Take advantage of the opportunity
In a person's life, if you grasp the opportunity, you may taste the joy of success; I have compiled an essay on seizing the opportunity, welcome to read.
Part 1: Seize the opportunity
On the road of life, you will face many choices. If you make a mistake, you can regret it for life. Therefore, we must be good at grasping opportunities and creating opportunities to help us make better choices, so that we do not have the fatigue of running around and the confusion of doing nothing in this life.
Opportunities are for aspiring people, as long as you have the ambition of a pengucan, even ordinary people will seize the opportunity to achieve a career. At the end of the Qin Dynasty, Chen Sheng was born into a poor peasant family, but he had few ambitions. When he was young, 900 poor peasants such as Chen Sheng and Wu Guang were requisitioned and sent to defend Yuyang, but because of the heavy rain on the road, the road collapsed and could not arrive on time, and according to the laws of the Qin Dynasty, they were executed on time. Chen Sheng saw his own situation and the hatred of the people of the whole country for the tyrannical Qin, and decided to seize this opportunity to mobilize the border guards to kill the Qin Dynasty officers who escorted them. Unveiling the pole as a banner, using wooden sticks and hoes as weapons, he led this 900-strong peasant army to resist the tyrannical Qin. Immediately after the uprising, it was supported by the broad masses of the people. The vast number of peasants brought their own dry food and joined the rebel army one after another, and the rebel army expanded rapidly, attacking cities and plundering land, and the momentum was like a bamboo. Finally overthrew the rule of the tyrannical Qin. Chen Sheng's example tells us that even ordinary people will succeed if they know how to seize opportunities.
Of course, if you have no ambition, you won't necessarily succeed. Because opportunities are hard to come by, we must be good at grasping opportunities, because once missed, opportunities will not come back. Known as the "father of science fiction", the famous French science fiction writer Jules Verne entered the literary world by chance. Verne studied law in Paris at the age of 18. Once, when he came down from the upper floor, he slid down the handrail of the stairs like a child, and crashed into a chubby gentleman. This person is none other than the famous French writer Alexandre Dumas. From then on, Verne became acquainted with Alexandre Dumas and, under the influence of Alexandre Dumas, embarked on the path of literary creation. Verne was a man who was good at seizing opportunities, and if he had missed the opportunity to meet Alexandre Dumas, perhaps he would not have been a novelist for the rest of his life, and he would have lost his relationship with fiction. We won't see his excellent work.
We can only succeed the first time if we seize the opportunity. When I was in junior high school, my teacher gave me the task of speaking on behalf of the class. I've been timid since I was a child, and I've never shown my head on a big occasion, but this time I had to talk for 5 minutes in front of the whole school! Of course, the teacher understood my difficulties and promised me to give up and let other classmates replace me. Finally, the teacher said meaningfully, "Think about it, and the teacher is looking forward to your reply." ”
I don't know what to do in the face of this challenge. Promise me, I'm not sure; If I refuse, I will live up to the teacher's hopes for me...... My mind was in a state of confusion, the conflict between the two ideas intensified, and I was like a passerby, facing two diverging avenues, staring blankly into the distance, not knowing which one to choose.
Finally, I couldn't hold back my distress and told my dad all my thoughts, thinking that I would definitely receive a more satisfying answer, but he said, "You should have your own choice." It's an opportunity and a test, think about it!" I seem to understand a little, isn't fate in my own hands? Pushing open the window, a breath of fresh air came to my face, and my swollen brain suddenly cleared up a lot. At this time, a flock of pigeons flew in the sky, and the little birds could challenge the blue sky and soar high in the sky. The biggest enemy is my own fear, and I want to overcome it and make my own choice!
After careful preparation, my presentation was well received. In the applause, I was extremely excited, I finally understood that the process is the end, and when I chose a path to overcome myself, I had succeeded!
Opportunity is like a catalyst that can make your path to success smoother; He can shorten the distance between you and success, so that you can move faster to success. Therefore, those who know how to seize the opportunity will be the ultimate winner!
Part 2: Seize the opportunity
Opportunities don't come all the time, and some people can seize them and not let them slip away in front of them. Some people waste their time, eat all day long, do nothing, and let opportunities be lost in front of their eyes. What I want to tell you here is that smart and hardworking people are always good at looking for opportunities to create miracles.
When Newton was resting in the orchard, it happened that an apple fell from under the tree when it was ripe, and Newton was a man who was good at thinking and using his brain, and finally discovered the law of gravitation. This was certainly gratifying, but Newton was not satisfied with continuing to seize the opportunity and produce many gratifying achievements. If Newton hadn't been resting under the trees back then, many people would have inadvertently lost the law of gravitation.
Opportunity won't come to you on its own initiative, but it will wait for us to find him. Take the example of me in math, once I was careless in an exam and lost a point because of my carelessness, and I ended up missing out on the top 10, I added the missing points to find that I was in the top 10, which made me regret because I lost an opportunity that I shouldn't have lost. Through this incident, I have learned more about seizing opportunities. If you had a chance to make you famous, would you want it? I think anyone would want it! But in fact, no one has ever given up the opportunity to let him slip away from his hands. Everyone has an opportunity, the key is whether you grasp it or not. Opportunity waits for me, and it will neither reward you nor cause you to lose anything. Seizing opportunities should start with little by little.
If a person in danger sees a glimmer of hope and fights for it, why can't we put this spirit in our daily life?
To grasp the opportunity is to cherish time and cherish life, the ancients said: an inch of time is an inch of gold, and it is difficult to buy an inch of time. Time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle. We are now in an era of diligent study, and we should seize the opportunity to study hard and hard. It is the wisest choice for the young people of our generation to learn all kinds of homework, enrich themselves, learn their skills to serve the motherland, and revitalize the Chinese nation.
Let's work together, if not for ourselves, but for our motherland! Opportunities cannot be given up easily, otherwise they will not be able to touch it next time. I just want to tell you that opportunities don't always come and go, and you must seize them
Part 3: Seize the opportunity
In a person's life, if you grasp the opportunity, you may taste the joy of success; If you hesitate and think about it, you may miss many opportunities and even leave eternal regrets.
Isn't it? Think about it, because you have the courage to seize the opportunity, you may have reached out to others when they needed it most, you may have completed a complex experiment with high quality, you may have spoken what you have been saving for a long time; On the contrary, due to timidity and indecision, you may lose an opportunity to show yourself, you may pass by an innocent friendship, and you may miss out on the first place in a competition......
I remember that a few weeks ago, as a young reporter of the "Shaoxing Evening News", I participated in an outward bound training organized by this newspaper. During the one-day training, there was a project to cross the broken bridge.
The "broken bridge" consists of two narrow, unjoined planks set on a meter-high platform. The project required participants to step from one plank to another at a height of meters, and although it was protected by a safety rope, the task was still terrifying.
I was the first to try. When I fastened the safety rope and climbed up the high platform, my palms were covered with layers of thin beads of sweat, and the distance between the two planks was not enough to worry about on the ground, but when I reached the air, it seemed so far away that I did not dare to step my feet. My classmates in the underground cheered for me, and the coach loudly told me to just run a few steps and jump over. However, every time I ran to the point where I should have taken a leap, I couldn't help but stop, and my mind was full of hesitation and fear, afraid that I would fall off the platform with one foot in the air. And the slight shaking of the platform deepened the worry in my heart a little.
After repeating this many times, I finally settled down, decisively grabbed the thrust from those few steps, and jumped over. There was applause from the ground......
To jump over the "broken bridge", what is needed is to seize the opportunity of the moment after the run, however, the inner hesitation will make people can't help but give up the oncoming opportunity and retreat again and again. If the opportunities needed to cross the broken bridge can be easily created by ourselves, but when we do other things, the opportunities that come and go like the wind cannot come to us again and again. It only goes in a flash, and once it is missed, it will not be repeated.
Therefore, we need to learn to seize opportunities. When it comes suddenly, we can't hesitate to let it go because of the possible risks. Sometimes, perhaps, opportunities do bring blows, but in today's society, what can be done without the slightest risk? Don't think about it and watch the fleeting opportunity pass you by, and you hesitate to lose track of its rhythm and make it go away.
When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. When the opportunity comes, we should resolutely grasp it and grasp this opportunity that comes and goes without a trace.
In a person's life, there are good times and bad times, joys and sorrows, and it is normal to be depressed and unhappy when encountering setbacks. As our young students, they lack calm thinking when encountering problems, and their psychological tolerance is poor, and they are often in negative emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness. These negative emotions are very harmful to our mind and body, so students should actively eliminate bad emotions, shape their own sunny mentality, create contentment, gratitude, optimism and cheerfulness, establish a joyful, optimistic and upward attitude towards life, and make themselves successful!
First of all, let's review the emotional experience we have experienced before, every day, we are experiencing the emotional changes of joy, anger, sorrow and happiness, when you are in a happy mood, you will feel that everything around you is so beautiful, everywhere is full of sunshine; When you are depressed, everything becomes dull again, even the birds and flowers are annoying, these emotions, emotions can be grasped and controlled, as long as we learn the skills to control emotions, we can improve bad emotions and have a healthy self. In ancient times, there was an old man, she had two sons, one was an umbrella seller, the other was a fan seller, she was always in sorrow, on a rainy day she was worried that her son who sold a fan could not sell a fan and could not live, and on a sunny day, she was worried that her son who sold an umbrella could not sell an umbrella and could not live. One day, a wise man came and told him that you should be happy if you put yourself in your shoes and that your son who sells umbrellas on a rainy day has a good business; On a sunny day, your son who sells fans has a good business, you should also be happy, your son has a fortune every day, you should be happy every day, the old man hears that it makes sense, and the illness will be cured immediately.
In adolescence, we are emotionally diverse. Positive emotions can motivate people to work hard, and can play a role in increasing strength and wisdom in activities, while negative emotions can make people feel uncomfortable, weaken people's physical strength and energy, and reduce people's self-control. Psychologists once conducted an experiment in which two lambs of the same size were fed in the same meadow, but one sheep was tethered to a wolf next to it. The wolf next to the sheep soon died. Sheep live in fear every day, can't eat, can't sleep, and of course die. A few days ago, it was reported on the news that a young man fled after causing death in a fight, and voluntarily surrendered after absconding for seven years. The main reason for his surrender is fear and loneliness, always afraid of being caught, afraid to socialize with others, no relatives and friends, that feeling is indescribable, often life is worse than death.
Therefore, when we are in adolescence, we must have a sunny attitude, the ability to actively regulate our emotions, and under the rational arrangement, we must be happy and angry.
We can use the attention transfer method to adjust our mentality, when you are in a bad mood, you must listen to cheerful tunes, strong and powerful songs, to lift people's hearts and improve their mood. We also have to learn to control our emotions, as middle school students we should understand the true meaning of the word "restraint", so that we become mature, and when we are old, we not only know the meaning of the word "restraint, forbearance", but also know that he will become a conscious action, so cultivating to a state of gain but not joy, loss but not worry, is the ideal state we pursue. It is a state of transcendence of self, which we cannot do now, but we must strive for.
If a person can establish a correct outlook on life, he will be full of confidence in life, and he will have a positive and stable attitude. People with a big heart, people who love life, people who have good interpersonal relationships, they can take the initiative to adapt to life, be considerate of others, and will make learning and life full of fun.
Students, the key to cultivating a sunny mentality is to rely on ourselves, we must not feel sorry for ourselves, not self-pity, and not overly blame ourselves; We must be straightforward, honest, say what we want, and actively eliminate psychological pressure; We must learn to be tolerant and considerate, and there are no perfect people and things in the world.
I believe that with such a sunny mentality, we will definitely grasp the present, meet the challenges, and will definitely succeed!