In the first case, Mr. Ma Teng released a big gossip that attracted the attention of the whole class and explained what is called a bride price. At the end of class, young boys and girls surrounded him and kept asking, "Teacher, why did you get divorced later?" Teacher: How old is your child now? Teacher, how do you divide that house? ”

Ma Teng is not too noisy: "I divorced if I didn't get along, because I couldn't fight my ex-wife's family alone." The child was not born, and it was lost soon after marriage. As for the house, I didn't ask for it myself, in fact, according to the evidence, that small apartment is the joint property of me and my ex-wife, and I can divide half of it. ”

"Ah, it's a pity, why do you say you can't fight? Why do you have to fight back and forth as a family? ”

The lively little girl asked everyone's thoughts.

"Little one, your family must be in good condition. If you don't have a family, you don't know that firewood and rice are expensive, and if you don't get married, you don't know how difficult it is! My ex-wife's family conditions are too good, my father-in-law and mother-in-law are the leaders of the enterprise, and the family basically orders and supports me mostly. That's why I want to get a divorce. ”

"But what does your life have to do with your father-in-law and mother-in-law, you can be good with your wife?"

The little girl voiced her doubts again.

Ma Teng looked at her very seriously this time: "No, little girl, your thinking is unacceptable, you marry your husband, and in the long years of your life, it is your husband's parents, brothers and sisters, your husband's parents' parents, and brothers and sisters who want to live together...... plus seven aunts and eight aunts, the whole family lives. If you only think that you love your husband as a person, and you just want to live alone with him, and you don't want other people's parents, siblings and relatives, then you won't live long. ”

"Then I'm going to do it, if I really love my husband, I'll accept it!"

"Then you have to see if you can accept it. So, come on, it just so happens to be in class, let's talk about the next case. What do you think? ”

"Good".

Everyone hurried back to their seats, and everyone was still very interested in the issues they had just discussed.

"Come, just go on. If you feel that you can accept everything from the other person for the sake of love, and really do it, then there are two consequences. One is that you have met a family that cares about you very, very much, you have never met any strange relatives in your life, and your love blossoms and you have a good life. But if you encounter the best, it is wonderful, then your life will be very difficult. All kinds of problems can mess up your marriage. Judging from my experience in the industry over the years and various things around me, I have not encountered the first result at present. ”

There was a sigh at the bottom.

"Teacher, you are too exaggerated, I guess you haven't met it because of your narrow social circle!"

"That's right. But the Internet is completely different from when I was a teenager, if my social circle is very narrow, then who has encountered it on the Internet? There is no contradiction, marry love, and grow old. ”

"Maybe, we don't know!"

"I think, maybe there is, but it's not old yet, and the old batch, no. Of course, we will not discuss the question of who is born first, chicken or egg, let me talk about the following case, let's analyze it. ”

"Teacher, do you still want to tell your own story?"

"No, it's a female classmate. She is a very ordinary family condition, just an ordinary working family, but the girls study very well, and they are also the class flowers of our class. ”

"Teacher, have you chased it?"

"I chased it, but people didn't fancy me." Ma Teng looked at everyone with a smile: "The last person in our class to pick the class flowers is a boy who is very good at playing basketball." Tall and handsome, I heard that the family conditions are okay, at least much better than my family. The campus love between the two is really enviable. ”

"Teacher, your classmates shouldn't be fancy to others who can play ball, have a good appearance and a good family?"

"If you were my female classmate, how would you choose a love partner among your suitors?"

"Well, I feel it, of course, I should also have a good appearance and a good family...... It's good to know how to play. ”

"So you see, no matter what generation of young people it is, when they are young, when they have money and leisure, they choose a love partner, and the conditions are basically the same. My classmates must have been too. The two were ready to get married the year they graduated. The man's parents are from a small city, but they have real estate worth 500,000. And be able to come up with a down payment of 1.5 million for them to buy a house. The woman's family didn't have much money, so they scraped together and bought a car for 200,000 yuan for this female classmate. ”

"With so much money, did you go to a big city to buy a house?"

"You guessed it. At that time, I had just graduated, and the big city house was not too expensive and I could afford it. They bought a house in what looked desolate at the time, and needed a down payment of two million, so the man's parents sold their home and paid them a down payment. Note, then the problem is, when this house was bought, the two people were not married, and the female classmate tentatively asked the man whether the house could be bought by two people, which is actually the current co-ownership relationship. The man refused, this is all the belongings of his parents, how can he directly give you something for nothing? At the same time, the man proposed that the woman could not buy a house, so she would decorate and buy electrical furniture. ”

"Teacher, I also think that the man is not wrong, the man's parents are almost all worth so much, and the woman wants to share the real estate without getting married, I don't think this woman really loves the man." The little girl seemed very angry, and then the teacher said this.

Ma Teng didn't answer with a smile, and continued with a smile: "The woman's family is not rich, and no matter how simple the decoration is, it will cost more than 200,000 yuan, so she is a little hesitant. But the man said, we bought such an expensive house, and my parents' house was sold for us to get married, what's wrong with you decorating it? ”

"My female classmate thinks that it makes sense, it is really inappropriate for others to pay 2 million and only 200,000 for themselves. So I discussed with my parents and scraped together 200,000 yuan for decoration. The wedding took place two years later. After getting married, the conflict just began, and the in-laws had no place to live, so the family of four could only live together. The living conditions of young people and old people are not the same, and contradictions are accumulating more and more. In the end, it evolved into a big quarrel for almost three days and a small quarrel for two days, and the days went on and couldn't go on. ”

"Teacher, we want to know the ending."

"The ending, of course, is divorce. Married for ten years and without children, the woman has been in a bad mood and has habitual miscarriages. When I got divorced, my in-laws were also very practical, and they said that this is the house we bought, and if you can't leave, no one will keep you. The house is in the name of the in-laws, and the loan is deducted from the man's salary. The man's salary is high, and there is a monthly surplus plus the woman's low salary, all of which are used for household purposes, so there is no joint property. In fact, the man usually transfers part of his salary, but my classmates don't know. ”

"It's a really sad example."

"It's an extreme example. We only analyze the legal issues involved. The house was purchased before marriage and written in the name of the parents, who does the ownership belong to? The woman has no evidence that she has renovated, there is no evidence that the man has transferred marital assets, and there is no evidence to prove that she has repaid the loan, will the house still be divided for her? ”

Ma Teng began to analyze the legal issues in this case one by one.