Chapter 323: To each according to his needs
Lin Qingrou didn't know what Song Miao and Jiang He said in the innermost room that day, or maybe they just drank tea silently and didn't exchange a word.
There is no way to know about this matter, because Lin Qingrou will not take the initiative to ask Song Miao, and Song Miao has no intention of saying it so far. Lin Qingrou only knew that Song Miao and Jiang He kept maintaining the relationship as they were now, as if they didn't exist for each other.
There is a bit of a rift in the relationship, and no matter how the rift is created, it will affect the lives of two people in the long run. What is the best glue for feelings, if you want Lin Qingrou to talk about it, it should be a child.
It's a pity that Song Miao and Jiang He haven't been able to get to this point yet. The time that the two of them spend with the child at the same time is almost equal to zero, and the child is either under Song Miao's care, or handed over to Jiang He for a short time to get along with for a while, and they have never been able to be like a real family.
Lin Qingrou saw all of this, the rift between Song Miao and Jiang He was so big that it was almost impossible to completely repair, but now it looked like it was trying to be forgotten. Even Song Miao herself didn't know if this attempt to forget would be effective.
But if Song Miao is not able to forget, or tries to let go successfully, then the relationship between her and Jiang He will always be two straight lines that intersect and then stagger apart, and there will never be a chance to re-integrate.
However, the only good thing is that after Xu Lu went through that embarrassing experience, she no longer appeared in front of Lin Qingrou and Song Miao. Jiang He also confessed that he had kept his distance from Xu Lu, and she never continued to look for him.
After relieving the pressure from Xu Lu, Jiang He looked much better. The only thing he was thinking about now was how to reconcile with Song Miao, he knew how stupid the mistakes he had made, so he was willing to try to change, and tried to impress Song Miao in any way and ask for forgiveness.
This is not a simple matter, nor is it an easy thing, which requires a lot of testing his patience, but Jiang He seems to be full of confidence. Lin Qingrou was very happy about this, she felt that Song Miao and Jiang He would slowly regain their original feelings.
The lost love can be found again by someone with a heart, but this kind of thing will not happen to Lin Qingrou. Therefore, she knew that she and Du Zeming were not married on the basis of feelings, so there was nothing to look for between them.
After so many entanglements, Lin Qingrou finally took a very solid step, in fact, since the last time she competed with Li Shujun, she has been working towards the goal she wants step by step.
Today she took another very substantive step, because she went out of her way to consult a lawyer about how to fight for Du Lin's custody in her current situation. After considering Du Lin's current growth environment and realizing that Du Zeming and Liu Anfei were not able to give Du Lin enough care.
Lin Qingrou finally set out to fight for Du Lin's custody. She came to a very well-known law firm in Nanming City today, and heard that the lawyers here are very good at handling divorce and marriage-related disputes.
"Miss Lin, in fact, generally speaking, children under the age of two tend to live with their mothers because of problems such as breastfeeding. If the child is over two years old, the better qualified parent will be given priority to raise the child. ”
"If a minor child is over the age of 10, they have the ability to express their opinions, which are dominated by their own subjective will, to solve the problem of living with their father or mother. Then, according to the information you provided, Miss Lin, you do not have an advantage at all from the above aspects. ”
Lin Qingrou asked with concern, "So, is there any other way?" ”
The old lawyer, who seemed to be experienced, thought for a moment and said, "In fact, parents can negotiate, and it is relatively common to take turns raising their children. ”
Lin Qingrou looked a little discouraged, because she knew that it was definitely not a feasible thing for Du Zeming to agree to raise the two in turn, not to mention that what she wanted was to completely win Du Lin back to her side, instead of being transferred around like a commodity.
Judging from the above conditions of the old lawyer, all the conditions that are favorable to Lin Qingrou are not valid now. For example, Du Lin is no longer a lactating child, and children over the age of ten can decide whether to live with their father or their mother according to their personal wishes.
Although Lin Qingrou is very confident that if he asks Du Lin's opinion, this little guy will definitely be inclined to live with him, but Du Lin is not yet ten years old. What is beneficial to Du Zeming is that he is far richer than Lin Qingrou, and he can provide Du Lin with better living conditions.
Therefore, it seems that Lin Qingrou has no chance of winning in this matter, so it is natural for her to feel frustrated. Originally, she thought that after such a long time, she should have the ability to compete with Du Zeming, but she didn't expect that her conditions were far from being able to do all this.
"Miss Lin, don't be too pessimistic. From the court's point of view, the most important principle is to award custody of the child to the party who is conducive to the child's future development. So as long as there is sufficient evidence that your ex-husband is not able to do this, then you have a good chance. ”
Lin Qingrou thanked: "I understand, thank you for answering these questions for me today." ”
"You're welcome, if you need help, feel free to contact me."
After meeting the lawyer, Lin Qingrou had a very unoptimistic attitude towards fighting for Du Lin's custody. Because she realized that Du Zeming was still so strong at the moment, she was unable to compete at all.
This incident made Lin Qingrou very frustrated, because the most important thing for her at the moment was about Du Lin's living environment, and every time this matter was evoked in her mind, she felt very anxious.
Just as Lin Qingrou walked out of this law firm, she met Liu Anfei who was about to go inside. This unexpected chance encounter made both of them feel a little embarrassed, but after a short period of surprise, Liu Anfei took the lead in regaining his former calmness.
Liu Anfei said to Lin Qingrou: "Miss Lin, why are you here?" Is it in immediate trouble? Maybe I can give you ideas. ”
Liu Anfei's words seemed very relaxed, and the embarrassment of that day had already disappeared on her face. With her keen observation, she quickly noticed a large pile of information in Lin Qingrou's hand, and she had already guessed a little bit of Lin Qingrou's intentions in her heart.
"Miss Lin, why don't we sit down and talk?" Liu Anfei suddenly proposed.
Lin Qingrou didn't want to get along with Liu Anfei so much, especially after experiencing what happened in the Du family that day. But Liu Anfei seemed to have completely forgotten about that incident, and returned to his usual enthusiasm for Lin Qingrou.
If there is any time in Lin Qingrou's life that is wasted, then the biggest possibility is that she has never learned how to resolutely reject others. So she was still invited by Liu Anfei to have coffee together.
The fragrant coffee shop is filled with the enticing aroma of coffee beans. Liu Anfei looks in a good mood today, just like the shallow dimples that she often shows on her cheeks. But Lin Qingrou was not able to be as easy as Liu Anfei.
The reason why Liu Anfei is so calm and relaxed is because she has always been a person with very strong adjustment ability. After all the previous experiences, Liu Anfei knows how to appreciate and encourage himself more than many people.
Although Liu Anfei was slapped by Du Zeming that day, her status in Du Zeming's mind did not seem to be affected. Because her feelings in the past few days are not much different from before, such a result has made Liu Anfei feel very comforted.
"So you want to fight for Linlin's custody back, right?" Liu Anfei suddenly asked.
Lin Qingrou didn't expect Liu Anfei to say it so bluntly, but she immediately nodded and admitted.
"The lawyer should have told you that your current situation is not very suitable for this. I think you'd better hold your back and look for a good opportunity to do that again. Liu Anfei seemed to be giving Lin Qingrou very professional advice.
Lin Qingrou felt that Liu Anfei had no malicious intent, so she confessed: "I also understand, but I don't like Linlin being locked up in a boarding school all day." He should feel more family affection and enjoy the family warmth he deserves at this age. ”
"But it's impossible for the Du family to give him this. Even I agree with this opinion, and I am even said to be your biological mother. ”
Lin Qingrou said: "That's right, so I have to be anxious." ”
Liu Anfei looked at Lin Qingrou and made a decision that she couldn't believe, "Then please let me be your lawyer." Use my professional means to put Linlin back into your hands, if you want to fight a lawsuit, I think I will definitely help you. ”
Lin Qingrou's eyes were not so convinced, but she knew that Liu Anfei had such an ability.
"Why are you helping me?"
Liu Anfei chuckled lightly and replied, "I know that you and Du Zeming are still in contact with each other, largely because of Du Lin. And I don't like that you have contact with Du Zeming because of Du Lin's matter, so I hope this can stop happening as soon as possible. ”
"Imagine that if you take Linlin away, then I can spend more time with Du Zeming. And you won't have any more reason to go to Du's house, wouldn't that be good? Everyone takes what they need? ”