewhat serious face, and she looked like a very kind old man.

He sat down beside Xu's mother, and he happened to be face to face with Xu Shengyang.

"For the kind of situation you just mentioned, your mother has the most right to speak." His loving gaze fell on Xu Mu's body, and he stretched out a pair of big hands and wrapped her small hands in the palms of his hands.

This pair is the best model of a couple, although they are old, but the relationship is only increasing, and they are very happy every day, and even young people are jealous of showing affection and love.

Xu Shengyang raised his eyebrows, quite interested in what happened to his mother when she was young, "Dad, did Mom often lose her temper with you like this when she was young?" ”

"No, she's making a lot of trouble!" The man began to recall those good pasts, "I remember 20 years ago, when I was your age with your mother, just a few years after we got married, and we started to quarrel and lose our temper. ”

"At that time, I basically had a small quarrel with your mother every three days, and a big quarrel every Monday, and the noisy grandparents had a headache, and then I didn't want to care about the things between the two of us, and I also mentioned that if it didn't work, I would divorce."

"But only your mother and I know that the bickering activities of the two of us are based on some very ordinary little things, and we still love each other very much, and we can't get divorced at all."

"It's just that at that time, like you now, I spoke very straight, and more often I used reason to think about things, while your mother used emotion to think about things. Just this difference made the two of us quarrel for more than a year. ”

"Because she can't understand me, I can't understand her, both of us have our own channels, and we both hold grievances for ourselves in our own channels, so it can be said that she has her reason, I have mine, and neither of us is wrong."

"Later, it was also during a quarrel, your mother decided to lower her body, stop arguing with me that senselessly, and tell me directly and concisely why she was angry and what she wanted me to do."

"It wasn't until that time that I realized that women need to be spoiled, don't reason with them if they have nothing to do, even if this truth is correct, they don't want to hear it, they want you to coax her with sweet words, or even white lies, and that's enough."

Mother Xu kept nodding her head on the side like pounding garlic, very much agreeing with what her husband said.

Finally, she also helped make a summary: "Xiaoyang, let me tell you, Su Qi is stuffy in the hospital every day, very boring. In addition, she is pregnant now, and there are indeed some reasons for pregnancy, which causes her to have some depression throughout her life. ”

"This is the time when her mood is the most ups and downs, it is difficult to control, and I don't know when it will be, she will quickly catch fire because of a little thing."

"Su Qi doesn't want much, she just wants to spend more time with her in the little spare time when you are busy with work, follow her in everything, don't do anything against her, even if he puts down his long words and says something she likes to hear."

The man, who was still very irritable and didn't understand why Min Suqi was so angry, after listening to his parents' enlightenment, was suddenly enlightened and enlightened.

It is because of his lack of companionship that the originally lively and active woman who is good at using her brains is confined to a small ward all day long.

It's no wonder that when she heard that Xia Tian invited her to be the face of her new collection of clothes last Monday, she was in such a good mood and so excited, but she just wanted to go out and have a little more fun. But he didn't like her behavior very much, but persuaded her not to accept this endorsement and let her rest well in the ward.

Now that I think about it, I was really stupid at the beginning, and I don't know how to say such hurtful words.

Now he was so annoyed that he sent him to stretch out his hand and slap himself in the face to make up for his mistake.

Why can't he empathize and think more about what Min Suqi thinks in his heart?