On the second day, Tan Yin went to visit Li's mother with medicinal wine.

Li Zheng and Zhang Ziqing both went out, only Li's mother was there, smeared her with medicinal wine, and massaged her for about half an hour, and Li's mother finally sighed comfortably.

"Yin girl's head is comfortable, in the end, she is a doctor." Mother Li praised.

Tan Yin replied with a smile: "Auntie likes it, I often come over to give you more presses." ”

Mother Li sat up, chatted with her for a few words, saw the golden hairpin on her head, and said, "I see that your golden hairpin is different from yesterday's!" ”

Tan Yin hurriedly said: "It was my grandmother who gave it to me, and she said that the little girl was younger and had more jewelry." ”

Mother Li smiled slightly: "When I was your age, who didn't like these jewelry." Later, there were so many places where the money was to be used, and they all had to be requisitioned, so how could they still use it on their own heads. ”

Tan Yin listened to what she said, she originally brought the golden hairpin to give it to her today, but she didn't know whether to send it or not.

"Men are the pillars of the family, and as women, we must consider everything to them, and in the end we can be ourselves."

"Auntie is right, I wrote it down." Tan Yin lowered her head and said in response.

"You are still too young, you can't figure out a lot of things, and you will regret it later. Yesterday, I heard your mother say that your cousin's marriage to the champion was withdrawn, what is the reason? Mother Li asked.

Tan Yin told the ins and outs, especially mentioning that Xu Linhai wanted to withdraw from the marriage, and the Gao family took the initiative to withdraw from the marriage. For fear of talking too much, the Xu family didn't mention those things later.

"When other people's families are rushing to go, how can the Gao family take the initiative to retreat! I have to let the Xu family fulfill the marriage contract! The marriage contract of the elders, so dare the Xu family really oppose it? This doesn't make sense, and it also affects their family's reputation. Mother Li disagreed.

Tan Yin always knew that Mother Li hoped that Li Zheng would rise to prominence, so that the wealth she had in her hands would be lost, and she might feel that the Gao family was extremely stupid!

"Auntie, Xu Linhai wasn't even a lifter at that time, and my grandfather's family didn't expect him to win the championship, but now that the marriage has been withdrawn, it's useless to talk about it." Tan Yin explained along with her words, not wanting to talk about this topic more.

Mother Li shook her head, quite hated that iron could not become steel, "Your grandfather's family is still too sincere, and if people ask you to quit, you will retreat." ”

Tan Yin pulled a smile and said reluctantly: "What Auntie said is true." ”

Mother Li looked at her elm head, her mouth snorted, and she said, "You didn't think of a way to continue this marriage?" ”

Tan Yin's eyes widened, she had already retreated, how to continue.

"This Xu Zhuangyuan is not engaged yet, you go to the Xu family with the kindness of your ancestors, unfilial piety is a big crime, and they have to reconsider." Mother Li saw that she was so unenlightened, and taught her hand in hand.

"It's not going to work!" Tan Yin said, thinking that my grandfather's family couldn't do this kind of thing.

Mother Xu sighed violently, and looked at Tan Yin with a little hatred that iron is not steel, "There are so many scholars in Dazhao, and they have studied hard for ten years, how many people are famous?" It's good for you, a champion lady slipped out of her hand like this, I feel sorry for the Gao family and your cousin. ”

Tan Yin pressed the unhappiness in her heart and said: "Don't feel sorry for the eldest lady, my cousin thinks it's okay, who can tell the matter of this fate!" It shows that the two don't have that fate. Auntie is still used to it when she first came? ”

Mother Li saw her change the topic, and said a little embarrassed: "If there is anything you are not used to, it's all good, not to mention that Zheng'er is here." You and Zheng'er grew up as childhood sweethearts, and I understand both of your thoughts, but I have a few things to explain to you. ”

Tan Yin saw that Mother Li cut to the point, and hurriedly sat upright, and said busily: "Auntie, please speak." ”

"You look good, you come from a scholarly family, you are smart and capable, and I am not too picky, but the first thing is that you must think about Zheng'er in everything, and you can't make yourself petty. Zheng'er said that if you can't marry, you will become a monk, I don't want to hear this kind of thing again. I worked hard to bring him up, but I didn't let him abandon his wife and future for a girl's family, and become a monk. ”

Tan Yin bowed her head and said, "Auntie, I understand your hard work, I didn't say this to him, and I don't dare to ask him to say this." ”

Li Mu nodded and continued: "I know this, otherwise I won't agree to your matter anyway." This second thing is that men are in charge of all major affairs in the family. Can't be like your grandfather's family, you can't withdraw such a good marriage for the sake of your daughter's family's careful thinking, will your cousin still be able to find such a good family affair in the future? Have you ever thought about how much influence your grandfather's family has on the Gao family with and without such a son-in-law? God gave you a night pearl, so that you can smash it with your own hands, my Li family must not be like this. ”

Tan Yin nodded.

"The third thing is simplicity. Your mother was born in a rich family, she is a well-known beauty, she dresses up fashionably, she can not change her clothes for a month, and the jewelry on her head is not suitable for a box. You don't look like your mother so much as your father, but you have a lot of clothes and jewelry. In the future, I don't know how much money you need to use to get married and live, and you will spend a lot of silver taels on social exchanges and gifts, so you have to save some money yourself. You can do these three things. ”

Tan Yin was a little depressed in her heart, but she also understood that Mother Li was different from her mother, and it was understandable for her to think like this. replied: "Auntie, you are right, you are thinking about Ru Cheng and this family, I understand, I will honor you with Ru Cheng in the future." ”

Mother Li nodded approvingly.

When she got home, Mrs. Tan asked her about the situation, and she only said that Mother Li was very good to her, and Mrs. Tan's worry inevitably decreased.

After that, Tan Yin often went to Li's house, sometimes taking care of Li's mother, sometimes taking care of Li Zheng. Although Mother Li was not as kind as she was in front of Mrs. Tan, she didn't give her a look, and Tan Yin didn't expect Mother Li to treat her like she treated her daughter, but only looked forward to seeing Li Zheng's face and doing her best, which made the two of them happy.