Chapter XXVIII
My husband has been here for eight days, and his parents have been calling every day, and the last two days have been even more frequent. Huo Xiaorou knew that it was He Weiye's parents who summoned their son back, for fear that if it was a little late, who would snatch their son away. As for her husband, her heart has long flown away, and her face is becoming more and more sad day by day, and she and her children are becoming more and more perfunctory day by day. Last night's diaper was even more miserable and 'lying' on the ground for a day and a night, and finally she couldn't stand it anymore, and in order to avoid letting her mother see it, she had to take it to the toilet and wash it after tidying up the store - anyway, the confinement was just over.
"Hey!" He Weiye sighed for a long time, and found that Huo Xiaorou didn't pay attention to him at all, so he had to increase his sighing voice to attract his wife's attention. If his wife doesn't take the initiative to talk to him, how can he say what he wants to say? Thinking about it like this, the sigh and sigh really sighed out some real distress!
'If you don't speak first, you won't take the blame' is Ho Weiye's consistent routine, and no matter what happens, he resolutely avoids direct communication. It's like playing cards, speaking first is equal to showing the cards first, even if your card is big, you may be tricked! So, words, you have to force others to say it first!
As the saying goes, when the water is full, it overflows, and the same is true of the words, 'If you talk too much, you must take the blame' is another truth he summed up. Just like those famous people on the Internet recently, whether they are celebrities or experts, as long as they are popular enough, her (his) news will definitely fill the entire eyes and ears of the people who eat melons for a period of time, but if it continues like this, it won't take long to specify 'paste', which is a typical example of talking too much.
It's the same with husband and wife quarreling, if you quarrel without scruples, you will definitely get out of the way, and the daughter-in-law is a creature that is not the same thing as a female friend or girlfriend at all, if you think that a woman is as tender as water, then you are wrong, you must not be deceived by the way a woman looks before marriage - before marriage, both men and women are not telling the truth. A married woman likes to stare at trivial things all day long—anything she can see—looking for her husband's mistakes, and then write them all down, and when she gets angry with herself, she gets so angry that it eventually becomes a barrel of dynamite that doesn't know when, but always explodes.
However, this is not to say that there is no solution, and when a woman is angry, do not take any action to justify it, that is, let them say it. When they have almost lost their temper, the men must show some impatience appropriately, sarcastically every now and then, show seriously that they do not like to be talked back and forth, and then tell her that you have changed, that you have become different from before. At this time, it is time for the daughter-in-law to reflect on herself, and the more times she comes, they themselves will feel that they are talking nonsense. But you can't just take this kind of blow attitude, and say a few sweet words from time to time, so that she will feel that your heart loves her.
Women just like to cling to these ethereal things, they can give all their sincerity for a verbal promise without any guarantees, and they will also repeat and nagged every day in order to force their husbands to prove his love.
The party who is caught in love is always the losing party, so he has never told his wife that he loves her positively, and occasionally he is forced to do it, so he will say half a sentence - love you, is to make her never feel secure in him, so that he can really feel at ease, this is called strategy.
Although Huo Xiaorou became cloudy and sunny for a while after marrying him, he always felt that this - could make his wife feel a sense of insecurity - was his own ability, and it also gave him a sense of contentment, and his wife felt insecure, so she would stay by her husband's side honestly. To say that he was able to summarize such a useful truth not long after he got married, he still has to thank his parents, especially thanks to the usual habit of his parents' quarrel mode, which made him realize the way of getting along with husband and wife at once.
Huo Xiaorou didn't want to look at her husband's pretentious face at all now, but when she thought that her face had been lost, she had also told her parents that she would never regret it, not to mention that she had always adhered to the principle of 'since you have made a promise, you must not regret it easily'. So, she had to grit her teeth and make concessions - there is always a need for someone to make concessions between husband and wife, and it is not necessary for a man to make concessions. Now that I think about it, every time I quarrel with him, before she can say a few words, he begins to use a strange tone to deliberately anger her with a long sigh, if she can do it in time, he will still say some ugly things to hit her, so in the end it will always become 'he is too lazy to take care of her', and it will become a cold war that he decides to end at a time.
If he had anything he wanted to do, and she didn't approve of it and encourage him to do it, she was greeted with all sorts of cynicism. And often 'hum', ignore her. Who can imagine a thirty-one or twelve-year-old man with a scruffy beard facing a woman — 'Huh, nasty!' '—Spper? All along, she felt that such behavior was something that only adolescent girls, thirteen or fourteen-year-old girls, do.
"If your heart is not with me, go away!" Huo Xiaorou listened to her husband's sighs for an unknown number of times, and understood that her husband was trying to make her speak.
"But, you ...... with your child" He Weiye lowered his head, his tone seemed to be full of worry, but in fact, he was more worried about the attitude of Huo Xiaorou's parents, and he was afraid that his wife would say that he was careful, so he had to make a detour first.
"I'll take care of the kids, don't worry!" Huo Xiaorou disguised 'disdain' as 'considerate and generous', and said in a tone full of indifference.
"So, did you talk to your parents—that—" He Weiye stopped talking.
"I said it, they don't have any opinion on you going back, you can go back with confidence!" Huo Xiaorou had already noticed her husband's abnormal behavior, but then again, that clumsy performance was even worse than the acting skills of the traffic stars in the current TV series, she didn't want to notice it, but she couldn't do it at all!
Hearing his wife say this, He Weiye breathed a sigh of relief and finally put his mind at ease. Getting rid of the mental burden, he finally raised his head slightly, with an almost unbearable smile on the corner of his mouth, staring upwards at his wife like a second ha who had made a mistake and was forgiven, and said affectionately: "Actually, I mainly can't rest assured about you and the child, I-"
"Okay, don't you ink here, aren't you packed? Let's go, let's go! Her husband's hypocritical appearance made Huo Xiaorou very angry, and she didn't want to pretend to talk nonsense with her husband anymore. Shrugging her shoulders, she said indifferently: "Anyway, you can do whatever you like!" ”
"What do you mean? Hum! That's what you want me to go! Although He Weiye wanted to leave very much, when he heard that Huo Xiaorou drove him away, he was a little unhappy, and even a little angry.
"Don't you want to go?" Huo Xiaorou frowned, looked at her husband's face as if he had a mask, and snorted with a cold expression, as if he had brought a mask, and stopped talking. Did he think she was blind? Or do you think she's deaf? As long as he's not a fool, you can see how much he wants to leave!
"I can't bear you with the child, you know?" After He Weiye finished speaking, he pursed his lips and stared innocently at his wife's eyes for a long time, then stood up and sat on the edge of the bed, hugged his wife's shoulders vigorously, and said affectionately: "After I leave, you must take good care of yourself, take good care of the children, don't just think about the children, buy what you should eat, don't worry about the money, okay?" If you really can't afford to buy it, just send me a message and I'll send it to you! ”
He Weiye's words were like a special antidote, quickly eliminating all Huo Xiaorou's dissatisfaction, and even seemed to eliminate all the bad memories about him in her memory. Huo Xiaorou, who was moved, couldn't help but blame herself for thinking too badly of her husband, she grabbed her husband's right hand tightly, and said in an excited tone: "Well, I know, you too, you have to take good care of yourself." I have money, I will buy it myself if I need anything, you can go with confidence! I'll take videos and photos of your baby every day! ”
"Okay, you're the best! Come on, Momada! His wife's words relieved him of the last vestiges of worry, and he gently lifted his wife's head and took a hard sip on her lips excitedly—as hard and greedy as eating ice cream on the hottest day of summer, full of naked purpose and the slightest romance.
"Hmm......" Huo Xiaorou didn't say a complete word, it was already like melted ice cream, and the whole person was almost soft into a pool of sweet and greasy cream.
As a result, the two of them seemed to be like you and me, almost like going back to when they were just married, sweetly tired of the whole morning.
At half past three in the afternoon, at the urging of Si Damei's next phone call, He Weiye finally picked up his luggage, which had been packed the morning before, and set off.
Just five minutes after departure, He Weiye received a message from his wife, stopped the car, carefully looked at the signature at the end of the message, and immediately replied to a message. At this moment, he suddenly realized that he knew who he was better than ever, and the happiness that was about to overflow gently bloomed a bright smile on the corner of his mouth......
He Wenjia's mother Huo Xiaorou: No matter what, we must give priority to our marriage and children, I hope you will stand firm, I have done my best, now it's your turn, don't be untrustworthy! Our marriage is completely in the palm of your hand, remember, remember!
Huo Xiaorou's husband and He Wenjia's father He Weiye: Don't worry, believe me, I know what I have to do, I am your husband and Wenjia's father, I know everything!