There are a lot of feelings, and they are all feelings.

I used to see such a sentence, "Society is the best university, and life is the best teacher." ”

Recently, I feel that these two sentences are really too practical, although our life trajectories are different, but everyone will eventually enter the society, and spend the rest of their lives in the university of society, of course, returning to the mountains and forests, living a hermit life may be regarded as an exception, after all, there are very few such laymen

After all, society is also a university, and there should be a notice when you enter the university, and you can't compare what kind of people are easy to succeed in the university, because here, the score is not IQ locked, nor is EQ the final say. In the society, you will find that many people around you who have not gone to junior high school and high school have succeeded, but those who graduated from 985/211 are still struggling......

I feel that the society is still fair, why is it fair, most people's eyes are just staring at the surface of those successful people or the beautiful appearance of the rich second generation, only a few people will use their hearts and wisdom to explore how they got these, of course, some may be their parents or even several lifetimes saved, to their generation, you can enjoy all this comfortably without too much struggle, superior living conditions, great development opportunities, and some even sit and wait for success.

However, don't forget, all this is not all about raising your head every day, waiting for the sky to fall, these are all hard work bit by bit accumulation, give full play to your wisdom, know how to grasp the opportunity to earn, here I think the word "earn" is the best expression of all this

Maybe they didn't earn it themselves, but after all, they earned it. Of course, this is not complaining about our origins, but just to show that society is fair, she is fair to everyone, maybe your current conditions are not as good as others, your background is not as good as others, but stay where you are, complain about others, and in the end you are still inferior to others.

Maybe this is the first lesson we have to learn when we enter society, recognize ourselves.

Whether it is a student or a person who has no learning experience, the university of society is always fair, a point of hard work and a point of harvest, sometimes you may work hard at that time, there is no gain, but please firmly believe that the fairness and justice of society is not the cause and effect that the Buddha said, this is the eternal law of any era. Hard work will pay off.

In this class of knowing myself, I feel that I am not very successful, not that my IQ can't keep up, it's not that I don't work hard, the reason is comprehensive, I have been in the society for 5 years, of course, there are still a few months to be enough, but I feel that I have not stumbled in the past few years, I am also very hard, very hard work, very hard life, grateful for the past few years, let myself gradually mature, fade a little immature, and slowly understand all this.

I don't want to say what I have experienced in the past five years, you just need to think back to what you experienced in the first two years or one year of entering the society.

Some people may be smooth, I have been quite successful since I entered the society, what have I done in the past few years, I can only say that I am a little depressed. If you're lucky, you're in the minority after all!

Recently, I always wonder if I am adapting to the current environment, what is my role in this corner of society, is he a slight clown on the stage or an audience who is struggling to applaud off the stage?

Seriously position yourself, I think it should be the guy who handed the tea and water

Hehe, it's been a long time before I found my role, it's not easy, why do you say it's that guy, I occasionally appear in the audience's field of vision. However, there is still a long way to go before he goes on stage and plays a clown

Sometimes I feel like I appear in the audience's field of vision, but that momentary appearance is only when I refill most of the audience, or hand over snacks, or when the table needs to be cleaned, I will appear in the field of vision of the big guy

Now that I think about it, I may be a little disappointed, but I am more fortunate because I have a deeper understanding of myself, after all, there is only one stage, what is the opportunity is your own, what advantages do you have, you have not learned, you have not practiced, and it is a waste to give you the opportunity!

I think if that's the case, it's unfair to others, everyone wants to get, but if you are willing to give, you can only get if you give up, and the premise of getting is to give up. There is only one protagonist, and there will not be many supporting roles, not to mention group performances, which can only be said to be countless.

Some people will say that you should be the master of your own life.

I can't deny this statement, but if I think about it, can a broken ship overcome the wind and waves if it insists on itself and dominates itself?