"You haven't been deeply involved in her hobbies, what qualifications do you have to criticize her hobbies?" Lu Lin felt quite intolerable about Mo Yan's disdain for his daughter's hobbies, "You don't know what she's doing, just because you see that these people seem to be doing some strange things, you insist that these things she does are very boring and improper, don't you think it's very stupid to think so?"

"You, you say I'm stupid?" Mo Yan became even more angry, "She's just doing something improper! What serious person doesn't spend his time at work and family? Which serious person doesn't work hard or work hard? What serious person would dress up all day long and walk around the house, or hang out with other strange, nondescript people in other strange and nondescript dresses, and run around like a madman?"

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"Isn't it just playing that kind of boring role-playing?heh, it's a fictional story, and you're still so addicted, isn't this the practice of stupid people?" Mo Yan can be said to be very sneering at what role-playing or something like that, he sneered, and said again, "The world is cruel, and I don't want to accept reality, but I want to hide myself in a false role-play, and I want to do my best to hide myself in the illusion through those stage performances and boredom, and try my best to hide myself in the illusion?"

Lu Lin shook his head, "You haven't been to the water yourself, how do you know that this water can't swim? According to what you say, people's dreams are all fake, if a person dreams, then he is also guilty-okay, dreaming is unavoidable, so even you, there have been times when you still linger on dreams after dreaming, so are you also stupid at this time?

"This is her hobby, no matter what, as a father, shouldn't you find out your daughter's hobby yourself first, and then make the right judgment?"

"Her hobbies, I don't exclude. Mo Yan sneered again and continued, "She likes to sing poetry, okay, I'll hire the best teacher for her, she likes to play escape rooms, okay, I'll pay for it myself...... But I really can't accept her hobby. Tell me about a group of good young people who actually allowed themselves to escape into the illusion, and even dressed themselves up in fancy and bells, and then wasted their youth in a mess! Should this kind of thing be admitted?!"

Lu Lin shook his head, "Although I'm not very interested in this kind of role-playing, I at least know what they're doing. I know that most of the people who like this kind of people are young people, and you will think that we are wasting our youth and indulging in illusion, and that is because we know the cruelty of the world, we know the cruelty that we will face in the future, and we also know that these are the things we have to face, and we can't avoid them - but we at least have the power to defend. Escaping into another illusory world is our way of retreating. By being in the other world of our reverie, we do what we can't do in reality, and we get what we can't get in reality. ”

"We are new people who have not yet started in front of society, but we have achieved something in another world, doesn't this give us more confidence to face the cruelty of the world? It's just that because the form of embodiment is a bit strange, it has been opposed by others, then I really have nothing to say, I'm sorry that we young people are so direct, and we don't know how to package our own things to make others acceptable. ”

Mo Yan wanted to say something, but Lu Lin hurriedly continued, "Have you ever had an in-depth understanding of your daughter's hobbies? All you know is that your daughter spends her time on boring things that don't seem to make any sense. And you feel that this is a kind of depravity and irresponsibility of your daughter. Why? Because you feel that your daughter has to take on the responsibility of the three great cities...... I asked, "Why does your daughter have to take on the responsibility of the three major cities?"

"You are the lord of the city, but it does not mean that your daughter is the lord of the city. Lu Lin became more and more angry the more he said, "Yes, she is also a member of the three major cities, and she has the obligation to contribute her own strength to the three major cities, but you must be clear, this does not mean that she has to bear the responsibility on you, why do you put your own thoughts and responsibilities on her? She is her, you are you, indeed, the future you envision for her must be a less suffering and easier way to walk, but so what? The road is our walk, and we didn't even ask how we should go, and we just directly pressed the weight of this road on her, what is this?!"

"I have never been deeply involved in my daughter's hobbies, so I blindly rely on my own views and add all my opinions and ideas to my daughter. Is it right to veto your daughter's ideas and hobbies in one breath, just because this hobby doesn't seem to be recognized by you?" Lu Lin yelled at Mo Yan very angrily, "Even if it's a child's hobby, it's a hobby, why do you want to extinguish this hobby that has existed for more than ten years? Just because of the salt you eat?" Anyway, it's your daughter's decision and her idea, she's sixteen or seventeen years old, she's already capable of thinking, and you don't take her thoughts seriously at all, do you think that's right?"

"You are her father, and it is your power to discipline your daughter, there is no doubt about that. But I just want to say, don't beat your daughter's thoughts to death just because you don't see the benefits of your daughter's hobbies. Lu Lin controlled his emotions and suddenly said very slowly, "Your daughter is a very good girl. She loves you very much, she knows very well that you are good to her, although she often puts the words that hate you in her mouth, but she is very partial to you in her heart, because you are her favorite father. ”

"But when you tell your relatives and children in front of her that you should practice hard in the future, don't be like Sister Yi Ming, who is like a neurotic. Have you considered her feelings?" Lu Lin took a deep breath, stared at Mo Yan and asked, "Have you considered how uncomfortable she is?" she just wants to get the affirmation and support of her family. And you, not only ignored her thoughts and the desire for your approval in your heart, but even trampled on her ideas in public, is it really good to do this? Is it really right?"

I would like to use this chapter to remember my past that has passed

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