1450 The Law of Marriage (2)
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Originally, Gu Qianyu just thought about it with a bad taste, but she didn't expect that after she received the plot of this plane, the body master was really this request.
"......" Gu Qianyu.
The owner of this body is called Wang Yuanyuan, her parents died very early, and she lives with her grandmother.
The conditions of the owner's family are very poor, and the expenses are all spent by the owner's grandmother to help others do some farm work, and then go to the government to subsidize it.
Because the family conditions were too bad, and I felt sorry for my grandmother, the owner dropped out of school very early and went out to work.
When the owner reached the age of twenty, the people in the village told the owner about a family affair, and the man was from a neighboring village and was six years older than the owner.
After getting along with the owner for a few months, the man urged the owner to get married.
Getting married early in the countryside, coupled with the fact that the grandmother's health is getting worse and worse, the owner hopes that the grandmother can see her get married, so that the old people can rest assured, so they agreed to this family business.
It doesn't matter if you get married, the owner completely jumped into the fire pit.
The owner's in-laws are all a bunch of superb, the husband eats, drinks and gambles, the father-in-law is idle, and the mother-in-law is scathing, such a family is very devastating.
Before getting married, the grandmother didn't let people inquire about the man's family, but after all, it is not a village, and she will not know too much.
Even if someone knows the bottom line, people won't say anything about smashing the pot.
If the owner really broke off with the man because of gossip, and the matter spread to the man's house, and the man found the gossip family to make trouble, and asked you to compensate him for a daughter-in-law, what should you do?
So even if you ask someone, they will only say good things about the man, and will not say bad things, after all, more things are better than less things.
And although the owner's father-in-law has a bad reputation and is a well-known lazy man, the husband's reputation at that time was quite good, and he also went to college.
The body owner is only a junior Chinese certificate, she dropped out of school early to go out to work, although now college students are everywhere, but for the body owner who has not gone to school, college students are still quite attractive.
In addition, the owner's mind is relatively simple, and he feels that it doesn't matter if the man's father has a bad reputation, because the person who wants to live with her is her husband, not her husband, so she agreed.
The truth is not the case at all, love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families.
As a woman, after you marry your husband, first of all, you have to live in the man's house, if you meet a sensible mother-in-law, when you quarrel with your husband, no matter who is right or wrong, the mother-in-law will first talk about her son, and then calmly reason with her daughter-in-law.
Such a mother-in-law is conducive to family stability, but if you meet that kind of bitter mother-in-law, when you quarrel with your husband, she will only give your husband a fire and provoke the two of you to divorce.
The mother-in-law of the owner is such a person, every time the owner and the two quarrel, whether it is the fault of the owner or not, the mother-in-law will favor her son, and she will talk about the rights and wrongs of the owner behind her back.
Meeting the best mother-in-law is not the most bitter, the bitter thing is that you not only have a mother-in-law who loves to break the divide, but also a husband who has soft ears and can't distinguish between right and wrong.
The owner's husband is named Zhang Guoning, who graduated from college and started a small business, and then lost money and collapsed, becoming delicious and lazy.
When the owner went on a blind date with Zhang Guoning, Zhang Guoning had already failed in business, and he looked down on the owner with a junior high school education from the bottom of his bones.
But because of family conditions, girls with good conditions in all aspects can't look down on him, and he can't look down on girls with not very good conditions.
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Marriage rule 1: Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.
When you fall in love, you can be sweet and sweet with your partner, but after marriage, the parents are short, the mother-in-law is equivalent to the boss, the husband is equivalent to the colleague, you have an awkward quarrel with the colleague's husband, the good boss will adjust for you, let you shake hands and make peace, and the bad boss will pinch you and make you quarrel even more.
Therefore, the first rule of marriage is that it is very important to find a marriage partner, and the in-laws are very important, don't think that I only live with my husband, and other people don't care, this kind of thinking is wrong.
The girl who wants to get married should keep her eyes open and look at her in-laws, and the girl who is still early to get married should also understand this truth.
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