Chapter 962: Refresh the Three Views
First of all, the first place we went to is the place where Zhuli is most interested, that is, the largest shopping mall here, I won't say much about this largest shopping mall, and it will be a national chain in the future, one-stop catering and bathing, and the integration of leisure and entertainment.
It seems that you can buy everything you want here, almost like this, and it seems that you can play with what you want, but the price is a bit high.
For example, singing here, the price is indeed a bit inflated, and the average student will not come to this kind of place, unless it is a rich person like me, who is not humble to me at all, I belong to the kind of rich people, do you hear that you are particularly angry.
In fact, there is another point that there are some swollen faces and fat people, this kind of person usually comes to this kind of place when chasing girls, so that others appear to be taller, but even so, I think I still have to pull down after chasing them.
Because in the process of chasing girls, I think there is one point that is more important, what you give him in the process of chasing, she may need more things in the future, that is, what you use after chasing successfully, and you will need more in the future.
That is to say, now you spend money after slapping your swollen face and becoming fat, and you may need to spend more money after chasing success, basically like borrowing usury, and there will always be some discordant factors at that time.
So don't use too much force when chasing girls, because if you use too much force, this is the maximum limit you can take out, and you may not be able to take it out at all in the future, but the other party has more needs, so it is likely to be pulled down.
It's not that it's not recommended to chase girls, but it's moderate, of course, it's not just men chasing women, but also women chasing men, I think it should be basically the same in this regard, and there is no big gap.
Of course, it's not just about money, I think there's also about emotion, it's the same, when you give her enough care, maybe he will need more care in the future, this is the maximum limit you can give at the point of time, so in the future, if you don't have time, will you disappoint her.
In the process of chasing, I originally took a fancy to you.,I think it may not be so important except for one point.,That is, handsomeness and beauty.,Because the degree of a person's handsomeness is there.,It may not change much in the future.,If you can maintain a fighting state,,There shouldn't be any big problem.。
But you must understand a situation, that is, the degree of expectation that a girl expects from you, this matter should be well said, before falling in love or getting married, you must say it well, what kind of image you are in her mind.
You may know what direction you should move into, you may know what is the difference between your image in her mind and you in real life, what kind of contradictions will this difference cause, and so on.
In the past, my expectations for Qiyang were too big to be honest, and in some places I could actually imagine that it was not realistic at all, but I have always asked him according to this standard, and there have been many contradictions in this matter.
However, in this contradiction, there are actually certain benefits, and the advantage is that within the tolerance range of the two of us, I lowered a lot of standards, and then raised a lot of standards.
Just like buying vegetables in the vegetable market, both sides tolerate each other a little, then they may get along in the future, if it is the kind of needle-to-wheat mang, in fact, after every quarrel, they can be reconciled, in fact, the degree of hurt feelings is also very deep, because it is inevitable that when they quarrel, they will talk about the previous things.
Often when talking about things from the past, then this time is not a simple quarrel, generally a simple quarrel is not a quarrel can not quarrel too much, if an emotional thing rises, then it is basically a difficult to recover the point, at least a cold war.
I don't know why sometimes I have a cold war, but I just don't want to pay attention to him, every time I don't want to pay attention to Qi Yang, Qi Yang ignores me, but if I ignore him, he will immediately smile and talk to me.
The main thing is that Qi Yang knows that I will definitely not speak when he speaks, so he will wait a while before speaking, let me hold it for a while, and after I hold it for a while, it won't take long for me to hold it back, but I can still do it without talking to him.
But if he comes over and teases me, I guess I won't be able to, I may be able to say some more, but as long as I open this chatterbox, I'm basically fine psychologically, although on the surface, I may still be a little angry, but I know myself very well.
At this time, I'm really, really good, in fact, I don't want to tell other boys about this, because it seems that after they know this method, it is easy for girls to be not so angry, especially for some small contradictions, so I don't think I can stand in the man's perspective, so I think for the sake of us girls, I can't say too much about this matter.
After all, let them understand it themselves, there is still a certain effect, and they can also experience the previous level of hard work, what is too easy to get is still not easy to cherish, of course, this sentence is not only applicable to boys, in fact, it is also applicable to many people.
Including girls, it seems to be a human nature.
There is also a cinema in this mall, and it is also a global chain of cinemas, and the ticket price is indeed a little higher, but the hardware facilities are really good, which is also worth the ticket.
The other is the supermarket, this should be the standard, I think whether it is a large shopping mall or a small shopping mall, how to leave a supermarket, and then followed by some scattered small facades.
Basically, I think it's all a model, and this large shopping mall will definitely add some video games, and then add some other entertainment facilities, which is basically more high-end.
Of course, the price is also very impressive, at least I think it is quite touching.
If we come in, it must be a little bit of shopping, this point is the same as the two of us, when we used to go shopping, we were very impatient, although it was not shown from the surface, but as such a smart me, of course, I can see.
For example, the first thing he does when he enters a store is to find a bench, I really didn't imagine that he can be so tired, and he is not so tired when he usually runs to an Internet café, and the distance is far farther than that.
Now I can think of the main and main reason, that is, I am not interested, that is, because I am not interested, so I feel tired, although the distance is relatively short.
And these friends in my dormitory, they don't particularly like to visit this kind of large shopping mall, they like to visit that kind of market, although there are all kinds of things, but the price is relatively cheap.
And there's a very big pleasure over there, and the biggest pleasure is bargaining, and I've been to them quite a bit, although I don't particularly like them.
I've seen with my own eyes that they once cut the price of a thing by 2/3, and it looks like it's quite NB, cut it by 2/3!
It's a great pleasure for them to go to that place, and there are some very down-to-earth snacks, which I'm still interested in.
There are four floors in this place, the highest floor is the cinema, although we can't spend too much time here, but we have to look at these clothes a little bit, if you can, you can try it, maybe Zhuli can buy it for me.
I can still accept the price of clothes here, but since I went to university, I don't buy clothes here very often, although I have visited here a lot, but I can buy very few clothes.
A large part of it was bought for me by my mother, and I don't know where my mother bought it, but it's quite comfortable to wear anyway, and it won't be particularly cheap if it's estimated, so I'm still more confident in this, because my mother is very good to me.
Speaking of which, Zhuli and I are actually similar, oops, how do I know that others don't know how to talk about themselves.
The first layer is dominated by women's clothing and women's shoes, high heels are indeed Zhu Li's very like, although Zhu Li wears sneakers, but that is because it is more comfortable, a long way and travel, so I don't wear high heels.
But I tried a pair with Zhuli, to be honest, the two of us are different in this aspect, there should be a certain gap at this point, I don't particularly like to wear high heels, even if I wear them, I won't wear them particularly high, because I feel too tired and tired to myself.
But I can really understand those girls who are very fond of high heels, and even those who have reached the point of obsession.
Their emotional feelings are not much different from their boyfriends, and sometimes they are even more important than their boyfriends, especially the kind of people who must wear high heels when they go out, even when they travel.
In the past, I didn't really understand it, but now I really understand it, because everyone has their own yearning for things, and everyone has their own environment and three views.
Then I also think that this is a large part of the reason why I can't find a suitable object, the differentiation is too serious, everyone's preferences are more and more differentiated under multiple choices, so it will be more and more difficult to find the same preferences as yourself.
And it's hard for modern people to change, because I don't need to be attached to anyone when I'm financially independent, so I don't need to change my preferences because of something that doesn't seem so important.
I tried it, and I did feel a little princess, I was originally a little princess, and I might be able to be a little princess for a few years.
Actually, when I got married, I was very longing for it, I mean after graduating from high school, but as I went to college, this yearning was not so much.
Of course, I don't mean to say that my heart has changed, but I just feel that there is no need for the two of us to get married even if we are together, and marriage is just a choice, just a system, and there is no need to impose it on us.
Even if they are forced to be together, they will still get divorced in the future, and there is no need to do so in the current situation where there are so many choices.
I don't know why I had such an idea, my current idea is to be with Qi Yang, but I don't want to marry him, because marriage seems to be a thing that makes me feel more distressed.
Of course, I may choose to live together, I don't think it matters at all, because I think the two of us are really deep enough, in life, you let me let you live really happy, if you can live together and run in again, maybe you can live a lifetime.
I don't know if my thinking is too avant-garde, anyway, I think it's really good and good, marrying someone, or living with someone, is not marrying a family.
I feel a little selfish, but in fact, I am a little selfish, and I feel that I don't want to take a lot of responsibilities, such as this child's problem.
Originally, I thought that my old man and my mother were quite open, and I would have children if I wanted to, and I would not have children if I didn't want to have children, but I found that my situation was not like this at all, and it was not at all as I imagined.
Now I am urging me to graduate, get married and have children, which means that as soon as I graduate, I will be able to find a good partner, and I will be able to have a big belly as soon as I graduate.
It sounds like a big headache, and of course it's not as exaggerated as I say, but they want me to get married when I'm about twenty-four or five, which is actually when I graduate.
Although what I said is a bit exaggerated, I think it's basically expressing such a meaning, but I really don't particularly want to, this point is really the same as Qi Yang, neither of us really wants to get married early or have children, both of us are selfish people, and we are eager to leave some space for ourselves.
To be honest, I remember that I had such an idea in the past, whether I could not find a man to be a single mother, I used to have this idea, but now forget it, because I am too tired, there is no way to find someone to bear, then this kind of life is not necessarily particularly comfortable.
I find that sometimes it's really easier for two people to live together, but I don't want the third person to come out and mess up the balance, and a lot of contradictions are caused by this third person, we have been running in very well, but because of this small life, there are a lot of conflicts between the two of us, I think it's completely unnecessary.
That's why I said that both of us are selfish people, of course, the degree of selfishness is not particularly obvious, because both of us are fooling our parents, yes, yes, yes, know, know.
But this kind of thing has been said countless times, and for their things is almost the left ear in and the right ear out, there are not many possibilities.
Especially the guy who raised the eyebrows, when he became financially independent, he could do whatever he wanted, and I was still more envious of it at present, and I must find a job that could support myself independently in the future.
But aren't you a little tired? But isn't the boss a little stupid? When I think about these things, I may sometimes choose to give up.
In fact, I found that these clothes have a common feature, that is, they don't look so good, but they look good when you wear them.
This is very different from Mou Bao, then you mean that it looks like other models are wearing very good-looking, but when you wear it on yourself, you find that it may not look so good.
That is to say, when choosing that kind of clothes, you have to look at those models to look very, very good before you can buy them, because when it comes to you, it can be boiled down to looking good.
If you see a model dressed as good-looking, but when it comes to you, it's basically very mediocre and mediocre, and the probability of disappointment is very high.
This may also be an advantage of physical stores, when they hang these clothes out again, in fact, at first glance, they really don't feel so good, that is, that is, maybe the fabric is better, but I don't feel like I'm going to pay for it.
But when my mother bought it for me, I found that it was really stylish to wear, so when I bought clothes in the future, I basically asked my mother to buy them, and his vision was always not too wrong, and every time I could buy a dress that matched our age, which made me feel very happy, and this also made me feel very happy.
We tried on a few clothes, and sure enough, as I imagined, Zhuli is simply a big tyrant, if it can be whiter, it is Bai Fumei.
Of course, I'm not saying that Zhuli is not white, it's just that the color of her skin tends to be yellow, and the main reason is actually that I think it's malnutrition, even if you puff on some powder, you can feel it.
But it's not important anymore, the important thing is that Zhu Li also bought a dress for me there, well, I think it's okay, Zhu Li is still very handsome when she swipes the card, just like those celebrities on TV.
The two of us have a little different personalities, in fact, my personality tends to be a little neutral, of course, it is only a little biased, the specific performance is that I don't like to carry a bag when I go shopping, I like to carry a school bag, but I think it's a little more masculine.
Because I feel uncomfortable, I like to carry a schoolbag and a schoolbag to go around the world, whether it is when I travel or when I go to school, or when I go shopping or when I go home, you can see that it is actually that one schoolbag.
Although this schoolbag is very good-looking, it makes girls feel as if there is no novelty, but girls are different, girls must be very different, each scene is to have a different bag, I don't mean all girls, I'm just talking about a large proportion of girls.
But I'm just like them, in fact, I also think that carrying a schoolbag is a very happy thing, because there are more things, and there are more things to buy.
The messy cosmetics mobile phone power bank can be put in, and you don't need to use your own hands, and when you free your hands, you can buy a bottle of drink and put it in the side pocket of your school bag.
Generally speaking, I think carrying a schoolbag is a relatively cost-effective one, but this cost-effective ratio doesn't seem to be easy to be recognized by people, that is, as a girl.
What kind of behavior do girls think is low, I'm not talking about people who carry school bags this way, but people who have another behavior that are low, holding wallets.
Yes, I feel that such people are relatively low, of course, this wallet is not a bag that we usually use to put money, but a person about 30 years old especially likes to take a very big bag, which may have a lot of money, and may also be recognized by others because of this money, but it does not affect the degree of suspicion of girls, that is, I feel that such people have no taste.
The thickness of that bag is about the thickness of the wrist, in fact, I have always wondered if it is all money? Aren't you afraid of being targeted?
So I warn all boys, don't go out with such a bag, there is no point, to be honest, even if you are a recent graduate, after two years of work, you can almost fill this kind of wallet, and it does not make people feel that you are very rich, although you may take out a lot of money to others, but it still can't change the feeling that others feel about you.
If that's what you like, take a detour.
I came out today with my schoolbag, and I put my drinks on both sides, which were Zhuli's drinks and my drinks.
Zhu Li is a typical real fragrance, and she also sarcastically asked me why I was carrying such a bag, and now immediately put the drink on the edge of my desk, both hands empty.
It's just really fragrant, don't want it, okay, the word is still a bit playful, so don't say this word for the time being.
It took a lot of time to walk around, it was about the afternoon, and it was estimated that it was going to be evening, and I plan to take Zhuli to Hey Park to play at night, because there is a fountain at night.
Although this kind of thing is often seen in my hometown, there is really no other place to go.
There are a lot of things to buy, in fact, there are not many things that are really valuable, the most important thing is because we went to the supermarket and bought some food and drink.
Then we found a place and ate some food first, and then the two of us went to the park with big bags and small bags.
To be honest, the schoolbag on my back is a little heavy, and I am a little tired enough
I finally arrived at a place, and after arriving at this place, I found a bench to sit on, quickly put down my schoolbag, and then said to Zhuli: "Can you help me get something first?" Just let me take it myself, are you so embarrassed? ”
Zhu Li smiled: "Oh, aren't you carrying a schoolbag?" It's easy for you to carry, I'm not very suitable for carrying that thing, so it's hard work, who asked me to buy you clothes today. ”
What kind of theory is this, who said that I don't have to work hard to carry my schoolbag? Who said that it would be more convenient for me to carry a school bag, if it weren't for the premise of buying me a dress, I really didn't want to carry it.
This place to see the fountain is on the first and second floors, and the two of us started to take pictures, and it felt like a necessary process, and if you didn't take pictures, it seemed like you hadn't been to this place, of course, I said it was a bit exaggerated.
When looking at the fountain, the old lady was really a little sleepy, although she slept for a lot of time, but at this time she was really sleepy, because it seemed that she had been shopping for a long time, I asked Zhuli: "Are you sleepy?" ”
Zhuli shook her head: "You're not sleepy, are you sleepy?" Have you chatted with your little darling today? Isn't it a day without chatting and starting to miss it. ”
I smiled: "I really don't know the two of us too well, the two of us often don't contact each other for two or three days, and it doesn't matter if it's just a day, not to mention that I also said it on purpose, so you don't need to worry about this matter at all, and you don't need to worry about it at all." ”
"Really? Can the relationship be maintained so well? I don't believe it. Zhu Li said to me while lying on the railing on the second floor, looking at the fountain.
I said to Zhuli seriously: "Really the two of us are like this, from the beginning may be a little tired, then now it's really not like this at all, even if the two of us don't contact each other for two days, we don't miss anything special, and I don't feel anything wrong, but our relationship is pretty good, and I don't think there's anything too much to worry about." ”
Zhu Li actually expressed a little incomprehension of this matter: "Aren't you afraid to get up and find a little girlfriend?" Another hat for you? ”
I smiled when I heard this, to be honest, I really didn't think of this aspect of things, and I really couldn't imagine what it was like for Qi Yang to find a little girlfriend, but I thought about it and said: "Although I believe in Qi Yang very much, but if Qi Yang really does this, I really don't know what I should do, but this kind of thing should be very simple, I don't think it's too complicated, it's a big deal, pull it down, if you still have feelings, teach a little lesson, if you think he dies and doesn't repent, Then I'll just pull it down. ”
Although what I'm saying now is quite emotional, and what I'm saying is quite ambitious, but if it really comes to that point, I really don't know whether I will miss it or not, because I have never thought about breaking up now, and I don't know if I will be sad to break up, these things are things that I haven't considered, of course, there is no need to think about it, because I really haven't encountered such a situation.
Zhu Li smiled: "To be honest, you are quite calm, what if you say that I want to have a boyfriend and he cheats in the future?" ”
I don't know why Zhu Li thought about a question like this: "What's wrong with you?" What are you doing about this? Why are you so unconfident in your own charm? ”
Zhu Li shook her head: "The charm is relative, men are big pig's trotters, and after a long time, it is equivalent to a bowl of rice, and if you eat too much rice, you always want to eat a little spicy hot, even if you know that it is a harmful thing." ”
I remember that I also used this metaphor, this metaphor was quite popular in the original time, in fact, I felt a little distressed for men, because I think people are like this, not only limited to boys, but I think girls should be more conservative in this regard, or they can keep this restlessness in their hearts.
Or that sentence, I just think it's just.,I'm not sure it's like this.,So there's no need to go online at all.,But in terms of general cheating.,I think it's really mostly men.,There shouldn't be too much to say about this.。
That's how the data should be displayed, and a lot of data is displayed this way anyway.
That's why I had the idea above.
But I think to be honest, the thing of liking the new and hating the old exists in most people, but some people really do it, and some people don't do it.
After reading this, it was a bit late, so we didn't plan to go back to the dormitory, so we decided to find a place to live nearby, wait until tomorrow morning to get up a little early, and then pack our things.
It is estimated that if I start packing up tomorrow morning, I think Zhuli should be in the process of packing up all day, so I still have to get up early tomorrow, and I am really afraid of delaying the time, after all, I have already booked a high-speed rail ticket, and this cannot be delayed.
I found a better hotel, which I think is more important, a little better service, in fact, a little clean, although I don't know what they are doing, but at least give yourself a comfort in your heart.
The two of us live in a hotel, in fact, I think it's still a more interesting thing to go to the hotel occasionally, of course, it's not that I go with Qi Yang, I just say go with my girlfriends.
But just when I arrived, as soon as I closed the door, I found a problem, there was a small card stuffed underneath, and I felt a little funny after seeing this situation, didn't they see that both of us were women?
Zhuli took the card at once, and then looked at the card: "There are all kinds of handsome men, please add WeChat ......... for details"
"Wow, I didn't expect your city to be very well civilized, this kind of service is available, I remember that this kind of service is not available in every city."
I smiled and said to Zhuli, "You still know this kind of thing, don't you often look for it?" ”
Zhuli shook her head: "I don't need it now, maybe I will need it in the future." ”
Of course, Zhuli is joking, and I know this, after all, Zhuli wants to do this kind of thing, and it doesn't cost money at all, as for whether this job is good or not, it's uncertain, but I think it should be very hard-working.
What am I talking about? Who am I? Where am I?
Two people lie on the bed and play with their mobile phones, turn on the air conditioner and turn on the TV, anyway, they just turn on everything that can be turned on, otherwise I will feel that the money is spent at a loss.
"When are you going to get married?"
Suddenly feeling that Zhuli seemed to be my mother, I immediately retorted: "Sister, when will you get married?" ”
Zhuli looked at me and smiled: "You have a sick brain, I don't have a boyfriend yet, how can I get married?" ”
"Then you have a sick brain, I only have a boyfriend and no husband."
Suddenly I felt that my rebuttal was quite correct, what I said was more correct, I am still just a child, is it a bit inappropriate to say this kind of thing to a child.
Zhuli shook her head: "I just wanted to ask, why did you react so much?" Is it that you don't want to marry Qi Yang, or is it a bit bad to talk about Yang. ”
Although I hadn't experienced anything like this, I could hear it all at once, and then I said to Zhuli, "I remember you seem to have told me about this, but you really don't have to worry about it, let's talk about it then." ”
Suddenly, Zhuli thought of something, and then pointed at me and said, "You two won't have ...... yet"
I suddenly felt embarrassed by this, and then immediately vetoed the topic: "Okay, okay, let's talk about something else, what are you always talking about, it's really not interesting at all." ”
"I'm not telling the truth, you two won't have it yet?"
In fact, when Zhuli said this, I was a little skeptical: "Didn't your father look at you very tightly?" Do you already have to? ”
Zhu Li immediately said to you: "How old are you big sister, is it complicated for you to have this kind of thing?" Is there anything like that? ”
After hearing this, I immediately determined that Zhuli's father was not seriously surveilling, and it seemed that this surveillance work was still a little bad.
I smiled lewdly, eh, no, I shouldn't use this adjective, I grinned: "It turns out that you have already experienced it, no wonder you keep telling me about this, is it high school or college?" I think it's a university, right? What's the matter, it's pulled down? Why? ”
I suddenly felt like I had a lot of questions, and I asked all the questions.
"Why do you ask so clearly, but since you want to understand, I can tell you about it, and also provide a little experience for the two of you, both high school and college, in fact, don't talk about this matter so much, if you think it's not good, you will pull it down."
It's really a big surprise to my glasses, I really don't know when this kind of thing happened, and I feel that Zhuli's secrecy work is really good.
But after thinking about it, Zhuli shouldn't be particularly simple, because even her father has hidden it, so don't talk about me.
In fact, the most incredible thing that makes me feel is that there are two or three, according to Zhuli, there are at least two of them, and it is possible to increase the number of them.
Sometimes I ask a topic that interests me the most: "Your dad doesn't know?" ”
Zhu Li hurriedly shushed: "You must not tell anyone about this matter, otherwise let my father know that he will definitely kill me, but it feels like that, I always hear others say, this kind of thing still has to be experienced by yourself, don't be afraid." ”
Zhu Li also teased me at the end.
I patted Zhuli on the shoulder: "Wow, you're doing a really good job of keeping secrets, even I don't know, who is in high school?" Do I know each other? ”
But Zhuli obviously didn't want to talk about it.,Although she told me the result of this matter.,But I don't want to tell me the hero of this matter.。
"Oh, don't ask so clearly, okay? In short, it has happened, and if it has been sent, it has happened, and asking so clearly has caused my memories in vain and made me sad in vain. ”
In fact, this happened and happened, and modern ideas are much more open, and I don't think it means that you can't get married.
Although many boys now have this complex, I think many boys have slowly eliminated, or there is no such complex at all.
Of course, I mean most boys, there are still a few boys who care more about this thing, but I think as far as I'm concerned, if I'm not, I won't care about Qiyang, but I'm just saying an analogy.
Because Qiyang is that kind of big pig's trotters, I really don't particularly care, as long as I think I'm sincere, Qiyang cares about this matter, and I will eat immediately.
I was like a gossip girl: "How many times has it happened? Why didn't you tell me when you broke up, and didn't see when you were in pain? ”
Zhuli looked at me with disgust: "Why do you even have to inquire about this matter, do you mean several times a night?" ”
Burst! , I almost want to die, in fact, I just want to ask how many times it happened, and it was a big surprise to hear her look like this all night.
But it suddenly occurred to me that the direction of this gossip was also a good direction, so I went in and asked, "How many times is that, what can you do with me?" ”
Zhuli's face was very difficult, but she still said to me: "That night, I remember it seemed to be wuci?" ”
I'm almost going to spit out a mouthful of old blood, is there anything like this? I can really hold on, I feel like I'm going to die!
I said to Zhuli in an incredible tone, "Really, is it so powerful?" ”
Zhuli didn't have much shyness: "This depends on your charm, basically there were a lot of such things at the beginning, but as they went on, they gradually didn't care too much." ”
"So in the future, you have to verify the ability to lift, this is also a good direction."
I was very puzzled: "Sister, did you not sleep all night?" ”
Zhu Li still nodded: "This doesn't mean that you don't sleep all night, just say that you don't sleep in the middle of the night, but you wake up very late the next day, especially the boys, who sleep like dead pigs." ”
It completely refreshed my three views.