I was really nervous yesterday, and I wanted to have some time, but I was very helpless!

I think this is a common problem for many young parents, the baby is more than a week, and the wife has to work and have no time to watch, so they can only be sent to their hometown, let the parents help bring it, and can only take the weekend to make time to pick it up, and the family of three will get together.

For us who have little experience, it can be said that the pressure is great, the original two adults, taking care of themselves can barely pass, plus a less than two weeks of him, it feels a little difficult, think about those who do not have the elderly or relatives to help take care of the children, we can only say that we admire from the bottom of our hearts, admire their persistence, and admire their ability to survive.

I wonder if this can resonate with everyone?

Many people have headaches, and I think in the past two days I have found out that I have a headache, taking children......

As the old saying goes, "raising children knows their parents' kindness", these two days have a deep experience, always feel that there is nothing to take a child, as long as you accompany him and make him happy, it can only be said that this is just an ideal state, it is estimated that he went to junior high school at least after the fourth or fifth grade of primary school

At this time, the child has to think about everything in front, take yesterday as an example, the time is not long, a total of seven or eight hours, when he rests, when he is hungry, how long he sleeps, how to coax him to sleep, how to hug him when he wakes up, whether he is unhappy, how to coax him when he loses his temper, how to make him obedient if he is disobedient, what to give him to eat, what to give him to eat, what not to give him......

It can only be said that it is not that simple.

Took him to the playground in the morning.

When I got there, I found that I really didn't know much about him, what he liked to play, whether he liked to be with children, I don't know, entering the game area, he has always had a soft spot for a toy car, and other children came to him to play, but just a simple look at people, there was still vigilance in his eyes, almost two hours, there were two waves of children came to play with him, it was like this, he was there quietly playing with the toy car.

There are joys and worries in my heart, the good thing is that maybe my baby has found something he likes since he was a child, although parents are expected to be a child, but they don't want to put too much pressure on the child, since he likes it, the kind he likes from the bottom of his heart, I think we won't let him go according to the life trajectory we designed anyway

After all, it's not realistic for everyone to have a really good grade, and if he has something he likes, I wonder why we don't support it

Two hours of gameplay, there's nothing to say, after all, the content of the game is really very single, on the way home, went to the supermarket, came out of the supermarket, the problem came

The baby is a little feverish, the feeling at that time is particularly nervous, the mood is inexplicably irritable, I think all kinds of tastes, parents have a deep experience, not yet promoted congratulations on how to imagine how difficult, at the same time pray for you, I hope you will not be too nervous, after all, children have a headache and brain fever, cold and fever are common symptoms, calmly faced, will not be much more difficult than completing a program.

The next thing was a mental operation, buying medicine to test his temperature, coaxing him to drink warm water, although he was very nervous, fortunately everything returned to normal.

The two of them tensed up and went home to tell their parents, in the parents' words, these are all trivial things, when, fever in the middle of the night, how do the elderly deal with it, when they have stomach upset, how do they deal with it, when they catch a cold and runny nose, how do they deal with it......

While admiring my parents, I am deeply ashamed that after I should retire and enjoy my old age, I still have to worry about our labor, and I thought about repaying them well, how to let them live a good retirement life, all of which have come to naught.

Although some people will say that the elderly like children, they can easily enjoy their old age, and I think no one will refuse it

Yesterday I felt the most about this, I felt the responsibility and difficulty of being a parent, and I also understood the urgency of honoring my parents and repaying my parents.