Chapter 163: Starting a Family (2)
"Can you still write poetry?" Yan Qing was very surprised when he heard Cheng Xiong say that he could compose poems!
"Of course, I didn't bring a pen or paper! But I can say that. ”
This aroused Yan Qing's interest, so she sat down again and said, "Okay! Then you will do it to me. ”
Cheng Xiong nodded and said, "I'll call this poem "I Don't Stay." ”
""I won't stay when you leave"? Let's hear it. ”
"I won't stay when you go.
For you,
I will saddle you up and take you to the port of departure.
I won't stay when you go,
Life is not meant to be a glass of wine.
Go ahead! Go ahead!
I'm not a stumbling block,
hinders your pursuits.
I won't stay when you go,
You go to find the love in your heart,
What was left for me was lovesickness and sorrow.
Go ahead! Go like the wind,
As long as I look back at the past and have me in my dreams,
That's when I'm happy and sweet. ”
A beautiful poem came out of Cheng Xiong's mouth like this, and after Yan Qing listened to it, he stayed there. Her heart seemed to be a little moved, yes, in that era when everyone was very simple, for a girl's family, how romantic it should be, a woman is the heroine of the poem in another man's heart, and the man's emotions moving with the wind are so fascinating. Girl, let's go! I won't be a stumbling block in your heart, if you want to pursue a better person, I won't keep it, as long as you can still see me in your dreams when you look back on the past, that is when I am happiest and sweetest. This kind of feeling full of manly charm deeply touched Yan Qing's heart.
Clearly, he had captured her. Later, Yan Qing would say to Wu Lie: "Why do you think I was so stupid at that time? I'll be moved by a poem by your dad. ”
Maybe this is the personality charm of the people of that era, there is not so much gorgeous, only the purest soul exchange, ethereal, and smart......
The two of them have also ridden a bicycle under the blood-colored sun, I ride you, and I have also laughed in the hotel where you sit on that end, but the time of love Chengxiong and Yan Qing did not enjoy it for long, and the two families began to discuss the matter of marriage.
This family affair Yan Qing is decided, Yan Qing and Cheng Xiong got married after knowing each other for less than a month, it should be regarded as a flash marriage at that time. Who can tell the difference between life, fate, timing, and fate? It is said that in life, what you love is one person, and what you love is another person, but it is another person who accompanies you through your life. This may be the truest love, the truest life.
On the day of the wedding, Yan Qing was dressed very beautifully, with a big red red flower on her head, wearing a bright red bridal dress with a red hijab. Cheng Xiong rented a handsome suit, wore a groom flower on his chest, and asked the driver to drive a black Jetta car to come over.
At that time, it was always read in books that the contradiction at the present stage in China was "the contradiction between the people's growing material and cultural needs and backward social production." This was especially the case in the 90s, some people lived in brick houses, and sometimes they lived in mud houses, and at that time, Yanqing's family was still a mud house, and her mother's family was not very wealthy. After a while, Cheng Xiong's wedding car drove into the yard, and Yan Qing's little niece was blocked at the door of the house.
Cheng Xiong, who was dressed in a groom's outfit, shouted: "Big niece, open the door quickly!" ”
The eldest niece, who was dressed very festively, was also very naughty and said: "This is not good! If you don't give red envelopes, you won't open the door".
As soon as the eldest niece here said, Cheng Xiong over there had already taken out a red envelope from his pocket, and the money in the red envelope was not much, only 5 yuan, which was a normal opening red envelope at that time. Cheng Xiong said outside: "Big niece, I'll hand you the money outside, you must take it." After speaking, Cheng Xiong stuffed the red envelope into the crack of the door. The little niece took out the red envelope along the crack in the door, stuffed it into her pocket, and then opened the door for Chengxiong.
"The bride is inside!" The little niece said, pointing to the door of the back room.
Cheng Xiong walked in the direction pointed by his little niece, opened the door, and picked up Yan Qing, who was wearing a bridal dress, and the atmosphere at that time was very cheerful. Cheng Xiong hugged Yan Qing all the way to the wedding car, the wedding car moved, the car that picked up the bride was about to drive away, Yan Qing's mother cried in the house, this is really a girl who got married, the water that was spilled, may really never come back.
Because the home was not far away, the wedding car quickly arrived.
The second brother of the Duanmu family specially came back from the army, and the eldest brother did not come back because of something. Seeing that the wedding car in the distance was about to drive into Duanmu's door, Cheng Qiang shouted: "The bride wants to enter the door, quickly release the whip."
After that, Cheng Qiang lit the firecrackers: "Crackling~Crackling~" The firecracker sounded. The sound of firecrackers was deafening, smoke was generated, and the wedding car drove in, accompanied by festive music.
Duanmu's house was full of people, relatives, colleagues, relatives and friends, and neighbors. The black pressure was overwhelming, and everyone was waiting for the daughter-in-law of the Duanmu family to enter the door.
The Duanmu family has already prepared a banquet, and I still remember that the last time the Duanmu family held a big feast, it was still Chengxiong's college banquet, but now it is already the male and the female are married.
People began to talk about the heroic things that Cheng Xiong had been admitted to university, and felt that time had flown by: "It's only been a few years, and the third child of the Duanmu family is now married to a daughter-in-law."
"yes, it's only been a few years. The third child has married a daughter-in-law, and next time he is coming, it should be that the third child has a child. ”
"Yes, next time, I'm going to have a child."
"Isn't that fast, it's just a blink of an eye."
After a while, the car stopped in the yard of Duanmu's house. Cheng Xiong hurriedly got out of the front door, opened the back door, and let Yan Qing get out of the car. At that time, the car door would not be opened, because this is also the rule, you need to get off the red envelope, this red envelope is generally given by the mother-in-law, in order to do a good job in the future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and the girl who enters the door is also her own daughter.
After a while, Wan's mother came over, because both of them were teachers, and there were no rules of the older generation. Wan's mother knocked on the car window, took out a red envelope from her pocket and said kindly: "Daughter-in-law, you take this red envelope for you." ”
Yan Qing hurriedly rolled down the car window, which showed her respect for her elders, and said to Wan Coad's mother: "Aunt Wan Co., thank you." After speaking, he accepted the red envelope, and at that time, he could not call the other party's parents "Dad" or "Mom" directly if he had not visited the church.
In this way, Yan Qing got out of the car and walked into the back room first, and Cheng Xiong also went into the back room, what are you doing? Sleep, but please don't think crookedly, don't do anything else, it's really sleeping. As the old saying goes, it's called: "round house".
The master of ceremonies outside said, "We have invited our two newcomers to appear today!" When there was a round of applause in the crowd, Cheng Xiong and Yan Qing walked out of the house.
"Worship heaven and earth!"
Cheng Xiong and Yan Qing bowed together to the side of the crowd.
"Second worship high hall!"
Cheng Xiong and Yan Qing turned around and bowed deeply to their parents and bowed again.
"Husband and wife worship each other!"
Cheng Xiong and Yan Qing came face to face and bowed again, and this traditional wedding was over.
The wedding master of ceremonies said with lotus plants: "Come! Everyone blessed the two newcomers with the warmest applause, and the result of their love was witnessed between heaven and earth......" After that, there was earth-shaking applause.
After that, it was another two-table meal and another busy day. Life is like this, in a hurry, complicated, a few relatives and friends of the same age made a hole in the house, and the marriage is over. For the Duanmu family: "A new family was born". For Cheng Xiong, he has become a family, and he can be regarded as a family person.
Cheng Xiong was still very hardworking at the beginning, and he was a small successful person. After graduating from college, having a good job, and now having a family again, it can be regarded as a small achievement. So in the ambition of Cheng at that time, he began to have the idea of starting a business. Of course, some people will ask, he has worked in the Sun Town Government, isn't this a career? In the eyes of others, this may be a career, but in Chengxiong's heart, he doesn't think so, he thinks that working in the town government can only be regarded as work, not as a career. He sometimes thinks of what the principal said at the graduation ceremony when he graduated, and he had a very special idea, he wanted to do his own business......